If you have body insecurity, that means it will affect your overall confidence levels, thus, your masculinity to a degree.
So if you're feeling insecure about your appearance, it will come out in your expressions and your interactions, thus, giving off the appearance that you're an insecure guy overall.
Its like a domino effect.
Its ok to have some insecurities, and be vulnerable.
But its not ok when it dominates all your thinking, thus, affecting your decision making. Because youre making decions based on fears and insecurities.
Again, its ok to be vulnerable and have some insecurities,but the key things is how you HANDLE these things. How do you address them?
Do they dominate your entire being and consciousness? Are you obsessing over your insecurities? Are you feeling attacked if a person acknowledges it to you??
The best thing is to admit and acknowledge you have an insecurity.
But take action to change it to something you desire, something favorable to you. So take a positive outlook on a situation that is not permanent.
If its not permanent, then it can be changed for the better, right?
Are you doing something to make it more favorable to you?
You're doing this for yourself, for your appearance, not for this woman.
If she accepts you as you are, then that is actually a really good thing.
Because having a woman accept you and love you the way you are is what you want in your life.
So if she finds you attractive even if you dont have a six pack, then accept it and be happy with it. If YOU want a six pack , ripped physique, then do it for yourself. She will still more than likely love you and accept you that way too.
But she will be attracted to how you move your body. How you express yourself physically. And how you handle emotions too. How do you handle being intimate and vulnerable? How do you handle adversities, conflicts, obstacles, meddling people, etc???
She wants to know your Emotional Strength and Integrity of Character.
So these are the things that will excite her too.
How do you arouse her? How do you relate to her sexually?
How do you touch her??
These things dont really have anything to do with your belly or six pack.
How do you treat her?
with respect? Or like shes just another piece of meat?
Do you make an effort to listen to her, and 'see' her?
Or are you checked out, and dont give a sh*t who she is or anything about her?
She wants to know if you have high self esteem, self respect, and are capable of treating her right. She wants to discover if you have the RESOURCES to share with her.
Or are you a needy/clingy and approval seeking nervous wreck???
This has nothing to do with your physique, only in the sense if you take pride in your appearance in a healthy way, and pay attention to grooming and hygiene.
That shows her you have high self esteem.
The guy who is OBSESSED with having a six pack actually needs approval and acceptance, thus, he has low self esteem.
Women really DO like a man to have a nice, manly strong body.
But theyre not usually obsessed with it.
They DO want their partners to have resources and emotional strength, and how they move through life is VERY important to them too.
I hope this helps.
