Hey guys. Long-time reader that never had the need to post, until today. I have a question.
I walked out on this girl about a year ago. We had an emotionally intense year together. It was one of my more memorable "alpha" moments. For months, she was hung up about it, posting sentimental **** and stuffs on her FB. I eventually deleted her but then she just posted them publicly so I still get to see them (Yeah, I check all the time. I have feelings for her. Sue me). She left town for business school, got an MBA, surrounded herself with finance types (you know how the ratio is in the finance world), and I think she's actually doing pretty well for herself now, graduated and all.
A few days ago, I heard she's back. I sent her a text, never expecting her to reply, but she did. It was short, it went like this (mine in bold):
"are you back?"
"yes"
"do i get to see you again?"
"why would i agree to that" (no question mark at the end)
I ignored her last message and proceeded to tell her to come have a walk with me to see the cherry blossoms in the park the next day. She did not respond.
I did not show up. The likelihood is, she did not show up as well.
I may or may not re-engage. I still have feelings for her. I don't know that yet. But in case I decide to, how would you guys approach to re-engage?
Btw, I am spinning other plates. She knows I'm living with another girl now.
I walked out on this girl about a year ago. We had an emotionally intense year together. It was one of my more memorable "alpha" moments. For months, she was hung up about it, posting sentimental **** and stuffs on her FB. I eventually deleted her but then she just posted them publicly so I still get to see them (Yeah, I check all the time. I have feelings for her. Sue me). She left town for business school, got an MBA, surrounded herself with finance types (you know how the ratio is in the finance world), and I think she's actually doing pretty well for herself now, graduated and all.
A few days ago, I heard she's back. I sent her a text, never expecting her to reply, but she did. It was short, it went like this (mine in bold):
"are you back?"
"yes"
"do i get to see you again?"
"why would i agree to that" (no question mark at the end)
I ignored her last message and proceeded to tell her to come have a walk with me to see the cherry blossoms in the park the next day. She did not respond.
I did not show up. The likelihood is, she did not show up as well.
I may or may not re-engage. I still have feelings for her. I don't know that yet. But in case I decide to, how would you guys approach to re-engage?
Btw, I am spinning other plates. She knows I'm living with another girl now.