quick question

[Smileyz]

hey guys,

i was just curious about something and wanna get it cleared.
its no big deal really..

anyway theres this girl i hang out with.well were really close and all and she probably thinks were bestfriends, i made a slight mistake on that but ill get it fixed. Anyway before i always hung out with her but ofcourse i played hard to get at the same time and we spent a lot of time together.

but These days ive been doing a lot of things..Doing something with my life, improving myself, going out with other chicks building my "kingdom" as one guy would say.

Now i found out that she's mad at me because she says i dont talk to her that much and she called me a "snob" i wonder why she got mad at me..she has been avoiding me as well..


i just want your opinion guys

thanks

 

[sosofresh]

it sounds to me like you've been doing what a DJ should be doing and that is improving. by doing all of those things that you've been doing you have made youself scarce. you make it seem like your a product that's high in demand. but you should probably take a step back and honestly try and ask why would she think i'm a snob? if you can't find a reason then it's all in her head

 

[LikRetsam]

I think there is more to the story than we know. Perhaps it would help us to know.

You're not building your kingdom. Maybe you are... but not for yourself.

 

[Climax]

The answer is simple...

*yawn* ... The answer here is pretty simple...

Smileyz: This chick obviously likes you, and she was expecting you to do something or take your "friendship" to the next level, maybe even turning it into a "relationship" (asking her out).. and by you not doing so and hanging out with OTHER chix hurt her, and she will be mad at u for that (hurting her feelings)... So either u let her know that u JUST wanna be freinds, or u ask her out or do something about it.

Laterz...

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

ya, i think she definately did like you, but her feelings were hurt. some chicks get really *****y when their feelings are hurt, and it sounds like thats what happend.

just hang out with her a little more, if you like her. otherwise, move on

 

[Void]

she likes you. and she wants you to ask her out.
So decide if she's worth your time or not.
Later.

 

[Smileyz]

ok..thanks Bro's..really great information you have provided..it is greatly appreciated..

but in my opinion..it isnt hanging out with other girls she's mad at me about..its mostly becoming a snob coz ive been busy..i mean she doesnt know i hang out with other girls coz i dont get to speak to her about it..when i go home i pass by another school to meet with girls and she doenst know about that...


Are your answers still the same? i would like to know

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

Re: The answer is simple...

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
*yawn* ... The answer here is pretty simple...

Smileyz: This chick obviously likes you, and she was expecting you to do something or take your "friendship" to the next level, maybe even turning it into a "relationship" (asking her out).. and by you not doing so and hanging out with OTHER chix hurt her, and she will be mad at u for that (hurting her feelings)... So either u let her know that u JUST wanna be freinds, or u ask her out or do something about it.

Laterz...

well that could be true but its too easy to think that! you are making a large asumption by saying this! we can not afford to make asumptions such as this with so little background information in the original post.

 

[Asesino]

Smileyz: Who's this chica you talkin about? Cess or Bin?

 

[The Antichrist_Star]

Some of these guys touched on the right answer, but the truth goes even deeper than that. It is something that you will simply have to accept as you continue to improve. The better you become, the more people may tend to dislike you. Change is something that everyone has a difficult time dealing with, so she may not be happy with the fact that you are becoming a different person (although a better one)... expect this trend to continue.

Good luck...

 

[Smileyz]

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Ah i see...great answer guys..iam thinking of Pursuing her along with the other girls iam pursuing right now..the more the merrier..

some People as we know it aint comfortable with change..they like the way things are, but thats just the way things are. Self improvement may be hard but who ever said being a Dj was easy...hehe


I get it now.

sosofresh- i have understood new things from your post..thank you

likRetsam- thanks for your reply though in my opinion iam doing it for myself..

~ªêQµïTª$~- i really hope what your saying is true..but if not..its all good..

Mr. Debonaire- Yea i agree with you, i can tell from experience girls can get *****y if their feelings are hurt.. thanks bro..

ireallywantgirls- thanks for your short but efficient answer..iam thinking of keeping her in the friends zone as af now..but who knows?? i really want girls too!!! ahah

Check_mate_kid_uk- i find some wisdom on your post..making a large assumption is quite wrong..but i would like to stay positive and think of the good outcomes..but nevertheless...your post was truly amazing.

Asesino-OI!! Cess bro... that bin's a BIATCH!!!! eto pala username mo ah..hehe.. Fellas i would like to introduce a playa in training.. heheh

The Antichrist_Star- A very interesting lesson i will remember..but us Dj's wouldnt let Anyone stop us from improving..we wouldnt care about what other people think..Thanks

 

[Climax]

Re: Re: The answer is simple...

Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
well that could be true but its too easy to think that! you are making a large asumption by saying this! we can not afford to make asumptions such as this with so little background information in the original post.

lech lehizdayen yazona!

Well.. i have a very strong belief that what i said IS true... but its up to him to make the decision and do what needs to be done...

Laterz...