mr.uk
Don Juan
thats embarrassing to admit even to people such as yourselves who i dont know and probably never will.
fine on my own, but when im getting intimate with a girl, i put so much pressure and importance on "getting one up" that sometimes i cant and at best i get half way. ive had sex twice when i was 15 (3 damn years ago!) but even then i had a different problem where i couldnt ***. there is no physical problem, its just a complete mental block. i get really nervous, as if its a performance based sport.
i literally just cannot relax when getting physical with a woman.
can anyone give me some advise how to get over this please because its causing me to avoid going beyond flirting with girls because im scared to.
fine on my own, but when im getting intimate with a girl, i put so much pressure and importance on "getting one up" that sometimes i cant and at best i get half way. ive had sex twice when i was 15 (3 damn years ago!) but even then i had a different problem where i couldnt ***. there is no physical problem, its just a complete mental block. i get really nervous, as if its a performance based sport.
i literally just cannot relax when getting physical with a woman.
can anyone give me some advise how to get over this please because its causing me to avoid going beyond flirting with girls because im scared to.