Naughty Ninja
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You shouldn't take POF serious at all. Treat it as a social experiment. Just have fun with it.Packers2010 said:
IE: Getting replies and what works best for you to get them.
Getting numbers and what works best for you to get them.
Getting meets and what works best for you to get them.
Think of it as an extension of Facebook. You see ridiculous attention seeking and BS yet you don't and shouldn't really care. You just have fun on it..only with POF you could possibly get laid a few times more with random chicks you've never met.
Don't focus on needing to get laid off of it. Keep cool and relaxed. As you work on yourself and get better in real life working out etc. You'll meet more chicks in real life and can put up better pics on POF and by that point it'll be easy knowing what works, meeting chicks in real life and now getting them off POF and you won't care no matter what chicks do as you'll start having more than you can handle anyway.
If you get nervous or anxiety like you said. Just think when you meet these chicks or chicks in real life as a dude. You're going to meet a guy you've known for a long time that you're good friends with or a cousin etc. Anything to take your mind off of the chick being "hot or ok" you'll relax as you aren't focused on "screwing things up with the chick".
When you go to meet one as you are thinking you're meeting a "guy friend" to get your mind off of things on the way there..When you do meet her. Just think to yourself "What's up dude or bro!" as you walk up to her and smile (try not to laugh in her face though. lol)
Eventually you won't have to do that to not be nervous you'll be used to meeting and dealing with new chicks and won't care. It'll come natural like you just meet new chicks all the time anyway.
