Reacquainted

[Aesthetix29]

Recently I was out with the lads and crossed paths with a woman I was previously interested in, we said hi etc and couldn’t stop looking at each other … a few days later she messaged me saying it was really good to see me etc … so to cut a long story short, rather than just keep texting and getting friend zoned I just stuck it on her and asked when we was going out for our date … and it now looks like we are meeting up this Friday for a walk and and some nice food … let’s see if I can close the deal here guys.

 

[obelisk]

Good frame established. Your intentions Friday should be clearly non-platonic and sexualized (while obviously congruent with the situation). The last thing you want to be is too nice.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Good frame established. Your intentions Friday should be clearly non-platonic and sexualized (while obviously congruent with the situation). The last thing you want to be is too nice.

Exactly this … my intentions are very clear to her at the moment, my plan here is to escalate the situation and become more sexual towards her

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Let us know how you get on.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Recently I was out with the lads and crossed paths with a woman I was previously interested in, we said hi etc and couldn’t stop looking at each other … a few days later she messaged me saying it was really good to see me etc … so to cut a long story short, rather than just keep texting and getting friend zoned I just stuck it on her and asked when we was going out for our date … and it now looks like we are meeting up this Friday for a walk and and some nice food … let’s see if I can close the deal here guys.

I have never in my 31 years on this planet known this line to work well with women in fact ive seen numerous viral memes on social media actually calling it out and tearing it too shreds ,

The subtext is basically "I'm not sure if you like me , I don't want too risk my balls directly asking you so I'm going to indirectly ask you too confirm"

This chick could be an outlier or maybe be high interest enough to overlook it but personally I would say there's a high chance she will flake

Why didn't it work out previously ?

 

[Aesthetix29]

Honestly if it was a complete stranger I wouldn’t of put it like this but considering we kind of know each other and there was a little more to it than just asking outright but it was along those lines … I think that we both like each other but at the time just had other things going on and kind of went out separate ways.

if She doesn’t flake then I will definitely know one way or the other … there was a lot more to it than just being that direct I just cut a long story short so to speak.

but she was the one who reached out to me … we chatted for a while and I said that We should do something together ( I was also being flirtatious) and she agreed … will just have to see how things play out next

 

[Stanley]

I have never in my 31 years on this planet known this line to work well with women in fact ive seen numerous viral memes on social media actually calling it out and tearing it too shreds ,

The subtext is basically "I'm not sure if you like me , I don't want too risk my balls directly asking you so I'm going to indirectly ask you too confirm"

This chick could be an outlier or maybe be high interest enough to overlook it but personally I would say there's a high chance she will flake

Why didn't it work out previously ?

Hey, it's worked for me a couple times in some variation. If it is clear there is mutual interest it comes across as a "**** it, why not" kind of vibe. Each time though I knew the girl at least a little bit and twice i've had a girls say this line to me. It can work

 

[Bingo-Player]

but she was the one who reached out to me … we chatted for a while and I said that We should do something together ( I was also being flirtatious) and she agreed … will just have to see how things play out next

She's high interest then so you will be afforded a lot of room to manoeuvre

I would say send her something flirty mid week like " have you planned your outfit for Friday yet "