Rant: I'm done with girls.

[TizZle]

This is a development milestone for you.

Now that you are done with women, you should find real and worthy things to fill that void in your mind. Whether it be your current profession, finding a new one, starting a business, learning how to invest, writing a book, going to the gym, whatever...you will find your happiness and self-worth is directly linked to the extent to which you live with purpose. And any of these purposes are far more worthy (and profitable) than chasing tail.

And I will absotively, posolutely guarantee you that when you find more worthy callings for your attention, and live according to the purposes thereof, in time you will find the tail chasing you instead. It has been true for many; you too can join their ranks.

It's not that you're done with girls, you are done worrying about them. And it is within this paradigm shift that you will sew the seeds of your eventual success.

A+ material

 

[ElStud]

A+ material

Yes, about the only advice in the thread that I'll probably take to heart because it's true.

I do worry about getting girls, who don't even respect me a lot.

 

[yuppaz]

Lordy lordy, bro you want it too much, you probably think about it too much. At first you ACTUALLY have to not really give a **** whether or not she is down to hang with you or not. You need some REAL indifference for a little while in the interaction. I know it's hard to know how to have that but since i've learned how to do the deal and I have other stuff going on in my life, and I have an abundance of women it only makes them want you more. You need to throw your energy into other things and really NOT spend time trying to hook up with girls for a little while, just don't care and if you are having a convo with a girl make sure she realizes that you can take her or leave her because you really DON'T care....then give her a chance to win you over if she meets your personality qualifications....which you should have.

 

[yuppaz]

tizzle, awesome post

 

[AAAgent]

You're right, I'm not a master Don Juan. I don't desire to be a Master Don Juan. See, I actually want to be able to get women by being me. I don't want to have to use all these petty tricks, routines and stuff to get women. That's just silly.

But I guess it works better than being genuine.

First of all, "you is a very fluid concept." like the line in hitch.

You're not going to be the same person you were 5 years ago or 5 years from now. You will change. The reason you change is because you will adapt to your surroundings. You will start to realize which things will work for you in life and better those skills while learning from the ones that don't work. I still fail a lot but it is a lot better than failing all the time. I used to fail with girls that had announced they were attracted to me.

Find out what you're doing wrong/what you're doing that pushes women away and stop doing it. You're not going to get any better unless you adapt and change.

Sure i wish i could make the Olympics "Just the way I am now." that's not going to happen. If i want to make the Olympics, i'm going to have to work hard and now give up and fix all my bad habits with breathing every stroke, etc. like someone said earlier, this is just a milestone.

I doubt you will really give up anyone. No one gives up on women if they do give up on things.

 

[Groovy]

So is it really unattractive qualities? I don't think so.

I want to adress this point. If they really WERE attractive qualities, girls would be ATTRACTED to you!!!!!!!!!!!! Keep reading.

Of course it is a good thing what you are doing. Being nice and all. You go man! And, of course, girls like it when a guy cares for them. (Is it the number one priority? Well, girls prefer jerks. So no.) But you must be lacking in other things, that's why they don't choose you. You are a nice guy. And they ALWAYS end LAST. You said it yourself!

Jerks display confidence. Girls are attracted to them. Nice guys display... sweetness. Okay. It's attractive ONLY when combined with boldness, and manliness.

You see, biology is what programmed girls. Many many years of evolution, ElStud! Why are we attracted to girls with big boobs? There is a reason. Why are not girls hot for you? There is a valid reason too, man. It's not unfair. It is fair as fair can be. Think about it to see if you agree.

You are doing something unattractive. There are some positive things these Jerks do that you must figure out what they are. And learn them too, then you will be attractive.

You also have good qualities. That jerks don't, like you are a caring guy, etc. Somehow, biology decided that jerks are overall more useful then nice guys. You think it isn't fair? How fair would it be that we were attracted to girls with small breasts? We would be SCREWED, our babies wouldn't be happy at all!

I WANT to add to this thread that girls aren't "bad" at all. It's how they were made, we were also made in a certain way. Girls are very fun to be around, and you will spend great times with them. No woman-bashing.

And chicks DO want a REAL MAN, who is not a jerk. Man, I remember Pook... he said it perfectly, the master in this kinda talk, he was! I read that three years ago, and I still remember. I took it to heart.

I also agree with Julius_Seizeher, some very valid points there!

But ElStud, IMO there is plenty of off the chain advice here in this thread. That is why this board kicks so much ass. If you listened more, and tought more about stuff, you would evolve more, it would be good for you I think.

