when it comes to situations like this. It depends on where you stand between you and her and what type of girl she is. If she's easy, hot, ugly. from my experiences, slutty girls like to talk about sex, hot ones cant be to direct early and need more negs to equalize self esteem. ugly girls or average girls need to be treated more nice. but thats just my opinion. but for all girls you can't be to direct early on until enough comfort is built and it is ok.
read venusian arts. Attract, comfort, seduce