Re creating yourself- broken dreams journal

broken dreams

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Making her invest in you

Im working on my sticking points and I noticed I lost girls within hte interaction wherther after the number or getting her on a date.

I found out that It was coming off too needy to hook up and not knowing when to let it go.

I didnt get her invested in me or the interaction once a women is invested in you it will have a value for her.

This comes also with the type of woman you want to do with , whether one night stand or relationship.

for now all girls I meet outside cold appraoch is for One nighters or dates.
the social circle within my school is for more serious type..depending thou cause the man can convey in the interaction her expectations that way the is a balance what she should work towards..
even if its open then its something she doesnt she as what she can work towards (its too blind)..plus you have to lead.

this will keep conveying the attractive qualities of a man.

and build comfort...

Im working on my comfort game built with frames and qualification that way she will feel invested in me and it is more SOLID.

The game is SOLID and the pick up is SOLID.

So I wrote of 9 topics that convey my personality which can turn to 2 hrs of convo easily more than enough in a pick up..

my sticking point is qualification...Im amazed when women want a man who is a challenge for her.

We are more into her looks which is GREAT but it differes from them even though they are hornier than we are..and even if they talk to you for a second theyve already thought about sex... :)

" If you do what you always do, you will get what you always been getting"`~ Mystery

This is the game of Life guys we most always do something different.


So I will post more soon....

NOTE:
Also been practing body language and advanced flirting to improve and convey attractive qualities.

I reviewed sexual techniques that I learned in brasil.
 

broken dreams

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Making her invest in you

Im working on my sticking points and I noticed I lost girls within hte interaction wherther after the number or getting her on a date.

I found out that It was coming off too needy to hook up and not knowing when to let it go.

I didnt get her invested in me or the interaction once a women is invested in you it will have a value for her.

This comes also with the type of woman you want to do with , whether one night stand or relationship.

for now all girls I meet outside cold appraoch is for One nighters or dates.
the social circle within my school is for more serious type..depending thou cause the man can convey in the interaction her expectations that way the is a balance what she should work towards..
even if its open then its something she doesnt she as what she can work towards (its too blind)..plus you have to lead.

this will keep conveying the attractive qualities of a man.

and build comfort...

Im working on my comfort game built with frames and qualification that way she will feel invested in me and it is more SOLID.

The game is SOLID and the pick up is SOLID.

So I wrote of 9 topics that convey my personality which can turn to 2 hrs of convo easily more than enough in a pick up..

my sticking point is qualification...Im amazed when women want a man who is a challenge for her.

We are more into her looks which is GREAT but it differes from them even though they are hornier than we are..and even if they talk to you for a second theyve already thought about sex... :)

" If you do what you always do, you will get what you always been getting"`~ Mystery

This is the game of Life guys we most always do something different.

So back into qualification/investment: credit alex

Qualification is very powerful if you have any sort of personable intuition and you have been speaking to her for a couple of minutes. You will very quickly get an idea of what type of person she is and her strong points.

For example qualification would be structured like this:

1. I really like your xyz quality
2. Not many girls i meet have xyz quality
3. Why do you have this quality/what inspires this quality in you.

Literally:

1. I really admire the way you are brave under pressure
2. All the other girls would crumble at the first sign of danger and scary things
3. Where do you draw your inner warrior strength from?

In terms of investments and returns after you ask her why she has such a great quality she would be put into a position where she will be inclined to invest in you again.

Girl: “My bravery comes from the heart, and the knowledge that someday I will experience true love in a free land.”

Boom, you have demonstrated that you appreciate her for her and she will rationalise seeing you due to this fact. Whereas so many guys lose out when setting up the meet up because the girl perceives the guys mind is solely geared towards sex even if he did appreciate her for her.

This is the same for first interaction make outs. She’s likely to get buyer’s remorse and her first interaction will be out of character ‘party girl’ that you wouldn’t meet on the date. By not making out you retain the ideology that you are picking her up in a context that would be similar to being on a date with her.

Even if you don’t have the ideal interaction there is no sure fire way of telling for sure who you will wind up meeting again and not, play out the phone game as closely as you can to the way it stipulated in this article.

When you leave that night send a mass text to everyone including the girl to further give her references to remember you by.

If the girl is going to get a mass text from a new number make it clear that it is a mass text and not just directed at her. Do not, under any circumstance, try for rapport.


----

So I will post more soon....


NOTE:

working on qualification and making her invest more..therefore more challenge and higher value

Also been practing body language and advanced flirting to improve and convey attractive qualities.

