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HER: You're gonna hate me but can we do another day? My mom just got home and said it's crazy. ME: My house is warm. It's your call HER: It sucks because I really want to. But even my best friend would have a tough time getting me out. If we can do Friday or Saturday, that'd be nice. If we have to wait, that's fine too. I just have some cool ideas and snow is ruining it. ME: I know you want to ;) and I just heard the roads are gonna be bad so I'd rather you not drive in them. Talk to you later HER: Okay ya boob. I think I sounded like her father in my last text. I think I sounded like the biggest AFC that a beta b1tch could possibly sound like. I just want whoever reads this to be brutally honest about how much she disrespected me and how much of a wuss I sounded like. I don't wanna pull this crap with the next girl...
 

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Live and learn.
 

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Yeah obviously showing any concern about her wellbeing makes you a frustrated chump. You should get your priorities straight. An alpha male offers protection and security to those around him. This seems like a normal text convo and she seems still interest, giving alternatives and not blowing you off. Take care to not become paranoid and turn it into a self fulfilling prophecy.

Calling you a boob was just teasing you and her way of being cute. You're acting like she spit in your face
 

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Chickfight said:
Calling you a boob was just teasing you and her way of being cute. You're acting like she spit in your face
Typical female shaming tactics. Only a woman like you would rationalize it.
 

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whats the problem here
 

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Wasn't as bad as I thought it would be o.p. but it doesn't sound like someone with high I.L. ... you can just smell high I.L. when a woman texts.. I just don't get that here... all is not lost tho.. you could still get a bang out of this.. just don't be willing to get attached.. and back off alot. ... I think where you screwed up tho is by saying you want her safe at home... that needs to be her choice.. dad

And even if you get this girl.. who cares? You are self sufficient and not reliant on women for anything.. especially happiness. .. right? ... when you say yes... that is when you get her.

Good luck and go talk to some more girls.
 

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MillionBillionaire said:
Wasn't as bad as I thought it would be o.p. but it doesn't sound like someone with high I.L. ... you can just smell high I.L. when a woman texts.. I just don't get that here... all is not lost tho.. you could still get a bang out of this.. just don't be willing to get attached.. and back off alot. ... I think where you screwed up tho is by saying you want her safe at home... that needs to be her choice.. dad

And even if you get this girl.. who cares? You are self sufficient and not reliant on women for anything.. especially happiness. .. right? ... when you say yes... that is when you get her.

Good luck and go talk to some more girls.
. I know I sounded like her dad fvck. I'm corny old man to her as of now but do you think the frame is hopeless for a LTR in the distant future? Do you think she sees me as that much of a phaggot, given all I've said, that I could never be her boyfriend?
 

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Maybe I might as well just tell her that I didn't give a sh1t if she ever got home. I want more than a bang. I want to be alpha enough to be her man.
 

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Dude calm down it's going to be fine. The snow excuse seems legit, hell I've flaked on my boys this evening because of bad road conditions. Plus she offered a counteroffer. Just text her in a couple days to set up a date.

Chill on the alfa male stuff bro.

PS: on the text, it's not that bad come on. You're overthinking this massively and you're outcome dependant x100
 

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Ahaha
1 thing I learn .
Texting is wack ... you are very prone to making mistakes and saying gay stuff. But in the end it does not really matter ... time you spend with her is a lot more important.
I dont see nothing really bad with your answer and you overanalyze too much just be cool and dont be needy and you will be fine.
 

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Giantsfan88 said:
. I know I sounded like her dad fvck. I'm corny old man to her as of now but do you think the frame is hopeless for a LTR in the distant future? Do you think she sees me as that much of a phaggot, given all I've said, that I could never be her boyfriend?
Hey man.. don't be in such a rush to get into a ltr.. they can smell it

And take her off that damn pedestal .. she is up there taller than the empire state building..

All girls are un worthy of a LTR with you until proven otherwise... remember that.
 

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I didn't see any major problems in that exchange. Kinda dorky but not terrible. Personally, once she said something about rescheduling I would have said:

ME: All right, hit me up when your mom will let you leave the house.

And then I would have let her contact me whenever (or not).
 

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She thinks I'm a corny little b1tch phaggot and will never see me as a boyfriend. She should have driven through that storm. I'm a fvcking chump. How do I deal with this?
 

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Giantsfan88 said:
I don't wanna pull this crap with the next girl...
Then stop texting them.
 
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