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Why didn’t she include Tuesday in the Friday and Saturday when she wouldn't be available? It tells me she was just testing you out to see how available you are.

Usually when girls text me that they had a “really good time.” I say “I did too.”



This chick sure has a lot of friends.

I would have responded as below.

"Oh OK. Yeah that is cool, have fun with your friend and we can reschedule when you have a better idea of when you will be free."



Sorry bro but who cares.

Text her next week and ask her to join you in something that you and her like (hopefully you found that out on the date when you weren’t making out); hockey game, circus, ice skating, skiing, whatever.

If she says yes, you go.
Well, not everyone is a hermit like you

Nah, I put the ball in her court and that's where it will stay. She can reschedule or not, I have options just like she has options. I view myself as a better option and will focus on women who agree with my opinion. I am not going to chase, I will stand there and watch to see if she comes walking back towards me and then if not I will turn my back and walk in the other direction.
 

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"Oh OK. Yeah that is cool, have fun with your friend and we can reschedule when you have a better idea of when you will be free."
I actually agree with Trump's response. Sending anything else seems needy.

You guys want a quick way to measure a chick's interest level? Leave the ball in her court. But most of you cant keep your fingers off your phone long enough and must find a way to text them. Women smell neediness like a canine at the airport in the customs department smells narcotics.

Keep it super simple. She will either reach out or she wont, either way is OK because you should have other chicks hitting you up as well.

As far as we know her "friend" is a dude that used to rail her and send her home for 2 years in a row and she has a major emotional attachment to him. He just happened to be in town so she cleared her schedule when he said he was going to be there, after not hearing from him in 2 months.

Thats the way this game works.
 

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UPDATE:

So she hit me up yesterday apologizing that she has been really sick for the last few days and then asked if I was free Friday night. I said I was busy and then countered with Sunday. She accepted so I will be seeing her again Sunday. She will be sucking this c0ck by the end of the night.
 

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UPDATE:

So she hit me up yesterday apologizing that she has been really sick for the last few days and then asked if I was free Friday night. I said I was busy and then countered with Sunday. She accepted so I will be seeing her again Sunday. She will be sucking this c0ck by the end of the night.
Nice work...even better yet these are the types of posts that should be on here so everyone learns instead of guys making up stories and bashing on each other.

A good thing you did was schedule your date for Sunday instead of Friday or Saturday. Those days are reserved for girls that are more important to you, she has not earned that timeslot from you.

Have fun...keep us posted on how Sunday goes.
 

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Nice work...even better yet these are the types of posts that should be on here so everyone learns instead of guys making up stories and bashing on each other.

A good thing you did was schedule your date for Sunday instead of Friday or Saturday. Those days are reserved for girls that are more important to you, she has not earned that timeslot from you.

Have fun...keep us posted on how Sunday goes.
This is why dudes just need to chill out when a women offers to reschedule. Either they are interested or they aren't. If they are they will reach out to you and they will be intrigued as to why you haven't been blowing up their phone asking about it or acting needy and desperate. This is because this is the default behavior 80% of the guys display these days. You can literally stand out head and shoulders above other guys by simply chilling out.

I had one woman earlier in the week wait a day before responding to my request as to when she was available to grab a drink. 5 minutes before we met she texted me asking if she saw me and wanted to kiss me would I let her or would I push her away. I told her she would have to find out herself. She walked in sat on my lap and literally made out with me for 10 minutes before even saying one word.

Why? Apparently she found it so hot and intriguing that I just patiently waited for her to respond instead of sending desperate texts that it made her horny. You can't make this sh1t up...ended up staying at the bar for an hour with most of the time with her showing me the desperate texts these other guys are sending her and us dying laughing about it. Then went back to her place and banged for like 2 hours She has been blowing up MY phone now and asking how many other women she is competing with.

Guys this is how women think...if you aren't acting desperate and needy they assume you are dating and banging other women. If they find you attractive they assume its a LOT of other women. There is nothing more powerful then letting a woman's mind convince herself you are desired and have other women, oftentimes without you even saying a word about it.

If they like you they will go to great lengths to get you all to themselves. Never be desperate. Never be needy. Good things will almost always happen. Women find that to be almost like an aphrodisiac these days since its so rare.
 

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She might lose interest then. I say just text her again. That one chick I got too aggressive with back in Oct because she's a slow texter and she went off on me. She said She wanted to go out again but called me a jerk and said no more.
I am always trying to be positive.
That being said, YOU SHOULD NOT OFFER ADVICE EVER AGAIN!
 

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UPDATE2:

So we were texting briefly today and she asked what I had going on after work. Told her I was meeting up with some friends but they were lame cause their wives make them come home around 8:30 or 9:00.

She then said she gets home around 10 from work and that if it wasn't too late I am welcome to join her to watch a movie. I told her I am game and she sent me her address.

Prediction: We won't be watching the movie for too long...

PS: Always strike when the iron is hot. How you handle things in the beginning with a woman can either make them wet for you or make them repulsed by you. Never chase but always let them know you are interested and eventually many will chase you.
 

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Nice work...even better yet these are the types of posts that should be on here so everyone learns instead of guys making up stories and bashing on each other.

A good thing you did was schedule your date for Sunday instead of Friday or Saturday. Those days are reserved for girls that are more important to you, she has not earned that timeslot from you.

Have fun...keep us posted on how Sunday goes.
Read the second update...I will let you know how tonight goes

:cool:
 

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Read the second update...I will let you know how tonight goes

:cool:
Well played...only thing I would not have done is called my friends lame. I would have just said I am tired after a long week and may just get home early after a few drinks with a friend. You calling them lame may have her believe you are lame because you are hanging with lame people just my thoughts.

One question just so everyone learns, did you reach out to her today intially or did she start the chat? I am betting she started it. I bet most guys would have initiated.
 

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Well played...only thing I would not have done is called my friends lame. I would have just said I am tired after a long week and may just get home early after a few drinks with a friend. You calling them lame may have her believe you are lame because you are hanging with lame people just my thoughts.

One question just so everyone learns, did you reach out to her today intially or did she start the chat? I am betting she started it. I bet most guys would have initiated.
I actually agree with you on the friends thing. I meant it as a joke but sometimes I forget that context and intonation cannot be gotten through text so it would have better if I said it in person so she knew I was joking.

I actually started it today. She texted me yesterday and we chatted for a little bit but I got busy last night and didn't reply to her last text until late morning today. She just invited me to her house out of the blue tho, what we were talking about had nothing to do with meeting up or Sunday.
 

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UPDATE:
Met up with again this past Sunday and went for a hike and then a drink after. This chick really really likes me. She told me her something her friend was telling her that she did that you only do with guys you don't like and she said "I told her no, but I really like this guy"...and then texted me about how she had so much fun and that she can't wait to cook with me(we talked about how much we both like cooking).

She views me as an LTR but she is also wants the D too...and she is going to get it next time we meet up. I sank the hook in really deep with this one...she is a cool chick, no drama, has her life together and is super cute. Definitely LTR material. Interested to see where this goes.
 
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