backbreaker
Master Don Juan
this is the way i always invensioned self esteem working when it comes tow omen
you in your head, have a general HB rating of what you give yourself overall. I believe every time you deal with a girl, rather it be to approach her, or to try to escolate a date, or to push for sex, or put your foot down or whatever, i feel like your brain does a mini check to see what your HB self esteem is and compare it to the girl and what you precieve her to be, than it acts accordingly. to use an example before i got to this site i would have no problem chatting or pushing for sex with a cute or avg looking girl but the thoroughbreds, i would clam up. i gave tehm a better grade than i gave myself and i was too afraid to lose them to make a hard move.
so 2 questions
1. what would you rate your self esteem?
2. what do you think you can do to improve your self esteem rating?
I keep a daily/weekly tab of this actually have for a while. I give myself at this moment a 9.2. I think pretty highly of myself. At my lowest i was a 4.8.
I think to get better I can stop procrastinating on these projects I want to do. there were also a few goals that i set for 2012 that i didn't even really try all that hard to attempt. I want to learn japanese, we are going to japan/tyoko next year and i want to know enough to get around by then. i haven't so much as picked up a book lol.
you in your head, have a general HB rating of what you give yourself overall. I believe every time you deal with a girl, rather it be to approach her, or to try to escolate a date, or to push for sex, or put your foot down or whatever, i feel like your brain does a mini check to see what your HB self esteem is and compare it to the girl and what you precieve her to be, than it acts accordingly. to use an example before i got to this site i would have no problem chatting or pushing for sex with a cute or avg looking girl but the thoroughbreds, i would clam up. i gave tehm a better grade than i gave myself and i was too afraid to lose them to make a hard move.
so 2 questions
1. what would you rate your self esteem?
2. what do you think you can do to improve your self esteem rating?
I keep a daily/weekly tab of this actually have for a while. I give myself at this moment a 9.2. I think pretty highly of myself. At my lowest i was a 4.8.
I think to get better I can stop procrastinating on these projects I want to do. there were also a few goals that i set for 2012 that i didn't even really try all that hard to attempt. I want to learn japanese, we are going to japan/tyoko next year and i want to know enough to get around by then. i haven't so much as picked up a book lol.