Real Depressed; Need Desperate Help

[Lost In Translation]

the questions you ask are not SPECIFIC

they are general questions addressed in the DJ Bible

Quote - SIXPAKGQ
well i thought she was showing high interest; i guess i read the signals wrong? what would u do if a women was flirting with you but only to reject u at the end? wait a minute, a DJ does not beleive in getting to know the woman? not sexually, i am talking mentally

i'll break down the last one you posted to help you.

you thought she was showinghigh interest levels ?

how to spot high interest levels is addressed in the DJ bible so in future you will KNOW what to look for.

what would you do if she flirted with you then rejected you ?

again adressed in the DJ Bible you NEXT her. she is flirting to keep you hanging on so you stay and keep boosting the b*tches ego.

your question about a DJ not believing in getting to know the woman....

you sure you read the DJ Bible ???

you want to know about her, but you keep yourself a mystery

( but not her past bf's bull$hit story so she can use you as an emotional tampon )

the last part SEXUALLY is not bad, unless you show a woman you are a SEXUAL MAN, she will not see you as a potential MATE.

law of the jungle here bro, she cannot see you fu**ing her brains out then she is going to see you as her best friend who will hold her when she cry's about how hard a DJ fu**s her and how he is a monster lol.


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[00Kevin]

Originally posted by SIXPAKGQ
kevin ; well i thought she was showing high interest; i guess i read the signals wrong? what would u do if a women was flirting with you but only to reject u at the end? wait a minute, a DJ does not beleive in getting to know the woman? not sexually, i am talking mentally

flirting doesn't cut it

did she fool around with you? did she grab your balls or suck your ****? if the answer is no then she is not interested.

i'll bet this girl talks to you about all the other guys she is with. i'll bet she basically uses you as an emotional tampon. ask yourself how many bjs has she given to other guys? how quickly has she done that? do you really think that she has went 5 months without ****ing some guy or sucking some guys ****? no ****en way, she would never wait that long to make a move on a guy who she is interested in. So why the **** are you?

don't think for one second that inorder to get a girl you have to get to know her mentally first. that is just plain stupid, the best relationships start with passion! remember that. if there is no passion then there never will be any passion.

i know you want to prove to a girl that you are a nice guy and that you will care for her. trust me that is to road to sadness. you will never mean anything to her. in order to get a girl you have to start showing her that you are a man. what the hell do you think you are anyway, her shrink?

you are so lost it isn't funny. this girl only thinks of you as a friend. move on and find another girl. you are wasting your time. wasting your f--ken life.

 

[00Kevin]

lol... we both used the term 'emotional tampon'

i guess he is one.

 

[SIXPAKGQ]

actually she never talked about any of the other guys, saw her phone book on her phone, didnt have any guys listed either.

if she didnt fool around with me does not mean anything. the dj bible says about eye contact and smiling, i guess thats bs also...kino is also BS, b/c its not considered an sexual act....

i was never used as a emotional tampon....

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by SIXPAKGQ
actually she never talked about any of the other guys, saw her phone book on her phone, didnt have any guys listed either.

if she didnt fool around with me does not mean anything. the dj bible says about eye contact and smiling, i guess thats bs also...kino is also BS, b/c its not considered an sexual act....

i was never used as a emotional tampon....

are you telling me this girl hasn't had sex in five months?

are you 100% sure that there are no other giuys in her life? you don't sound convinced if you had to look in her phone.

do you think this girl wants you sexually? i don't think she wants you at all.

as for the dj bible you just don't get it. eye contact, smiling, kino, these are things that should be natural to you. if a girl isn't interested in you sexually she will never be interested in you for a relationship. it doesn't mater how many tools you use.

 

[00Kevin]

tell us why you think you are a man.
tell us why you think she is attracted to you

 

[Lost In Translation]

Quote - SIXPAKGQ
the dj bible says about eye contact and smiling, i guess thats bs also...kino is also BS, b/c its not considered an sexual act....


kino is bs ???

kino is SEXUAL.

if i walked up to some woman in public and touched her and she called the cops i would be charged with sexual assault.

you are touching her.

she wants to be touched.

you ever heard the saying one thing leads to another ?

TOUCHING LEADS TO KISSING WHICH LEADS TO FU**ING


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[frivolousz21]

I cannot take in anymore of his posts tonight.

good night.

and good luck getting ur head on straight

 

[00Kevin]

eye contact is sexual. I remember looking into a girls eyes at a club and telling her i wanted to ****er without saying a word.

eye contact can be very sexual

 

[GaryNas]

Hi, I haven't read many of the other replies, but it's ok to feel depressed. I was in a situation in high school where I had a massive crush on a girl and we flirted all the time. When I actually asked her out she said we were just friends... this crushed me. I felt like sh1t for a long time, but eventually I got over it. The same thing will happen to you. Live and learn my friend.

