Really simply technique to get over fear!

[Royal Elite]

The next time you need to call a girl up, or approach a girl all you need to do is treat her as if she was your best friend. I mean you actual best friend that you hang out with all the time and talk about women too.

How do you call you buddy up and ask him to go out?
You just call say wassup and do it!
How do you tell you best friend you are coming to hang?
You call him and tell him you are coming to hang!

And if he gives you lame answer why not you give him a better answer of why yes!

Treat them the exact same way you would you best friend and fear is usally non existent!

 

[syncmaster]

Despite being really simple this is extremley effective. I use it all the time and it works like a charm.


Hint: Should be moved to tips

 

[S0LID]

wow, i like it!

 

[Jariel]

Good point! I generally treat most people as if I know them as friends and it does work well. It helps overcome fears, barriers and awkwardness, and they feel like they know you and warm to you quicker.

The first time I ever spoke to this particular girl (who I'm now dating) I actually told her I was going to be her new best friend. Within 10 minutes of meeting her I was introducing her round as my new best friend and telling my other friends they've been replaced. I admit, it was a bit of a performance, but I totally disregarded any barriers between us and by the end of the night it literally felt like we'd known each other for ages.

 

[Royal Elite]

There is nothing new under the sun!

Originally posted by Jariel
Good point! I generally treat most people as if I know them as friends and it does work well. It helps overcome fears, barriers and awkwardness, and they feel like they know you and warm to you quicker.

The first time I ever spoke to this particular girl (who I'm now dating) I actually told her I was going to be her new best friend. Within 10 minutes of meeting her I was introducing her round as my new best friend and telling my other friends they've been replaced. I admit, it was a bit of a performance, but I totally disregarded any barriers between us and by the end of the night it literally felt like we'd known each other for ages.

Since this has worded once for you, it is not theory, and therefore can work again. Do not and I repeat do not look for any other technique this one works perfect and therefore do it over and over until you die!

Interesting thing about humans-we ofter repeat things that are not working and abandon the things that do!

"If it aint broke don't fix it"

excellent job

 

[Danny001]

Right On! Let us not complicate the simple things.