reasons why i dont pursue asian girls anymore

[racerX]

For a few years i had "asian fever" & was nuts about asian girls. I am a white dude & asian babes really turned me on. They usually watch what they eat & are thin. I also love dark hair, dark features & exotic looks, so I dated asian girls for a while & had a 3 year relationship w/ a vietnamese babe that was 7 years younger than me. Now there are exeptions to everything, but it seems that asian girls are a little more materialistic than white or hispanic babes. This is generally speaking. If you go to the upscale shoe stores at your local mall it always seems like asian girls are in there. Here in l.a. it is a known fact that if you dont drive a Mercedes or BMW, asian girls wont waste there time w/ you. It seems from my experiences, that hispanic girls are the LEAST materialistic & white girls are somewhere in between. I suppose it has to do more w/ how good looking they are compared to the ethnic background if they are materialistic. The better looking a girl is the more richer of a guy she will pursue. This has always been the case. Even in caveman times, the caveman that could feed & protect his wife/family the best was the caveman w/ the most women or more desirable women. I think i will pusue average looking babes because there is less a chance of them dumping me for a rich dude. I am not rich. Of course, there are exceptions, your mileage may vary.. What do you guys think of all this? Maybe i listen to Tom Lykis too much...

 

[Chaos-Knight]

I still think asians are hot - It's just my taste
but I favor japanese the most.

I believe that Every race has good ones and Bad ones,
If Any race of gal is in it for money it's all the same,
But if she grew up poor perhaps she'd not care
for money.

And lastly if I guy is really FUN/funny and keeps her IL High
then money and looks should not matter.

just my 2 bits...

 

[Captain Anonymous]

Say: "I'm white, I've got a good car, and I've got muscles." And watch them swarm.

Seriously, it has to be said: You can't apply this generalisation to an entire race of females. While the stereotype does seem to fit your description, I've met some very deep Asian girls, one of which is a good friend of mine.

It's funny that you mention going through an 'Asian fever' though, I went through the same thing, and I know that a lot of other guys do also. You might have just found a bad few.

Anyways, good luck if you wish to persue it.

 

[OddTech]

Originally posted by Captain Anonymous
Seriously, it has to be said: You can't apply this generalisation to an entire race of females. While the stereotype does seem to fit your description, I've met some very deep Asian girls, one of which is a good friend of mine.

It's funny that you mention going through an 'Asian fever' though, I went through the same thing, and I know that a lot of other guys do also. You might have just found a bad few.

Word up to Captain. Just take a "break" with asian girls for awhile. BTW, who's Tom Lykis?

 

[Jay26]

Here in l.a. it is a known fact that if you dont drive a Mercedes or BMW, asian girls wont waste there time w/ you.

Why would you want to waste any time with girls like this anyway?

 

[comote]

I have also dated a coubple of asian girls, one was pretty much everything you said, shallow and materialistic. While the other was one of the sweetest most down to earth women I have ever met.

 

[Vegas Playa]

Do what you need to so , racerx. It just means that there will be more Asians for the rest of us to throw the mack down on.

I've recently come to a similar conclusion about white girls, insofar as I've concluded that a higher percentage of them are cold, have bad attitudes, and are ****ed-up in the head more than girls of other races-----particularly white girls born in the U.S.

Anyway, that's my 2 cents

 

[HappyHobo]

Saying that mostly Asian girls are the materialistic type of

women.... is like a child saying all dogs are malicious.

Why would a child say somethign like this?

Because allt he dogs a child has ever encountered attacked him..

As a result, his mind tells him that all dogs are malicious..

THis is how you are thinking.... the asian girls you have met are

materialisitic you say.... they may be ..... but only the ones YOU

have met..... and because this experience has recurred for you ...

you generalize it to the racial ethnicity.

Dont worry you are not the only one who does this.... I have

done it myself , but its something we all need to endeavor to change.

 

[BvrEngr2006]

hm well this might be a little biased cuz I'm AZN myself but I think I have to agree with some of the people here that you may have just gotten some bad apples. I don't really notice a difference between white and azn girls they all act the same to me...

Sometimes with azn parents, they are big on seeing their daughter marry a powerful man... and therefore this might rub off on the daughter and she'll get all stuckup and **** and therefore the BMW and Mercedes are all that will do. But then again I'm sure a lot of white-upper-class folks are like this too.

Don't let any of this discourage you... MONEY ISN'T EVERYTHING... if a girl truly only cares about that **** than forget about her.

 

[MDgood]

Originally posted by comote
I have also dated a coubple of asian girls, one was pretty much everything you said, shallow and materialistic. While the other was one of the sweetest most down to earth women I have ever met.

Same thing with me. I know so many asian girls, and they really run the spectrum. I almost think it boils down to their desire to win approval from their parents... like if their parents want them to date rich asians, the daughters go for rich asians... if the parents don't care, the daughters don't care.

Funny thing, the younger asian girls I know all tend to think that white guys won't be interested in them because they look different. I try to explain to them that white guys generally are very attracted to asian women.

