REALLY dont understand whats going on!!

[Man Of Adventure]

Are you going in at an abrupt time or does it seem natural when youre doing it? Maybe she thinks it isnt natural. I dunno...I was told to play with the back of her hair before I go in and I dont think its ever failed me. I had a time where a girl went in on me after doing that. (never expect that though.....Im just sayin man.) David DeAngelo also mentions this in DYD...if ya ever read the bridges manual or Sex Secrets; one of those two.

 

[silenthill]

Guys should I ask her out for friday or wait?

 

[silenthill]

Well I asked her. She said yes but didn't seem to excited. I think this might be dead in the water. But maybe a little kino action on the ice might spark something up. I think I am going to straight up ask her what she thinks of me. I'm tired of these games. If she tells me lets just be friends, oh well her loss.

 

[Obsidian]

if she didn't seem excited, cancel on her

she'll never see it coming

 

[eli]

I think she likes you!!!

 

[lookyoung]

I think I am going to straight up ask her what she thinks of me. I'm tired of these games. If she tells me lets just be friends, oh well her loss.

[/QUOTE]

Now your on the right track. Do this and you will know where you stand. If I were you this is exactly what I would tell her. Listen I am going to be straight up with you. I think your so hot, and I want to kiss you so bad. See her reaction this will show you if she likes you. Its direct and forward but its my style and it has worked well for me in the past. It may work for you.

BTW keep us posted.

 

[violator]

I think she likes you, but if I were you I would pull back a little. Dont talk to her for a week or so and don't give her too much attention. In fact indifference is the key. Once she sees you pulling back or showing less interest that would cause her to think many things, i,e, that you hooked up with another girl and would raise her insecurities. This has workd for me in the past.

The key with women is that when they act flakey or wishy washy, you must pull back and give them space or as one wise man said, the gift of missing you. If they pull back, you must mirror their actions, and pull back also. If she truly is interested, she will react and come back into the fold. if you start acting desperate youu will only puch her away. In the meantime, I would think seriously about dating/pursuing other women because it seems to me you are on the verge of developing a case of oneitis with this chick.

I'll bet then that next time around, she will be quite excited to see you and far more accomodating to your sexual needs.

 

[violator]

Now your on the right track. Do this and you will know where you stand. If I were you this is exactly what I would tell her. Listen I am going to be straight up with you. I think your so hot, and I want to kiss you so bad. See her reaction this will show you if she likes you. Its direct and forward but its my style and it has worked well for me in the past. It may work for you.

BTW keep us posted.[/QUOTE]


Sounds a little desperate and upfront. Don't think it would work.

 

[Obsidian]

Listen I am going to be straight up with you. I think your so hot, and I want to kiss you so bad. See her reaction this will show you if she likes you. Its direct and forward but its my style and it has worked well for me in the past.

You've seriously used that, and it's worked?

 

[silenthill]

Nah I dont want to say "omg your so hot", but I do want to find out how she feels and not be in the dark. Tell me which one sounds the least bad:

How do you feel about me?

I'm going to be straight up, do you like me?

I'm going to be honest I like you, do you have feelings for me?

Or:

When I've got her alone face to face

I know you want to kiss me. Watch it'll be easy. And then lean in

I'm thinking the first one, cause I don't say how I like her.

 

[Vypros]

I'm thinking the first one, cause I don't say how I like her.

Go with the second one. At least you walk away from that one with some dignity whether it works or not. I'd assert that it's more apt to work than the first set though.

 

[lookyoung]

Sounds a little desperate and upfront. Don't think it would work.

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I think it will work perfectly.(my real life experiences). This guy already tried to kiss close this girl twice with no success. SHe is giving him mixed signals. He should just be straight up with her.


Everyone on this thread is saying she likes him, but I am going to say she sees him has a friend. I am very interested to see how this plays out.

 

[knglerxt]

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I think it will work perfectly.(my real life experiences). This guy already tried to kiss close this girl twice with no success. SHe is giving him mixed signals. He should just be straight up with her.


Everyone on this thread is saying she likes him, but I am going to say she sees him has a friend. I am very interested to see how this plays out.

Why would she cuddle and hold hands with him, though, if she only see's him as a friend? That just doesn't make sense to me. That's not the way friends act; that's the way a couple acts.

 

[Serialized3]

Why would she cuddle and hold hands with him, though, if she only see's him as a friend? That just doesn't make sense to me. That's not the way friends act; that's the way a couple acts.

He's basically being too platonic. He probably should have escalated about 5 dates ago. Going 5+ dates without a single kiss? Something's wrong.

Don't mean to be negative, but the friend-zone is dangerously close.

 

[silenthill]

Wow things are getting kinda strange. So we went ice skating. It was great, lots of touching. Me trying to teach her stuff and holding hands. She asked me what was the first relationship I've been in and we talk about that for a little bit. She says when she first saw me she thought I was so cute. She almost falls but I save her

So afterwards its after 10 and we head to my house to watch a movie. Were watching on my couch and shes in my arms, even closer than last time, with her head on my chest and she keeps wanting to touch me. We then lay down and she wraps my arms around her and puts my hands on her chest.

I just kind of leave them there not really doing anything cause she wont even let me kiss her yet. I do kiss her on the neck and face though and she seems to like it. Were both sitting together at one point and I straight up ask her "can I kiss you, you know you want to kiss me" and she says "believe me I really want to kiss you too........." and sort of gets quiet.

I say what is it, and shes just silent. I ask her again but shes not giving anything up. We continue to cuddle and then I drop her off at her house. I dont' know whats going on. Maybe shes shy of being a bad kisser. I don't know maybe shes sick, or something worse??? Its almost at the point where I'm sure she likes me but I just dont understand this.

 

[lookyoung]

Wait a minute....... How old are you? And how old is this girl?