 

[ZMan]

Finding an LTR. Start with really built up sexual attraction. Not friendship. LTR start really hot. Otherwise they fizzle out quickly. You don't want an LTR with a friend. Sex, is the basis for a good LTR. Otherwise you will have a long difficult unrewarding LTR. Being AFC never helps.

 

[Luveno]

Hey SIX,

I put this one up last nite but it seemed to have become lost in the fury of bigoted trash that has accumulated on this forum...here's the link to what I have to say in response to your dilemma:

It's better to be seen as a player than as a "friend".


The reason I wrote that was because after reading a thread posted by SIXPACGQ about being a friend with a female who he was interested in, I thought that it just isn't made clear enough that BEING A FRIEND TO A GIRL IS JUST A BAD IDEA!

Another thing is that SIXPAC was her friend because he didn;t want to scare her away being a player. One thing that has to be reiterated on this forum all the time is that being a player is better than being an AFC friend boy. Of course, being a player isn't true DJ philosophy but it is much much closer than AFC. A player lives for the chase, and lives for his carnal instinct. He also lives to win. Consider this: girls are afraid of players because they always break their hearts. THey seduce them, get them in bed, shag em all night, and then leave. Oh how sad.
Instead of this, a DJ will take a woman he respects and finds attractive and continue to seduce her within the relationship. I do not believe it is DJ philosophy to **** and chuck unless the girl is a total slut or totally disrespectful.
Main thing a player and DJ both have in common is the first part: seducing the girl, gettin her in bed. The player sees this as the end. The DJ sees this as the beginning.

By being the "friend" out of fear that she will see you as a player if you act on your attraction immediately, you won't even see the beginning......you'll never be her boyfriend, only her friend-boy.

It is always better to be seen as a player than as a friend.

Advice to live by.

 

[SIXPAKGQ]

luv : but most women do not like players at all. they hate them

 

[00Kevin]

they might hate them but they still **** them over an AFC any day.

 

[Bonhomme]

Attracted to, whether they like 'em or not

Ya got it wrong there, SIXPAK.

Women may not always like players, in a conscious sense, but they are attracted to players who have their game down pat.

David D'Angelo's stuff would do you a lot of good -- except don't concentrate on the ****y & funny bit so much, and pay atention to everything else.

The "player" is one of the sexy male archetypes. The "nice guy" isn't -- unless he's also and adventurer, artist, or leader of some type

 

[frivolousz21]

are u real?

or just ****ing with us.

you seem to be completely out of touch.

i hope this website opens your eyes sixpak

 

[Alpine]

What you are doing isn't working.

Therefore what do you have to lose by, pretending this stuff works, follow it dilegently and see what results you get.

No more 'yes buts'

If it doesn't work for you after giving it a genuine good go, then fine go back to being depressed. You may find some stuff works and your are happy with it and you can integrate it into your persona.

I believe you have a bad case of 'excuses easier than actions', it's just that your conscious mind hasn't cottoned on yet.

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by Alpine
What you are doing isn't working.

Therefore what do you have to lose by, pretending this stuff works, follow it dilegently and see what results you get.

No more 'yes buts'

If it doesn't work for you after giving it a genuine good go, then fine go back to being depressed. You may find some stuff works and your are happy with it and you can integrate it into your persona.

I believe you have a bad case of 'excuses easier than actions', it's just that your conscious mind hasn't cottoned on yet.

exactly! why doesn't this guy at least try it. six should start a boot camp thread . and learn what it means to be a man.

but then again maybe he is a woman. sure sounds like one

 

[seabreeze]

Sixpaq,

It's all right to feel depressed. And it's a normal human emotion that you SHOULD feel once in a while in your life---if you're still human. The thing is, I think the fellas are trying to encourage you to get your wits about you and stop overanalyzing her. She's an independent person with her own mind and no amount of eye contact, kino, blah, blah, blah is going to change that. You are right about some women hating players, but the fellas are right about most women also being strangely attracted to them. That's not to say that you should become one, because men who use women and hurt them on purpose are unhealthy (as well as the female versions). Yes, women are confused, contradictory, emotional beings and we do give mixed signals. The thing is, we usually really feel like we are being honest with our emotions at the time. Honest fellas! Perhaps it's all of that wacky, zany hormonal stuff goin' on with us all of the time. (God for some reason I'm feeling really hormonal and horny right now! See what I mean?).

But, anyway, you should never really put ALL of your eggs in one basket until your absolutely sure it's the right basket.

Here's an e-hug for you!
SB

 

[00Kevin]

seabreaze maybe you can give him a mercy f*cuk

seabreaze he may even have something small for your little problem


. sorry, but I really couldn't resist taking that shot.