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galvez

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So, just as a heads up, this is my first post.
Although I've been reading a lot of this stuff lately.
What I'm taking from it isn't necessarily new techniques, but just being able to gain some confidence, which is something I lack.

So my question is this:
I'm slowly getting better at number closing. I've been able to get a good conversation going, and it works. However, 2 girls that I've recently number closed haven't responded to my calls/texts. Just wondering what you guys think is the best way to get a positive response to a follow up. I personally feel there was a connection with both girls (they both said they really wanted to hear from me) but maybe I messed up on the follow up. I know some of you will say that I just need to number close more often, which I'm well aware that that's totally true, but I just wanna hear what works for you guys.
Thoughts?
 

PrinceKong

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What message did you send them? While talking to them, what was their body language like?


And good job getting out there and putting it all into action troop :box:
 

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PrinceKong said:
What message did you send them? While talking to them, what was their body language like?


And good job getting out there and putting it all into action troop :box:
Thanks man!
I'm glad to finally be getting some results, but apparently, it's not working all that well!
First girl: Definitely an 8-9, great body language, kissed me on both cheeks, said she really wanted me to call her. BUT, I think she was pretty drunk.
She lived in Ottawa (I'm in Toronto), moving down a week or so after I first met her. I added her on Facebook, told her I'm down for showing her the city when she gets in, no response. Never followed up after that.
Second girl: 8, met her on Friday, got her number. Also seemed a little intoxicated. Either way, great body language and eye contact. She also told me she really wanted to hear from me. Just sent a text about an hour ago saying I promised her a get together, and that I'm busy this week but I'm free Wednesday night. No response YET.
PS - If I don't get a response by Tuesday, should I call?
 

PrinceKong

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First girl: Why didn't you call instead?

Second girl: I have a rule of mine, always communicate through the phone, and no exception for me. I would have called instead of replying with another text message. But yea, call Tuesday night if it's left unknown.


Don't worry, everything you do is only a chance to improve.
 

galvez

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PrinceKong said:
First girl: Why didn't you call instead?

Second girl: I have a rule of mine, always communicate through the phone, and no exception for me. I would have called instead of replying with another text message. But yea, call Tuesday night if it's left unknown.


Don't worry, everything you do is only a chance to improve.
Word. I'm getting better and more comfortable with experience, and in the end, that's all that matters.

So, I didn't call the first girl because she gave me her Ottawa number. I wasn't gonna call long distance, I felt that might've looked a little needy. So I added her on Facebook. I wouldn't mind giving her a shout again, she was pretty hot.

And yeah, the second girl, I contemplated waiting until tomorrow and calling her on my lunch break, but I don't know why I changed my mind. Text messages give the other person an easier chance to ignore you. I should've called, but if I don't hear from her, I'm calling her on Tuesday.
 
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