Reaction to attractive women that piss you off/disrespect you

[Peaks&Valleys]

I know when I have felt maybe rejected by a certain girl or a girl disrespects me in a certain way; I "get even" by ignoring the girl next time I see her; generally acting like she doesn't exist.

I.E. If we are talking in a group setting; or you see the that girl around; I avoid eye contact with her, don't talk to her and generally act LIKE SHE IS INVISIBLE TO ME AND BASICALLY DOESN'T EXIST while treating everyone else normally.

I guess It is spiteful, but it is my way of non-verbally saying to the girl, F**K YOU

Does this behavior make me look insecure and unconfident?

I can't help it; I guess I get off on it somehow since I am an attractive guy and like to think (atleast in my head) they are missing out.

Great thread topic OP. I love doing this. Like was previously posted, it takes a little bit of skill to do it right. I've been in so called chess matches with girls, who's going to break first...

I can't agree with this whatsoever.

You're using black and white thinking.

It's not the same type of attraction.

take this 40 year old woman her name is wendy. Wendy 20 years ago, pre drug intervention, used to be a stripper. I've seen pictures, she was a bad, bad woman. tone, firm, legs for days, very nice.

At 40, she stil watches what she eats, so she's what like 5'6, 110 pounds - 115 pounds she can't weight more than 115, she still has a nice figure and what she lacks in pure youtuffulness she makes up in class / sexiness.


yesterday when I was in starbucks there was this girl there, about 21 years old.. she was very cute / pretty but she just was so freaking.. rotfl, young. talking loud, she's a freaking child. her youtfulness if i were talking to her would have made my **** go soft. loud, bubble gum popping, silly nieve 20 year olds, yes their tits might be perkier but that's about it. Throw in the fact that they get hit on by all these dudes so much that they think their ***** will fix Obamacare, I'm out. I'm not saying I'm not attracted to 20 year women, I'm ot saying under the right circumstances I wouldn't date one. I'm saying that yo are selling the sexiness of women over the page of 30 very, very short.


we had this entire conversation a month ago, the SMV theory is bull****. I would rather, much rather, fvck a classy 40 year old woman who i still in shape than a hb8 22 year old loud obnoxious college kid.


I guess it's because i'm getting older but young women don't know how to be sexy. They don't know how to act sexy. They don't know how to act feminine yet.

Thank you BB for explaining something I've been trying to say since I joined this site. This is it. I honestly can't handle a chick in her early 20's that checks her phone every 3 minutes and thinks it's 100% normal and okay. I'm dealing with a 24 year old right now that thinks it's okay to not respond to my texts during the week, but then feels it's perfectly okay to freely text me when she's drunk at 1am on a Saturday night.

Maturity goes a long way for me. It's hard for me to fake it. I can do it when it comes to a pump and dump but if it's a plate, I need some type of connection. I can put up with their little issues, and I can deal with their insecurties, and chick $hit. But I need to have some type of connection, to be able to communicate. The ones who've lived a little, seen life, have handled it, and still came out better because of it.....these are the ones for me.

What's funny is that sometimes I encounter university students where I work that I wouldn't call pretty, but are still boinkable. It's like I can tell in 3-7 years they'll be ugly or fat, but their youth is still doing them some favors. "Butterfaces" I suppose, only not ugly per se, just not knockouts.

You're right though. She may be a little dorky or not the cream of the crop to other college students, but to our creepy old men eyes we see someone who's definitely bangable

What I am saying is that there are more women over 30 that are very sexy than this forum would care to admit. A lot more.

If you want to talk about celebrities, this is pretty subjective, but Zooey Deschanel and Rashida Jones are pretty hot. Shoot, Amy Adams is nearly 40! Did you see her butt in jodhpurs in the Night at the Museum sequel? Are you going to tell me you wouldn't hit that?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S9yr7Xio4Eg

Yes, generally speaking, younger women are hotter. But as I said, I've seen some incredibly fine specimens in their mid 30s. Incredibly fine. It's not like a hot 29 year old woman goes to bed on the eve of her 30th birthday, and then the next day collapses into a heap of dust.