Iceberg told something cool, nice is boring, may I add it is boring only without dominance, for example, being smooth, (Hey beautiful ) that is kinda being nice and confident at the same time no? :crackup:

 

[SharinganUser]

Guys, don't waste your time. This guy thought he could attract women by making Yoshi noises.

 

[TizZle]

the credit goes to Julius. it was the best post in this thread so far. it basically said "get your priorities straight and don't put women on that list"

In fact i believe women shouldn't even be on any guys priority list until deemed worthy. If you go out to chase tail or whatever some of you guys call it, i categorize that as "having fun" on a priority list.

I believe women are directly affecting El Studs happiness therefore he needs to do a bunch of other little tasks/priorities, as julius stated, to regain control, build more confidence and happiness.

When you have been through the trenches with women you realize these things.

 

[rushing dude 123]

I don't know to me it seems like you changed from what i read of your past threads. You are now somewhat taking constructive criticism and just ignoring criticism. That's good you're listening, that is something that will get you a long way with women, now the next thing to do is to apply the advice you're given. U have hardly ever applyed the advice most posters have given you, why not give it a try now. The only way to get new results is to try new things.

To be honest El stud i think you can go a lot more further than most people in this forum because when you say you can approach any set I BELIEVE U, which is something a lot of people are unable to do.

You have the confidence, yes tick that box!

I think your problem though is adapatability because by having that you can display your confidence in it's truest form, without it confidence is no where near effective than it is suppose to be.

When i think of you approaching I imagine you trying to throw a basketball in a hoop, taking a million shots missing nearly every time and never learning from your mistakes, but yes ur right u will get more baskets than those who watch and laugh at you and do nothing, but just sit there. Because if you never take a shot you can never score.

Now i can see another guy just like you, He takes a shot and it hits the rim and bounces back to him. He looks at the basket again and thinks "hmmm ok the shot was good, but it needs more height" he does the exact same shot and puts more up lift in his shot and gets the basket. He makes a shot fails and learns from his mistakes, thus adapting to his enviroment.

This is what i see, I think you need to start an approach journal, type your approach out and list all the positive responses u got and when the set started to get negative and what u did just before that happened. Tell us and we will tell you where u went wrong, then apply your new knowledge and try again. I have seen some of your approaches and stuff like "yoshi noises" (don't take this offensively) are in all honesty not going to cut it.

You seem to have changed and you have had a lot of time to think about things away from this site.

Last time you did this u improved and u got your confidence, now its time to get ur sosuave. Also yes pick up some hobbies, go gym and work on your studies these are going to be your foundations and they will define u into the DJ u want to be.

All the best El Stud.

 

[Jack-Torrance]

Oh my god! You used to be around when I signed up for this forum!

Are you fat? Are you ugly? Are you a creeper?

All questions you should be asking yourself.

If you are fat then treadmill time, and if you are a creeper, well, stop being creepy! It'd be much better if you could explain to us exactly how your interactions go, post up a conversation you have with a woman, we'll easily be able to see what you're doing wrong!

Good luck

 

[Alle_Gory]

You don't know **** about me and I don't know **** about you.

We know plenty about you because you keep posting and sharing. And it's very funny.

I see you haven't changed at all. You still think you're hot sh*t despite everyone telling you otherwise. And I mean EVERYONE.

Chances are they might be right, don't you think?

 

[Jack-Torrance]

One day you will realize that girls prefer jerks to NICE GUYS... But they prefer DON JUANS to jerks. This has been said a million times before, but I get the impression you don't understand! If I were to guess, I'd say it's obvious as hell that you're being a nice guy not a dj.

This is a REAAAALLY misinterpreted statement.

"Nice guy" is COMPLETELY different to a nice guy. You can care about a girl and be sweet to her without giving up any of your power. It should be obvious where to draw the line. Many girls that have liked me have told me they think I'm really cute/sweet.

 

[ElStud]

We know plenty about you because you keep posting and sharing. And it's very funny.

I see you haven't changed at all. You still think you're hot sh*t despite everyone telling you otherwise. And I mean EVERYONE.

Chances are they might be right, don't you think?

You have such a great life. Bashing people on the internet who have actually talked to girls! You must get so much ass :crackup:.

Julius seems to be the only one who knows what he's talking about here. Rushing_dude's advice was pretty good too.

Any other so called advice seems to be kids acting like they know me.

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

I think the problem, El Stud, is that you're too great of a catch an these women. They're intimidated by you. And you probably have a monster dong. So that frightens them.