I reviewed sexual techniques that I learned in brasil.
 

broken dreams

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hey guys I was away...I made my own blog to go ver the goals Im setting for myself...Ive stepped away from the computer to pursue a lifestyle...It makes a big difference. Ive gone through some sitations thats changed me to be more self secure about myself and my life..and Im pushing myself at all costs..I ve gotten laid only 2 times without effort in this new year, one same day, a same night pull and other numerous bad dates...I suck at it cause where i live now and I dont like investing myself too much with someone who isnt compatible.Im starting to look for qualities cause Ive noticed that whenI m truly interested my game skyrockets...Im glad to have met cool dudes here but I will focus on deeper issues to keep pushing myself,Im the type of guy that likes challenges, Im like kobe in that way and for my looks I m that good.

alot of stuff is good here but alot is uneccesary...first it has to do with what you want and being honest with yourself. I dont plan to be a keyboard jockey nor whatever but ....never give up on what you feel you deserve.

you will find all the answers there within yourself, stay positive! signing off

sandro

if any, you guys can contact me at rockstardentist at gmail
 

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broken dreams said:
Making her invest in you

Im working on my sticking points and I noticed I lost girls within hte interaction wherther after the number or getting her on a date.

I found out that It was coming off too needy to hook up and not knowing when to let it go.

I didnt get her invested in me or the interaction once a women is invested in you it will have a value for her.

This comes also with the type of woman you want to do with , whether one night stand or relationship.

for now all girls I meet outside cold appraoch is for One nighters or dates.
the social circle within my school is for more serious type..depending thou cause the man can convey in the interaction her expectations that way the is a balance what she should work towards..
even if its open then its something she doesnt she as what she can work towards (its too blind)..plus you have to lead.

this will keep conveying the attractive qualities of a man.

and build comfort...

Im working on my comfort game built with frames and qualification that way she will feel invested in me and it is more SOLID.

The game is SOLID and the pick up is SOLID.

So I wrote of 9 topics that convey my personality which can turn to 2 hrs of convo easily more than enough in a pick up..

my sticking point is qualification...Im amazed when women want a man who is a challenge for her.

We are more into her looks which is GREAT but it differes from them even though they are hornier than we are..and even if they talk to you for a second theyve already thought about sex... :)

" If you do what you always do, you will get what you always been getting"`~ Mystery

This is the game of Life guys we most always do something different.

So back into qualification/investment: credit alex

Qualification is very powerful if you have any sort of personable intuition and you have been speaking to her for a couple of minutes. You will very quickly get an idea of what type of person she is and her strong points.

For example qualification would be structured like this:

1. I really like your xyz quality
2. Not many girls i meet have xyz quality
3. Why do you have this quality/what inspires this quality in you.

Literally:

1. I really admire the way you are brave under pressure
2. All the other girls would crumble at the first sign of danger and scary things
3. Where do you draw your inner warrior strength from?

In terms of investments and returns after you ask her why she has such a great quality she would be put into a position where she will be inclined to invest in you again.

Girl: “My bravery comes from the heart, and the knowledge that someday I will experience true love in a free land.”

Boom, you have demonstrated that you appreciate her for her and she will rationalise seeing you due to this fact. Whereas so many guys lose out when setting up the meet up because the girl perceives the guys mind is solely geared towards sex even if he did appreciate her for her.

This is the same for first interaction make outs. She’s likely to get buyer’s remorse and her first interaction will be out of character ‘party girl’ that you wouldn’t meet on the date. By not making out you retain the ideology that you are picking her up in a context that would be similar to being on a date with her.

Even if you don’t have the ideal interaction there is no sure fire way of telling for sure who you will wind up meeting again and not, play out the phone game as closely as you can to the way it stipulated in this article.

When you leave that night send a mass text to everyone including the girl to further give her references to remember you by.

If the girl is going to get a mass text from a new number make it clear that it is a mass text and not just directed at her. Do not, under any circumstance, try for rapport.


----

So I will post more soon....


NOTE:

working on qualification and making her invest more..therefore more challenge and higher value

Also been practing body language and advanced flirting to improve and convey attractive qualities.

I reviewed sexual techniques that I learned in brasil.

Instead of saying how you like a girls quality, why not qualify a chick through questions?

For example

You are man of high value and you travel, talk about places you have been, what will happen is here interest will peak or she will name of places she has been (to qualify herself to you) women use to do this all the time to me when I was on the field, and the thing is you are asking the question in a natural way

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