REALLY dont understand whats going on!!

[silenthill]

Well this girl I've gone out with about 5 times is confusing me. Ok so last monday we go see the boston marathon and I get a lot of physical contact. Handholding, my arm around her waist. On the train ride home shes snuggled in my arms. I move in to kiss her and she turns her head, so I end up getting the side of her mouth.

She then gets closer to me and puts her face against mine. After I drop her off I'm thinking "sh*t its over, shes probably not interested". At work later that day she texts me saying what am I doing tomorrow night and do I want to do something with her. I say I may have plans but I'll call you later. So I call today and I head over her house at 10:30.

We watch a movie and I've got my arm around her. She rests her head on my shoulder. We both lay down on the couch sideways and I lay down right next to her. Shes really close to me, while I've got my hands around her waist. So I'm thinking good, I think I'll be able to kiss her now.

Around 1:15 am while I'm about to leave, I lean in to kiss her and she turns away again! Ok I don't get it, is she not interested in me like that? Maybe shes just really shy or something, I don't know but its confusing. I like her, I'm pretty sure she likes me back but I'm not sure.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Hmmmmm, hmmmm, hmmmmm, hmm - you are alone with a girl at 1:30 in the morning - she is not a virgin- so she is just playing hard to get!!

 

[lookyoung]

This girl does not like you she sees you as a friend. Your best bet is too ask her straight up if she is attracted to you. Your chances of hooking up with this girl are slim to none.

 

[Rex Man]

For whatever reason, she want's you to work for it. My guess: She want's some commitement. My proposed solution: Up the innuendo and kino before the kiss and gauge her reactions. Go from there.

 

[Play the Game]

Nahh she's just playin'. She's easy,but doesn't want you to know it.

Just don't pay her too much attention and she'll come begging for some c0ck.

Does she call herself a good girl too? Just checkin cuz i had one of those undercover wh0res before.

 

[samueladams]

Nahh she's just playin'. She's easy,but doesn't want you to know it.

Just don't pay her too much attention and she'll come begging for some c0ck.

this guys right...she's just testing you out...be a little cold then throw her a bone every once in a while. that's the way you gotta treat all women. one question how old is this chick? If she's still in hs she could just be shy and inexperienced...if she's no virgin then she's just testing you.

 

[Play the Game]

Of course i'm right... I AM THE GAME!!!

 

[silenthill]

When do you guys think I should make another attempt? I don't want to try everytime were together and get shot down constantly.

Like I could understand if she was not responsive when I touch her, or if I was the one initiating everything. But shes asked me out the last two times, and she likes physical contact. I just don't get it

 

[DJDamage]

I move in to kiss her and she turns her head, so I end up getting the side of her mouth.

Sounds to me as if your timing is off.

At work later that day she texts me saying what am I doing tomorrow night and do I want to do something with her. I say I may have plans but I'll call you later. So I call today and I head over her house at 10:30

You had the oppertuinty to instill some seeds of doubt in her head. If a chicks wants you to go on a date with her, a day after she turns you down for whatever reason for your affection, you were better of going sarging that day for other women. See as a man you shouldn't have time to play with flaky or wishy washy behaviour, you shouldn't be depended on one girl and let that one girl think she is the only girl in your life. You have to go after many girls and if that girl really wants to see you she will not refuse your advances next time but rather be excitied that you PICKED HER and not the other girls for the night.

We watch a movie and I've got my arm around her. She rests her head on my shoulder. We both lay down on the couch sideways and I lay down right next to her. Shes really close to me, while I've got my hands around her waist. So I'm thinking good, I think I'll be able to kiss her now.

Around 1:15 am while I'm about to leave, I lean in to kiss her and she turns away again!

Do you remember I said something about your timing?!

WTF are you waiting until 1:15 when you are about to leave??! you had her on the couch and you didn't esscalate and made a move and then expect a kiss when you are about to leave?! if she is on the couch with you, in less then 10 mins max you should have been all over her like a pitbull on a poodle and what do you do? you lay there for 2 hours holding her waist and watching a movie and you are as happy as a pig in mud. She on the other hand is thinking " why is he holding my waist and not making a move?? I am starting to be disintersted in this guy, what's his problem??"

And if this girl would have refused your advances then you should have left and saved yourself the entire night.

Go read the DJ Bible, you seem very clueless on how attraction work.

 

[Obsidian]

Hmmmmm, hmmmm, hmmmmm, hmm - you are alone with a girl at 1:30 in the morning - she is not a virgin- so she is just playing hard to get!!

nah I disagree. She sounds like she may be shy to me.

And if this girl would have refused your advances then you should have left and saved yourself the entire night.

Yeah, your timing may be a little weak. This advice is spot on.

And I'd probably wait about a weak before communicating with her. Need to let the tension build.

 

[Obsidian]

on the other hand, you ought to check and see if Lastman is right. If she really is a hor (and not shy) and she's treating you like this, you need to show significantly less interest in her to raise her IL. Or better yet, just drop her.