Exactly dude. Where were you a-holes when I was getting flamed for talking about this $hit earlier.

I think ignoring them is like garlic to vampires.

I'm currently trying to figure out a way to pull a woman back in so I can ignore her. My suspicion is that the easiest way to do that is by ignoring her.

LMAO! Funny $hit.

Seriously though, this happens when you feel your power waning. I've wished for girls to call just so I can not answer haha.

 

[VladPatton]

Looks like 2 topics going on in this thread! On ignoring a disrespectful girl: I have been in the situation where they were a real cünt for no reason. It turned me off, so I will ignore her without any care of power or gaining anything. It just shows me she has a shıt character.

On age and sexiness: I don't care what the age is, if they're sexy, they're hot. If they're little girls, they do nothing for me. A hot female with sex appeal derives from many components. From how they do their hair, to how they move when they walk. Let's not even get into how they talk or how much metal she has pierced through her face. Many, many things make up a hot woman, age is just a part of it, a big part, but it is just a part.

 

[FairShake]

Does this behavior make me look insecure and unconfident?

I can't help it; I guess I get off on it somehow since I am an attractive guy and like to think (atleast in my head) they are missing out.

Yep, it does. If you are getting angry at them rejecting you it says a lot about how you view yourself. You are not only talking to them for sex but also for validation. What do you care if they are missing out? You aren't there to save them. But clearly it must damage your perception of yourself as an attractive worthy guy if their rejection makes you angry and spiteful.

It's just as likely they aren't rejecting you because you are unattractive. They might have a boyfriend. Or a husband! Or they are out with their girls that night and not looking for guys. Or you just aren't their type. You shouldn't immediately think that they think you aren't attractive when they've give you no reason to think that. It's only your own insecurities that are coming to that conclusion.

 

[zekko]

It's just as likely they aren't rejecting you because you are unattractive. They might have a boyfriend. Or a husband! Or they are out with their girls that night and not looking for guys. Or you just aren't their type. You shouldn't immediately think that they think you aren't attractive when they've give you no reason to think that. It's only your own insecurities that are coming to that conclusion.

I'm not sure that the OP was necessarily talking about a situation where a girl rejected him for a date or whatever. He said:

"I know when I have felt maybe rejected by a certain girl or a girl disrespects me in a certain way"

"Felt maybe rejected" doesn't sound like a clear cut situation to me. I took it more as him thinking a girl disrespected him in some way.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

I'm not sure that the OP was necessarily talking about a situation where a girl rejected him for a date or whatever. He said:

"I know when I have felt maybe rejected by a certain girl or a girl disrespects me in a certain way"

"Felt maybe rejected" doesn't sound like a clear cut situation to me. I took it more as him thinking a girl disrespected him in some way.

Same here.

This sometimes happens to me when I'm just being social, or "polite" in certain professional situations. They'll think I'm being nice because I want to date them, so they'll get a little bit of an attitude....and start doing they're little chick games. Well, it takes two to tango....let the games begin.

 

[zekko]

I don't know anybody who says "NO WOMEN GET ATTENTION PAST 30". None, I have never seen this post. But if you have, please share it.

They have all sorts of PUA sayings/truisms that get repeated here ad nauseum, like "Women hit the wall when they turn 30". You're right, I don't see posters saying "ALL women hit the wall at 30". But they don't add the SOME or MOST in either (as in "SOME women hit the wall at 30", or "MOST women hit the wall aat 30"). Now you will say these are merely generalizations, but you have some good sense, Danger, and I would have more faith in you interpreting this stuff than some others. I think there are guys who come here and embrace all this stuff and take it far more literally than you might imagine.

