Originally posted by Yotsuya-san
How doth I suspect thee a wannabe, let me count the ways:
1)Grew up upper-middle class as opposed to struggling, broken family, inner city youth.
2)Been in the military 10 years. Judging by your age, you were in the miliary during those years when young people are almost expected to go out of their way and rebel. Being that the military tolerates nothing but strict conformity, seems like you're trying to make up for lost time.
3)You make six figures a year and yet you spend your spare time dressing the way you think the other half lives. Growing up upper middle class, you can't really say you just like to go back to your roots sometimes; back to the old hood, so to speak.
3)I'm assuming by your handle that you are asian. Given the prevailing stereotype of asian men as shy, nerdy, and asexual, methinks you're attempting to avoid one stereotype by trying to emulate another?
I'm not assuming that any of these are correct in your case, but these are prevailing explanations for a lot of the wannabes out there. I do put some thought into all this, you know!
LOLOLOL...
So you are saying being hip-hop is exclusively for those that grew up in the hood?
I find that interesting, especially with someone with your education...doesn't surprise me, though.
1. Grew up upper middle class...hmmm so what should I act like. Naw never mind. I think I'll just be what I've been basically my whole life. Not what some admited geek tells me what I should be.
2. Trying to make up for lost time...LOL. Nope...was the same way in the military. You know we didn't have to wear uniforms 24/7 and could listen to music. And why wouldn't I? Again, I've been this way basically my whole life (since I was 12). Rapped, break-dance, pop...did all of that. And I even had many friends & family, that dare I say, were gang members. But never mind...you wouldn't understand.
Make 6 figures...so I'm supposed listen to classical music and act like you? Look I know how this world is. I know there are people like you at my job that are my peers, so I know how to act accordingly. I'm just glad that not everybody thinks like you and I'm able to make good friends and contacts from my peers. By the way...I more cultured than you probably realize.
3. Hmmm...looking back on my roots. You're right never grew up in the "hood". But again hip-hop has nothing to do with being "hood". Now 90% of my family did grow up in what you call "hood", so I'm quite familiar what it's like, and frankly, I'm glad I didn't grow up like that. But I would never look down on my family & ex-friends (wouldn't go clubbing with them, though)...unlike what a lot of society does.
3. You're ass-u-ming by my handle that I'm Asian, huh? What about the other half of my handle? I'm VERY proud of my Asian roots. Not only do I have a hip-hop like mentality, but I also have an Asian one, since I grew up with much of that culture. But you ASS-U-MED wrong. Here click this link and look at my picture...
http://members9.blackplanet.com/asianbro28/
Do I look 100% Asian to you??
I know you will be able to put it together. I got faith in ya....LOLOLOL.
I see this discussion is moot. Our views of the world are quite different. I'm done with you. Please don't waste your or my time with this debate anymore. There are topics here, other than race, far more interesting and educational.
Take care bruthaman...no hard feelings. You can't help it.