 

[silenthill]

Nah I would be shocked if she slept around. She is kinda shy and timid. Were both 19. She told me she only went to one prom and it was a guy that asked her because his girlfriend was out of town.

I dont how many relationships shes been in. Should I ask? Might be kinda weird. Don't know how to not see her for a week because shes in one of my classes 3 times a week. Shes come up with the last 2 dates, so I don't really have a problem asking her to do something.

I was thinking ice skating this friday night (I play hockey so I'll be able to show her some moves and then maybe go to my house and watch a movie in my room. Or I could just try not to really say anything and save it for next week.

 

[Play the Game]

In that case, make a move...

 

[EFFORT]

WTF are you waiting until 1:15 when you are about to leave??! you had her on the couch and you didn't esscalate and made a move and then expect a kiss when you are about to leave?! if she is on the couch with you, in less then 10 mins max you should have been all over her like a pitbull on a poodle and what do you do? you lay there for 2 hours holding her waist and watching a movie and you are as happy as a pig in mud. She on the other hand is thinking " why is he holding my waist and not making a move?? I am starting to be disintersted in this guy, what's his problem??"

And if this girl would have refused your advances then you should have left and saved yourself the entire night.

Go read the DJ Bible, you seem very clueless on how attraction work.

AMEN

 

[sexxyback]

If you were a real PUA you would be in the feild pulling the babes not posting on internet sites.
You are all keyboard jockeys in real terms even though many of you claim to fvck multiple gorgeous girls.
You all argue amongst yourselves about who the real players are though no real players would be visiting these sites.
It is the blind leading the blind you are all social rejects who cannot attract any gorgeous girls so you make up your own fantasy stories about it.
You need to get these fantasies out of your minds get away from your computers and get into the real feild.
No man who fvcks gorgeous girls in real life would be giving advice about this on an internet site.
All of these seduction gurus are scamming your money they teach psychology in reality all of which has been written by other experts in the feild over the centuries.
Most of the advice they give will work only if the right man is applying it to his interactions with the females.
Attracting the most attractive woman is about how you sell yourself it has nothing to do with a strategy or a technique.
If you present as a confident successful man most gorgeous girls will desire you if you present as a dawk no attractive lady will want anything to do with you in a sexual way no matter how great your game may be it won't work.
It isn't as complicated as you all think it is to seduce lots of gorgeous girls nor are you anything special if you can and are doing this.
Changing from the type of man who presents as a dawk to the type who presents as a confident DJ is a long process it does not happen overnight.
I beleive that change is possible though you cannot come accross as a social reject one day and the confident socialite the next it takes a long time.
Everyone who claims to be fvcking the cutest babes on these sites are egotists if they have either player or pimp in their name you can be certain that they are dreamers who are not in the feild.
Why these men want to deceive those even weaker than them in order to build up their own egos.
These types of dreamers and social rejects eventually explode in a similar way as the Virginia gunman did the other day.
You never fvck any gorgeous girls by writting about having done it on a site like this you only fvck them by meeting them in the feild.
Whilst you men are writting all of your fantasies on here other men are out in the feild fvcking the girls that you can never get yourselves.
It is too hard for you all to approach attractive woman in real life situations and very easy to write your false reports about it on these sites so that you can be praised by the other societal rejects who are posting on here.
You all perceive gorgeous girls as being unattainable to fvck one of them in real life is only a fantasy in your minds that you don't think can happen.
It can happen only if you meet the girls in the first place get off your computers you key board jockeys and talk to some real girls.
The most attractive woman spend most of their money on looking good buying clothes getting their hair styled and on cosmetics.
It is obvious that they want the men to be attracted to them you won't ever fvck any by posting on an internet site.
Dreaming about fvcking gorgeous girls is never going to make it happen you need to go into the feild to meet them before you can fvck them.

 

[EdHunter]

So why are YOU here, and not in the "feild" this evening, good sir?

 

[sca_p]

She seems shy--I'd take it slow if I were you. If you're the impatient bugger type, then move on and find somebody else. I also recommend asking her how she feels about you. If she says she likes you, then ask why she won't kiss you, maybe then you'll get some answers.

 

[Trapper]

those who dont like this site, just get the fcvk out of here. Period!

My friend You seem like a loser to me.. 5 dates ha..and no sex?. you know why she got angry to u? you are waiting until you leave and trying to kiss her huh???? god damn man... wtf you were waiting for? as a man you have to lead her, seduce her, make her wants you.. she called you not to watch movie..do u understand bro?

 

[Vypros]

For whatever reason, she want's you to work for it. My guess: She want's some commitement. My proposed solution: Up the innuendo and kino before the kiss and gauge her reactions. Go from there.

So reward her bad behavior huh?

What you NEED to do, is NEXT this girl. Tell her that you don't think you should hang out anymore. That you want more than just friendship, and then forget about her.

 

[Vypros]

So why are YOU here, and not in the "feild" this evening, good sir?

My thoughts exactly.

I've found that the best way to show that I'm better than everybody else is to type in giant text about how everyone else around me is a loser.