 

[STR8UP]

I will admit I don't have much experience here, but the one that I recently started dating is pretty much the opposite of what you describe.

Believe me, I can spot a materialistic ho a mile away and she ain't gettin anywhere near me.

I worked too damn hard for what I got.

 

[becker]

It's funny how white guys often go for asian girls, but white girls don't go for asian guys as often.

 

[jakethasnake]

Uh, oh, I smell a small **** joke coming. LOL. You f***ing whiteboys. j/k. It's all good. Ya'll are the ones who make up all these dumbass rumors anyway.


racerX:

Don't blame your utter lack of game on Asian girls. Asian girls are probably the easiest girls (on par with white girls) after Latinas. Sure they are superficial. But they are still human and respond to good looks. Maybe you're too plain? Or maybe they smell your Asian fetish from miles away. Most sane Asian girls, except the ones that grew up very white or are ashamed of their own background, are very conscious of some creepy whiteboy using them for 'sum dim sum', if ya get my drift. So basically, your game is weaksauce, and you're not fit enough for the Game, fool. Step back, and sit yo' ass down boy.


Having said that, I respect that it is the choice of the Asian female or the white male to date each other, because I exercise my right to date white girl when and if I choose or want to. I'm quite fond of white girls myself. Therefore I don't usually get my undies in a bunch when I see an Asian ***** with a whiteboy. No biggie.


But I do notice that a great majority of the white guys who tend to go for Asian girls tend to be.... somewhat awkward, smaller in stature, and sometimes effeminate. A lot of Asian girls tend to be more partial to white dudes when Asian guys aren't in the picture, rather than black or mexican guys. But they are often intimidated by the typical 35-inch bicep, testerore-outta-his-ass alpha male white guy types that the white *****es tend to favor. That's because Asian women are small themselves, and the culture they come from is definately more gentle, more AFC. The physical side of things aren't as emphasized in Asian culture or countries. By 'culture', I'm not talking about eggrolls (ya dumbf***s ) or stirfry. I'm talking about people's mindsets that were formed over centuries.

On the same note, the white girls that go for Asian guys tend not to be the girls who strip part-time downtown or are on the volleyball team or have inflatable breasts or are the model-actress-callgirl types. They tend to be more educated, and more cerebral... and yes, more nerdy. Not necessarily ugly because they are nerdy, but the white girls that do date Asian guys tend to have a 'brainiac' side to them. I see that as a damn good thing.



Basically, those are the things that I've noticed and observed about Asians dating whites.


As for more white guys dating Asian girls, I think that is definately true. It's probably a not-so-subtle case of cultural absorbtion; of cultural-colonization. Asians are the immigrant groups trying to find a place in the white majority, so they have to be subordinate to them. And in that racial power structure, women (white or Asian) will naturally be more drawn to those in power. So in that sense, that might explain why Asian women are more strongly drawn to white men than white girls are drawn to Asian men, at this present state. It's the classic case of the immigrants getting f***ed in the ass by the more established until they leave em the f*** alone. The Anglos did the same s*** to the Irish and Italians when they first came last century. It's the Mexicans' and Asians' turn now.... ah, American is f***ing annoying like that, but I still love it. Hehehe...


All this is all changing though. Asian men are starting to ask white women out, and some white girls like us yella fellas. I know that for a fact. There are still plenty of Asian women who date white men, but only a tiny fraction probably exclusively date white men. Actually, it's probably the same 100 or so that are being passed around from white guy to white guy in every city.... ya'll can keep those ones.

 

[ulsterman]

I could never fall for an asian babe; for me it usually has to be my own kind, white Anglo-Saxons, although some Slavic chicks are okay, plus there are loads of nice Italian girls. And today I met my old acquaintance from last summer, Adriana, from Spain (she's back in NI for the summer), and she is twice as gorgeous as last year; but for a Spaniard, she's very pale and has blonde hair, so maybe that's why I fancy her... Plus she's amazingly flirty and sexy, unlike the sad miserable cows native to this place.

 

[xenopus]

Anglo-saxon white boys who think asian females are 'easy' and that they are god's gift to asian women should read this article . I was laughing my a*s off. well funny!!




A brief profile of Asian women afflicted with "white fever"

ORIGINS: A subset of women of Asian ethnicity, usually found residing in major U.S. cities, although they have been known to appear overseas occasionally. Closely related to their cousins, Yellow Cabs (Japan), Gwei-Po's (Hong Kong), Sarong Party Girls (Singapore), Twinkies and Bananas.

NOT TO BE CONFUSED WITH: Intelligent, emotionally-secure women who are free of identity problems, self-hate, racial prejudice and chips on their shoulders.

CHARACTER TRAITS:

Poorly developed self-identity. Pathetically insecure with themselves and their ethnicity.


Resentment of father's traditional, authoritarian upbringing (whether real or perceived).


