AmsterdamAssassin
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That's part of their job description. "Smile at the customers you service."I usually have Customer Service women at times smiling at me.
That's part of their job description. "Smile at the customers you service."I usually have Customer Service women at times smiling at me.
This.In the context of dating... smiling is almost certainly an IOI, and the type of IOI you get probably depends on where you are and the 'aura' you give off. Generally speaking, strong eye contact, smiling, compliments, and intentionally planting themselves around your personal space are strong IOIs that women rarely will do with random men.
The smiling thing could be a simple gesture that friendly and warm women (and men) do to spread "good vibes" regardless of interest levels...... However, I'd still take it as a good sign that that they'd do it with you since it probably means you have good energy, and if men are doing that too that's proof of concept.
In my case, I very rarely get instances of random women smiling at me (excluding when it's forced eg interacting with bank tellers or cashiers). This is probably because I don't look like a very pleasant fellow (which is correct) and wouldn't care about a smile or return one (also correct). Their IOIs take on different forms for me, and I think this is more evidence of how socially calibrated women are and how good they are at reading other people.
Some women in this position like greeter or sample giver straight up ignore me or just stare with no expression on their face.That's part of their job description. "Smile at the customers you service."
Thats an invitation to talk to them.Do they do this to everyone or am I the only one that experiences this often?
Lol yep normal female behavior. What once attracted them becomes what they wish you weren't, except when it's convenient for them.When I am walking around with my shirt off I get this and some of them look like they are about to break their neck with their head turning so quickly.
Funnily enough, after meeting my current girlfriend at a water park last year shirtless, she now hates it when I take my shirt off in public because I am "inviting female attention to myself". Go figure.
One of my lovers is always worried and jealous about other women showing interest.Lol yep normal female behavior. What once attracted them becomes what they wish you weren't, except when it's convenient for them.
One of my job functions is marketing/PR/Cust Service. They tend to hire attractive people for this slot & expect them to be ‘flirty’. I’ve had to explain to women I’m dating/in relationships with that I’m expected to be flirty and they shouldn’t be jealous. As it is part of the job.I usually have Customer Service women at times smiling at me.