Here is what he wrote about American women in one section of his site. SO true:
Women do NOT like AFCs. They do NOT. Never have, never will... at least not until after they've been battered to hell and back, of course. But sure, women don't only go for *******s... they also like money, too.
But whatever the hell it is that women might like on that particular day (who knows?) they sure as hell don't go for AFCs, do they? Nope, AFCs just aren't sexy. An AFC isn't 'kind-hearted' or 'affectionate' or 'generous' mind you, he is but a groveling, distasteful, supplicating, centipede-like little bootlicker who makes a woman's lip curl in disgust. No, the actual content of your character doesn't matter a damn. You are a spineless toady and will never be anything more than a spineless toady. Even if you actually aren't a spineless toady, if you try to make a woman happy by giving her what she says she wants, then you are still probably a spineless toady but just don't know it yet. If you try to make accommodations for a woman's well-being, then there is nothing you can do to ever not be a spineless toady. Furthermore, if you don't demonstrate and advertise that you're not a spineless toady, then you are a spineless toady by default. If a woman ever takes advantage of you, then its your fault for being a spineless toady- that is what gave her the green-light to cheat you in the first place.
If you're even suspected of being an AFC, but you're factually not a spineless toady, then you still are one no matter what. And it will always be your unforgivable sin for being that way. So there.
Why was I a spineless toady? Well, being a spineless toady is a cynic's accusations of my actions. And God knows, American women are cynical towards men- they are happily embedded in a man-bashing culture, after all- it's the only way they can feel superior.
I wanted to do things that benefited American women because... I liked doing good things for them and I didn't imagine that they'd be repelled by someone who did stuff like that. I wasn't consciously trying to bribe them with good treatment per sé; I just wanted to be kind, decent and generous because women spend so much time complaining vociferously that they want someone like that in their lives. (Yes, I actually took them seriously when they would talk to me with tears welling-up in their eyes. Silly me for being taken-in by it all. Silly me for ever trusting a female. Silly me for accepting a woman's words at face value. If you ever trust a woman's words, then you probably deserve to get screwed-over by her.)
Yeah, I tried being generous and sensitive to the needs of American women, but I was wrong to do so. I didn't want to imagine that American women were so f'd-up in the head as to be repelled by someone who wanted to treat them well, but I was wrong. I didn't want to think that American women were so f'd-up in the head as to be entirely insincere when voicing what seemed to be their most heartfelt desires for what they yearned in a loving relationship- but I was wrong on that one too. I was wrong about a lot of things. I was wrong because I didn't think that American women were so f'd-up in the head as to be lying through their teeth about what their perfect man would be like. I didn't think that they were so f'd-up in the head as to be attracted to the men who are the exact opposites of what they say they want. I dismissed how f'd-up in the head they might be, simply because I had some respect for them. Silly me.
In fact, I was so wrong about American women because I spent years dismissing a critical factor that shouldn't have been dismissed, namely: that North American women actually are that f'd-up in the head! THEY ARE!
Say it with me: THEY ARE F'D-UP IN THE HEAD!
If a man gives her flowers, then does it mean he's generous or romantically-inclined? NOOOO, it must mean he has a low self-esteem and is trying to bribe her! If a man ever tries to soothe a woman's hurt feelings by offering comfort, does it mean that he cares for her well-being? NOOOO, it's because he's trying to emotionally supplicate his way into bed! If a man returns her phone calls in a timely fashion, does it mean that he shows common courtesy? NOOOO, it's because he is just desperate to get laid! But if a man is ****y, arrogant and ignores her emotions throughout the relationship, then oooh- he is a REAL MAN and he must be slept-with!
I tell you: THOSE are the schizophrenic thought patterns of man-haters who nonetheless get turned-on by the same kind of men that they hate.
All together now: THEY ARE F'D-UP IN THE HEAD!
It doesn't matter how decent or ethical you've been throughout life. It doesn't matter if you're the type of person who always tries his best or wants to treat women in a generous and empathic fashion. It doesn't matter if you believe in charity, mercy, reciprocal giving, putting others before yourself or making special efforts for a woman you care for. It doesn't matter if you want to be honest within a relationship or want to make emotional connections with a woman before you have sex. It doesn't matter a damn because a woman just won't find that behavior sexy and she's too busy thinking with her ***** to ever care about your worth as a human being. In fact, she will consider you lower than **** for all the good things you try to do for her, simply because you swallow her lies and try to accommodate her lies! You need to become a smooth-talking pickup artist, because she won't get nice and wet until you provide whatever her ***** demands. Only then will she have sex with you, compete for your attention and yet complain to others about how awful you are and how you don't meet her emotional needs and how she wants someone more caring in her life. It is the same thick-skulled myopia of someone who wades-through a river of diamonds looking for gold.
One more time: THEY ARE F'D-UP IN THE HEAD!
Ugh, look... if there's one main thing I want my male 'nice guy/AFC' readers back in the 50 states to remember for all time... being generous to American women DOES NOT WORK. IT DOES NOT WORK! IT DOES NOT WORK! IT DOES NOT WORK! ES FUNKTIONIERT NICHT! NÃO FUNCIONA! NE MARCHE PAS! It never has, it never will! BEING GENEROUS TO AMERICAN WOMEN MAKES YOU SEXUALLY-REPELLANT BECAUSE THEY ARE F'D-UP IN THE HEAD!
I have always thought this in my gut, but I'd hoped that I was underestimating them and I'd one day meet a special woman in America who wasn't that way. If such women do exist, they are needles in a massive stack of ****-smelling hay and you'll almost never realistically find one like that. So stop it!
That's right, I said 'stop it'. Stop it, because it just doesn't work.
Stop being 'nice' this instant. Stop it stop it stop it.
Abort. Halt. Cease. Desist. You're guaranteeing your own failure. Abandon what clearly doesn't work: give-up on being 'nice'.
Quit it this second. Wake-up from your dream, you God-damned loser of a 'just friends' DIP****-- IT JUST DOESN'T WORK!!
If you DO try to make an effort to do good things for North American women, then I'll spare you the effort right now-- STOP IT, BECAUSE IT JUST DOESN'T WORK!!
And why doesn't it work, hmm? Well, just in case you missed it: THEY ARE F'D-UP IN THE HEAD!
So stop being a 'nice guy' right now. Stop it stop it stop it stop it stop it stop it stop it stop it stop it stop it stop it stop it stop it!! Okay?
STOP IT! Put down the flowers. Tear-up your laboriously-written love poetry. STOP IT! STOP IT! STOP IT! Stop being mistaken for an unsightly, smarmy, lickspittle supplicating AFC.
Oh, and especially drop the free counseling, too! Don't waste your time. She is lying to you about what she wants in a man. Shove her away and tell her the truth: she is incurably f'd-up in the head, and absolutely NOTHING you or anyone else can do will ever make her one bit less f'd-up in the head.
SO STOP IT, ALREADY!!