Brainwashed into believing that they, as AF's, are more desirable than other women in an exotic lotus blossum kinda way. Willingness to pander to western media sexual stereotypes of AF's, which they perceive as a marketing advantage.


Thoroughly whitewashed. Desperate need to fit into "mainstream" (i.e. white) society and to distance themselves from their Asian heritage. Racial inferiority complex.


Feigned air of superiority when dealing with members of own race and any other minority groups. In need of major attitude adjustments.


Exaggerated, whiny, Encino-esque valley girl accent.


Delusions of grandeur..."I want it all...and that begins with the right (i.e. white) guy...". Asian-American princess complex.


Uncanny ability to determine one's nationality, occupation, earnings capacity and make of auto within three minutes of commencing a conversation.


Exaggerated perception of white males' value in increasing AF's social status.


Ignorant and narrow-minded, eager to adopt and perpetuate fallacious western media stereotypes of Asian men.


A compulsion to trash Asians, particularly Asian men, in order to justify their autoracist tendencies, placate their guilt and bolster their self esteem.


Extremely shallow, self centered, argumentative and boring


Disdains ethnic studies; regards it as a major threat to her carefully constructed, self-deceptive whiggie identity


Despises all Asian men, with the occasional exception of their brothers (after all, they share the same genes)


Believes that racism does not exist because she, as an AF, has never experienced it first hand, or is too dense to realize it. Besides, those asiaphiles are so nice to her (while plotting to get into her pants)


Gets a warm fuzzy feeling when watching The Joy Luck Club, while snuggled up to her geeky asiaphile boyfriend.


Believes that the only reason an Asian person would disrespect her is because they are racist


Has lost count of how many WM's she's done this month


The wet-dream come true for socially-handicapped caucasian nerds who are unable to attract caucasian women


Threatened and insecure in the presence of any culturally-perceptive Asian person or any AM not fitting her stereotype of the quiet, marginalized, "model minority" geek


Fundamentally insecure, utterly confused, lacking in self-respect


Many aging whiggies, after being used and abandoned by WM's in favor of younger, more nubile whiggies and being rejected by AM's who see through their transparency, develop a bitterness towards all men, period.


Denial of all of the above

FACIAL EXPRESSIONS:

a) Look of contempt when eyes meet those of any non-white male, converting to beaming grin upon sighting of WM victim/target;

b) terminal pout or

c) bimbo-ish expression that defies
deep thought.

TYPICAL ATTIRE: Anything trendy, mainstream-looking and seductive (especially if it's black and tight). Big hair (perhaps their most valuable asset) tossed with hand every 15 seconds. Wonderbra. Fanatical whiggies have been known to undergo certain procedures such as eyelid
surgery, breast augmentation and vaginal tightening operations in order to increase their marketability to WM's. Blue contact lenses and bleached-blonde hair have even been sported on occasion. Note: attire may vary depending on the specific type of WM being targeted.

I.Q.: Too low to measure.

NATURAL HABITAT: Personal ad columns ("exotic, slim, SAF seeks successful, generous SWM", cheerleading squads, sorority houses (role: token "oriental sisters", T.V. newsdesks,
B-grade Kung-Fu flicks, trendy nightclubs (usually found necking with aging WM's), Chinese restaurants (slumming with the WM and demonstrating that she's "in touch with her heritage", anywhere else frequented by white males.

TYPICAL WHIGGIE QUIPS:

age 10: "Mom, why do we have to be (Chinese/Japanese/Korean)? Do you have to dress like that? And what's with dad and his accent?

age 12: "Mom, I want an eyelid job for Christmas, okay?

Later on...

"I've always only dated white guys. I don't know why, I just have."

"Race doesn't matter. I just happen to like white guys. It';s just a preference."

"We are the world, we are the children...We....."

"I've gone out with all kinds of guys...Dutch, English, French, German, you name it. Even went out with a Jewish guy once! After all, love is color blind."

"Eeeew, Jennifer, how could you go out with that (insert minority group here) guy!? Totally gross!"

"Ooh, Roger, you're like, soooo strong and intelligent. Did you say you drive a beemer? Kewl! (giggle)"

"I want learn English better...you maybe teach, handsome man? Are you U.S. citizen?" (yes FOB's can be whiggies too!)

"Like why would I want to go out with an Asian guy? They don't own me or anything. Uhh, and besides, they're all male chauvinists..and domineering too...yeah, that's it! Didn't you see The Joy Luck Club?"

Like, I'm dating *out* of my race, so how can I be racist?!! Duh!!

CLOSELY RELATED TO: Racists, bigots, wannabes, ho's, chameleons, white supremecists, a fish out of water

MEDIA REPRESENTATION/ROLE MODELS: Connie Chung, Amy Tan, Lisa Ling, Margaret Cho, Sheryl Wu Dunn, any of The Joy Luck Club protagonists (except the one who married an Asian dude).

NATURAL COUNTERPARTS: Asiaphiles...who else?





Any thoughts at all??

 

[STR8UP]

Asiaphiles....that's funny.