Another such generalization is "Alpha fux, beta bux". Now I don't really know if I'm an alpha or a beta or somewhere in between (I don't care much for labels). But I know that I supply both. I provide for the household, and any girlfriend of mine sure as hell is wanting sex from me. Now maybe this generalization is supposed to usually be true, I don't know, but it's pretty meaningless to my life.

 

[zekko]

Well, like I said, Danger, I think you're a lot more sensible than some of the posters on here.

Another thing about the whole "Women over 30 are dried up old b!tches" idea: You have to remember this is a young man's forum - despite the "Mature Man" part. I bet most guys on this site are in their early 20s (especially on the general forum - plus there's the high school forum so there's more youngsters). A guy in his early 20s is a lot more likely to feel this way than a guy who is say, 37. I know I used to think of people over 30 as over the hill when I was about 24.

 

[Wolfgang D]

They have all sorts of PUA sayings/truisms that get repeated here ad nauseum, like "Women hit the wall when they turn 30". You're right, I don't see posters saying "ALL women hit the wall at 30". But they don't add the SOME or MOST in either (as in "SOME women hit the wall at 30", or "MOST women hit the wall aat 30").

Well, this reminds me of Rollo Tomassi's blog post Not All Women Are(n't) Like That

Anyone who’s spent more than a month reading comment threads on manosphere blogs understand the reason NAWALT has become a trope worthy of its own acronym. “Not all women are like that,..” is the most common, default, go-to response for feminine personal offenses. You’ll have to forgive the $10 words I used in the previous paragraph, but they were necessary to describe a process that leads to NAWALT. Obviously women’s minds (or humans in general) don’t run through a mental algorithm step by step like this until they repurpose objectivity into a subjective universal truth they find more palatable. They don’t need to when the work is already done for them with the NAWALT response.

......

However, not all women are like that,..until all women are like that.

If I were to debate the uniquely feminine merits of feminine social conventions that cast women in a positive light (i.e. one that compliments the feminine imperative) then, all women are like that, and what’s better is that no man is ever like that. For example, if I were to bolster the myth of the feminine mystique on a forum or blog praising the aspects of women you would never read “yeah, but not all women are like that” nor would you read “yeah, but men do this too.” If I find something laudable about the feminine then no woman has an objective problem with “all women are like that” and there will never be a sympathetic counter-element that finds a corollary with anything men do. In other words, NAWALT (until they are), but men are always like that.

 

[backbreaker]

- A woman would rather share an Alpha than have a Beta all to herself.

this is the only truism I agree with 100%

this has been my experience. IN my plate spinning prime, girls would know good and god damn well what i was going and would put up with it. catches. my now wife put up with it. she didn't like it, but she would rather share me than to have the single orbiters around her to herself.


I went to the breeders cup this last friday / Saturday Santa Anita is pretty close to my house. anyway chicks dressed up to the 9

While I was there I saw Elizabeth Banks there doing some ****. Saw quite a few famous people there actually. My goodness. That is 100% woman right there buddy. I don't' give a **** how old she is. I had a little crush on her from the movie seabsicuit but she looks better in person. Classy, perfect body, very beautiful woman.

 

[zekko]

Anyone who’s spent more than a month reading comment threads on manosphere blogs understand the reason NAWALT has become a trope worthy of its own acronym. “Not all women are like that,..” is the most common, default, go-to response for feminine personal offenses

Hey, I'm just saying I enjoy looking at Amy Adams' 37 year old ass. I don't see how that translates into trying to defend "feminine personal offenses".

See, Danger, you say it's obvious and everybody knows that these truisms are merely generalizations. But if you point it out, the manospherers start throwing rocks at you. PUA gurus and manosphere bloggers don't want discussion. They just want you to Hitler-march lock stop behind them in agreement. Sieg heil! No independent thought allowed! PUA dogma must never be questioned!

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

I cover The Wall here:

http://therationalmale.com/2012/07/18/the-wall/