It's not you. It's everyone else. And I think it's time for the world to change and embrace you the way it should have been.

 

[Groovy]

This is a REAAAALLY misinterpreted statement.

I don't understand, are you trying to say that I misinterpreted something or what? Do you agree with what I wrote or not? I kinda got confused by what you wrote, I am not sure what is it that you're trying to say bro.

 

[BBbardot]

If these girls don't want a guy who gives a **** about them, fine.
I'm done with them.

well this guys mustn't be running very fast if he has time to make her five kids^^

oh and yes, i'm tired of answering seriously to those stupid thread. You are to much of a case, just go for it, men are prolly better.

 

[Jack-Torrance]

I don't understand, are you trying to say that I misinterpreted something or what? Do you agree with what I wrote or not? I kinda got confused by what you wrote, I am not sure what is it that you're trying to say bro.

I agree with you.

But the term "nice guy" is often used loosely. If a guy is nice to a girl, it doesn't make him a "nice guy".

You can be nice to a girl and still have power, but that's when you're going down the relationship route, rather than the one-night-stand route.

 

[HolyG]

Elstud if I were you I'd save up for an RSD bootcamp. If SoSuave is the training camp of pickup, RSD is the NFL / NBA.

 

[Alle_Gory]

You have such a great life. Bashing people on the internet who have actually talked to girls!

Still living in your own reality. Whatever works man.

Any other so called advice seems to be kids acting like they know me.

Remember that story you told us about being escorted out of a university library by security and subsequently banned from the library for "talking" to some girl who really didn't want anything to do with you despite her repeated and obvious attempts to get away from you? That was hilarious!

Your problem is that you think you're hot sh*t. You're the best right? Well you're the only one who thinks so. I don't even think that way about myself and I'm more successful in every single aspect of my life (compared to you I mean). It's funny because I was like you before. Ego and all that, but as I learned how things worked and my place in this crazy world I became more humble. Knowledge is usually humbling. Fools have pride, and you are a fool but at least you provide us with entertainment. Thank you.

If you ever want to improve then cast your pride away. It's holding you back. Notice how you become so defensive over anything and everything? That's pride. You haven't changed at all since the last time I read your threads.

Maybe you like being stuck in the place that you are now? If that's the case, then don't change a damn thing and please write some more.

 

[rushing dude 123]

You have such a great life. Bashing people on the internet who have actually talked to girls! You must get so much ass :crackup:.

Julius seems to be the only one who knows what he's talking about here. Rushing_dude's advice was pretty good too.

Any other so called advice seems to be kids acting like they know me.

Jeez this is the last time i am posting on this thread. It's not about pointing out whos advice is good or not it's about applying it.

From this response seems after two pages u sunk straight back into your old self. Why the hell are you replying to negativity? Why are you trying to justify yourself to these people and forgetting everything else that everyone else tells you?

Do you want me to tell you a secret, do you know why people give u such negative criticism more than anyone else, because you do not reply to anything else, you have made them like that.

You are too busy trying to hold onto this thing you have i don't know what it is, but you are trying to defend it from these people and this is your problem. Because you are so busy trying to defend this pride of yours, you are not even focused on improving at all, all you are doing is maintaning what you already have. If you can't get girls with what you already have there is no use in maintaining this at all, so you are caught in this continous cycle, which will lead to the same result over and over.

I remember you did a thread on kissing a girl within first meeting her...People were telling u how to do it or giving u alternatives on another way u can reach your goal (A number/date), but the only people u really responded to the people who were telling u, "U CAN'T DO IT" as usual.

Women don't want people who stay the same and never improve, they want someone who is an opportunist trys new things and only focuses on moving forward and ignores anyone who thinks they can't.

If you sink back into the old EL Stud you will never move forward. What did the old EL stud do for you...nothing really, Become better improve.


If you want this to happen instead of having a ***** fight with half sosuave, which is going to happen because I am pretty sure this post will have about 200 posts by the end of the week seeing u been gone for so long. Leave this thread, start a new one and put your approaches on it and goals on how to improve your life and achieve all those things u want in your heart.

Or you could stay here ***** fight, learn nothing, tell all the members who gives crap advice and who gives good advice then don't listen to none of it. Leave do a few approaches, come back start another Rant "Nothing ever changes! I just don't get it" and do the same thing you have been doing for the last 5 years.

Those are your two roads, one will change your life the other will lead u straight back to where you started

It's up to u.