Really close friend starts to like me

HandyAndy

Banned
Joined
Aug 18, 2007
Messages
2,141
Reaction score
21
Location
SoCal!
May be hard to believe but, there are quite a few girls interested in me at school, ive said this before, its a good confidence boost too. Anyhow my close friend for 4-5 years is starting to like me, how can i make it obvious to her that im not interested in her?
 

BMX

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 12, 2004
Messages
1,490
Reaction score
417
Location
Everett
I've been telling this girl annoying me about my prospects I want, LOL, I think she's gettin' it. Haha J_P, better not be that clam chowder.
 

john paul

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 19, 2007
Messages
311
Reaction score
3
Location
Paradise City
You dont flirt with her and yet shes coming on to you.

I dunno what to say. Keep giving her the red light and she will stop coming onto you and supress those feelings inside her like normal healthy people do.
 

MCristo

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 24, 2008
Messages
99
Reaction score
3
hit it
 

DJ_Matthew

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 1, 2007
Messages
91
Reaction score
0
"Even if you were the last girl on earth."

Hahah I love that one.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

KontrollerX

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 11, 2005
Messages
4,479
Reaction score
182
This emoticon belongs back in your sig HandyAndy. :rock:

It is totally you and I mean this as a compliment. :p

Anyway though if you are really not interested in her and she is not attractive at all just friendzone her like chicks do regularly to their male AFC friends who are interested in them.

Just keep treating her like a friend as others have said and put up stop signs directly or indirectly as she tries to advance on ya. :up:
 

SinJester

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 1, 2007
Messages
1,226
Reaction score
44
Location
Australia
Isn't it weird and ironic how we spend all this time trying to make ourselves better or be someone else around girls we are attracted to, then girls we are friends with like us.

Wouldn't it be great if we could just be ourselves purely around everyone without any effort?
 
Top