Random girl just POPS into my head for seemingly no reason

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No it's not oneitis. I don't talk to her, meet with her, have any mutual friends with her, or have anything to do with her. Yeah she's actually pretty damn hot, but she was one of the trainers I had for a period of 7 weeks so I'm not gonna make move. Thing is, it was months ago and honestly I didn't even think about her at all while doing the program. I still never even thought about her until recently like a few weeks ago. I'm not in love or infatuated with her (well I would bang, by so would all of you, women included :p) and it sure as hell isn't oneitis either, don't even go there. But like I'll be doing something random like on the computer or watching a video or driving or messaging someone, whatever. And then out of nowhere she'll pop into my mind even if I am extremely focused on the task I'm doing and it'd be kinda hard to get her out for a while, but then suddenly I'd just stop thinking about her. Then the next day the same thing happens. Kinda annoying, but I guess it's also pretty cool because it's never really happened before. Hoping some of you could shed some light on this? One thing that was worth noting was that she had very strong body language, and I noticed how it was in such a way as to subconsciously draw attention to her. I was only able to notice because I'm very aware of body language and why I feel certain ways;though as to why I think about her at random, I'm not quite sure. I honestly think it may have something to do with her body language. But why several months later do I think about her whereas before I never gave a crap?
 

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No it's not oneitis. I don't talk to her, meet with her, have any mutual friends with her, or have anything to do with her. Yeah she's actually pretty damn hot, but she was one of the trainers I had for a period of 7 weeks so I'm not gonna make move. Thing is, it was months ago and honestly I didn't even think about her at all while doing the program. I still never even thought about her until recently like a few weeks ago. I'm not in love or infatuated with her (well I would bang, by so would all of you, women included :p) and it sure as hell isn't oneitis either, don't even go there. But like I'll be doing something random like on the computer or watching a video or driving or messaging someone, whatever. And then out of nowhere she'll pop into my mind even if I am extremely focused on the task I'm doing and it'd be kinda hard to get her out for a while, but then suddenly I'd just stop thinking about her. Then the next day the same thing happens. Kinda annoying, but I guess it's also pretty cool because it's never really happened before. Hoping some of you could shed some light on this? One thing that was worth noting was that she had very strong body language, and I noticed how it was in such a way as to subconsciously draw attention to her. I was only able to notice because I'm very aware of body language and why I feel certain ways;though as to why I think about her at random, I'm not quite sure. I honestly think it may have something to do with her body language. But why several months later do I think about her whereas before I never gave a crap?
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It's probably related to her birthday being some multiple of 3 months away, and/or your own. For example, it's the midpoint of your birthdays, etc.
 

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It's probably related to her birthday being some multiple of 3 months away, and/or your own. For example, it's the midpoint of your birthdays, etc.

are you joking
 

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