I'm gonna be on the boards all day long arguing with you and smooth =)
I ask then LikRetsam... how is this "respect" achieved?
The respect I say I have for the people I have dated is simply achieved the same way everybody else gets it. They, in my book, start out with it. It's like trust. You get a bit of it and in time it grows, but one day the other person may break it and it will never be put back together.
"If I have respect for that person I am dating then I will not cheat and vice versa..."
Luckily for me, the people I date are people I respect because if I don't respect a person, it means to me that I don't like that person or who that person is.
you like the woman you are with... and because of this, have no need to go outside of your relationship.
Close. I feel no need to go outside my relationship because I am satisfied in it. I may be wierd, but making out 24/7 is not my thing. Blow jobs, sex, whatever, I don't care. It's necessary for a relationship to survive but to me, it's not
very important. That also nullifies any desire to cheat. I not cheating honestly has nothing to do with how I feel towards the other person. I have fun with alot of people. Sometimes I have more fun with certain females than my girl. That doesn't make me switch sides. My relationships are not steps taken to achieve some pedestal. I do not take a step on one and move on to the other. My relationship is like my favorite team, I like it for certain reasons and sometimes it fails miserably but sometimes it is glorious. Sometimes other teams come along that are better in EVERY domain, but I'm still with my favorite team. Call it dedication. Do not give me your bull**** about how I'm an idiot for thinking I won't switch chicks because a better one (in every domain) came along. I have had that situation come upon me twice and both times I chose fidelity, I am much more satisfied mentally than I am physically and staying true to myself brings more pleasure than being with a better chick than my current one.
but in a relationship, your love for having women with boyfriends fall for you becomes null and void?
No, it sickens me to have them think I will do the same. I think it's funny. Honestly, mentally it amuses me. Poor guys.
Even single, I never close the deal. When I'm single, the fun is in seducing women. When I'm not single, the fun is in seducing one person over and over. There are higher stakes for the second case. Should I lose a chick when I'm single, I wouldn't care.
Keep in mind, I'm *very* arrogant. I tend to control it to some extent in the world where I have physical communication with people but here I'm more lax with it.
Basically, so there are no misunderstandings:
Being single, I like being pimpmaster4000 and having every girl I lay eyes upon eat out of the palm of my hand. I find it amusing for chicks to lead such dull lives that I can blow them out of the water as I do. I like seducing the chicks that can't be seduced.
In a relationship, I like watching girls fall for me while I don't do ANYTHING to get them hooked but what ticks me off is them believing they can come and get me to cheat on my gf. But in a relationship, I limit my outter DJ spirit and keep it focused on one chick. That's alot of pimpin for one chick =) .
Anyways, yes, I am deluded. Deluded by choice is the difference between me and the rest.