I just got done with an insecure plate... Way too much maintenance required.
Met her at a bar and we hit it off from the start. She worshiped me and seemed to be the total package at first (9.0 in looks, really intelligent, witty, hilarious, and just fun to be around).
Anyway one Sunday, slowly but surely, she started to reveal a dark past (hated her parents, doesn't really have any close friends, lies a lot, etc.)
This always was in the back of my mind, but I have other options, so I didn't really think much of it.
She then takes me up to her place and things are getting hot and heavy and it's on. Suddenly, I get this weird gut feeling.
I tell her that something doesn't feel right and that I should go. She stops me, almost crying and says "I have something to tell you... I took a year off of school because I was raped and was on suicide watch." So I freak out a bit.
I push through my emotions and end up fvcking her anyways, really abusively, almost like a rape fantasy.
I leave and she texts me to call her sometime in the next few days.
I'm bored and want to fvck and give her a call. We meet at starbucks by her university and she looks pissed. Supposedly, that fateful night, I called her "damaged goods" while we were fvcking and her roommates thought I was a psycho and told her to never to talk to me (...yet, she texted me anyways). She thanks me for meeting with her, but says that she has plans with another guy for the night... I'm pissed. I tell her that my plans are way better and that she should cancel with this other guy. I give her this intense staredown and she whips out her phone and cancels the plans with the other dude on the spot with me watching.
So we take a spontaneous trip to Disneyland for the night, I make her cvm on Pirates of the Caribbean, yadda yadda yadda, and she then tells me that two of the people next to us at Starbucks were her friends who were watching our conversation and spying on me for her the whole time. Greaatttt... another red flag.
After that, I'm pretty much done with this chick. We rent a motel room, end up fvcking again and I make her cvm. Unfortunately for me, she's way too inexperienced, so I had to teach her for an hour and a half how to give a proper BJ. When she couldn't get me to cvm, she started to cry and it was just a really awkward situation for me. I try my best to comfort her, but in the back of my mind I just want to leave.
I had yet to reach an orgasm with this chick... She needed a lot of work. However, she told me that she slept with 9 guys (another red flag, chicks shouldn't openly tell you how many guys they sleep with.)
Well, I drop her off the next morning and go about the rest of the week.
I get a text almost a week later telling me that she found a guy who is a better fit for her, who is less experienced, and who is more convenient for her and she cannot see me anymore. She also tells me that she lied about the number of guys she slept with (I was number 7) and she thanks me for teaching her how to give a proper BJ, because she feels incredibly more confident now.
I wish her well and remind her that the new guy is a really lucky dude (he's gonna need all the luck in the world with this girl.)
In sum, Trust Your Gut, Don't Get Attached, and Pump and Dump with insecure girls.
