Reasons a woman only meets up once?

[GreatHornedOwl]

This has been happening recently, and it never used to. If there was no interest, she wouldn't meet up at all. And they're not getting a free dinner; we're having 1 or 2 drinks. Sometimes they even offer to pay for their own (which I actually take as a bad sign).

I know it's hard to tell for sure, but any ideas?

 

[SargeMaximus]

You didn’t escalate to sex

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

Not every woman is a slvt dude.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Not every woman is a slvt dude.

Yeah actually they are. If you gave her what she wanted she’d want to see you again. Therefore you can only conclude that you didn’t.

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

I don't know what you mean by that.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I don't know what you mean by that.

Are you a virgin?

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

My body count is approaching 100.

This only meeting up one time rubs me the wrong way, though. Never understood it. Getting the number, texting, planning the date, they agree to meet up. We have drinks, and then... never seen them again.

It bugs me more than getting rejected when I ask for the number.

 

[SargeMaximus]

My body count is approaching 100.

This only meeting up one time rubs me the wrong way, though. Never understood it. Getting the number, texting, planning the date, they agree to meet up. We have drinks, and then... never seen them again.

It bugs me more than getting rejected when I ask for the number.

well ime it’s because she wants sex and I didn’t escalate

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

That doesn't make sense. She could just get it on the second date then.

 

[DT6060]

New here. Is the 4-12 hours before seduction rule articulated in mystery method still thought to be the best practice? Typically this time requirement would not be achieved on the first date.

 

[SargeMaximus]

That doesn't make sense. She could just get it on the second date then.

Yeah you must be a virgin/troll. Ignoring

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

You think every chick is going to let you escalate to sex the first time she meets you? Who's the troll here?
What I'm saying is with each date a woman knows you're trying to progress things.

 

[Striker_93]

They went on the 1st date and didn't find you attractive or interesting enough so they ghost you, very common, don't understand why it's such a "big surprising" thing for you, this is what women do when there not interested.

 

[Striker_93]

You think every chick is going to let you escalate to sex the first time she meets you?

Your right, these women your meeting are just not interested in you. Keep pulling

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

They went on the 1st date and didn't find you attractive or interesting enough so they ghost you, very common, don't understand why it's such a "big surprising" thing for you, this is what women do when there not interested.

These women knew what I looked liked. We exchanged many pictures before meeting up. And interesting? These women are more boring than me on my worst day.

 

[EyeBRollin]

She’s just not feeling you.

 

[Striker_93]

These women knew what I looked liked. We exchanged many pictures before meeting up. And interesting? These women are more boring than me on my worst day.

None of that matters, it's not about how you look, it's about the way you communicate and engage with them, just except those women weren't interested, for whatever reason.

 

[Mazer]

Are you doing anything different compared to the time you were having success? If it’s OLD, are your pictures a true representation of yourself? If you were having success in the past, I don’t see why you wouldn’t now. Good luck.

 

[momentomori]

Often times it's just because she's just not in the "mood". Don't try to apply logic to women's behavior. They operate based on what they feel in the moment. Don't take a woman ghosting personally. There may be some things on your end you can alter, but more often than not it's just the randomness of women.

 

[metalwater]

vibe.

your vibe has changed.

you may or may not know why; likely why your asking. its a decent question.

if you don't know what has changed for you that would affect your vibe then just start focusing on vibe positive things. its like when you can't see the target in the dark use a shotgun.

- lift/run
- get EXCITED about advancing your money
- if you watch tv; focus on some funny stuff like Sienfield, no serious drama stuff.

one of the other posters linked to a video of a dancing ice cream man.. that dude is showing a vibe..