Quick Back to school tips

[S.Y.L]

Tomorrow I'm going back to school. What are some last minute small tips and reminders I can get. Last few years, I wasn't even a nice guy, I didn't talk to girls much at all, and this year I'm not afraid of anything. I also got in better shape, and dropped 30lbs.

Tips on talking and body language would be most appreciated. Thanks.

Also, the girl I like, tomorrow, should I attempt to walk home with her, since she likes almost across the street?

 

[BlakeW5]

Don't talk too fast. Take your time when talking. Most low-value people talk quick to try and get in as much as they can before the other party quits paying attention. Don't ask too many questions, it isn't an interview or and interrogation.

Avoid nervous body language. Don't move too fast or jerky, don't twiddle your fingers, don't walk around with your hands in your pockets, etc. etc. Keep a good posture, stand up straight and keep your shoulders back (don't slump). Be "open" with your body language, aka take up space with your body. Stay relaxed. Don't let yourself tense up.

And yeah, why not walk home with her? When walking home will you arrive at her house or your house first? If you get to your house first, just part ways. You can eventually work up to actually escorting her home (you get what I'm saying?). When you're walking home the two of you can talk, just don't force the conversation, it comes across as try-hard.

Just some of the stuff I thought of off the top of my head. Hope it helps.

 

[AlexParadox]

be enthusiastic and super friendly.
Remember, its a new year, a fresh slate. a new start
take everything you learnt on this site, and USE IT

 

[Five To One]

yea...

 

[intrextrovert]

If you tend to get nervous and see yourself speeding up, stuttering, w/e, just slow down. Do things slower, speak slower, you'll have more time to think and will be more chill. This is only if you have a problem with doing stuff too fast sometimes. Also to avoid fidgeting, try putting thumb and first two fingers of each hand together (hands seperate tho, like at your sides or wherever), should remove the urge to fidget or put them in your pockets.

And walk her home, yeah. Good luck.

 

[S.Y.L]

I offered to walk her to school too, and she said yes, and wants me to go to her house and pick her up there. I said yes.

 

[SinJester]

Do a search, you could find a lot better body language stuff then we could give you. Just remember to breathe and lean back. Smile and talk to everyone. Simple.

 

[surfdog]

Eye Contact!! its allllllllllll about eye contact...

when you manage to catch an attractive girls eyes, hold it until she looks away first. It shows her that you are not afraid of checking her out.

 

[S.Y.L]

Sounds about right. Anything I should do while walking with her?

 

[BlakeW5]

Sounds about right. Anything I should do while walking with her?

Talk? Don't force the convo, just talk to her like you would your friends.

Just do whatever feels right

 

[S.Y.L]

Kk, sounds good thanks.

 

[War Against Betaism]

There are a bunch of topics I've created before that I think many people will find useful.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=136810
This is a link to a topic where I posted videos of the most useful seminar on the subject of kino which is arguably the most important aspect of gaming.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=130091
This is my second most viewed topic and it covers body language. I could have added more but these are general outlines, and what I've learned is that once you learn the general stuff, you learn the detailed stuff mostly on your own automatically.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=150269
My most recent one, but if you're just looking for a quick tip and read, check it out.

 

[tucking fypo]

just be prepared to get made fun of (friendly joking) and to shoot back at them.

 

[chinwaggler]

All you need to do is remember everything you already have learnt from here. High school is so much easier cos you already know people and you're mindset is to be friends with everyone seeing as you're at school together. And seeing as it's a new year who cares if anyone thinks you're different, it's for the better.

 

[S.Y.L]

Kk, It went pretty good, even people who used to make fun of me for being fat were like, wow you look good. Girls were saying I look amazing, and I was a little bit nervous at first, but it all worked out.

I didn't walk home with that girl though, because her parents picked her up, because she had a dentist appointment. I walked to school with her, and we talked, a few pauses but it went decent.

 

[jeffthechef]

what's it like going to school in america? on tv it's huge and there are lots of people..and i've been seeing a lot of people talkin bout bullyin and fighting and fuking...this isn't even close to my experience...

 

[S.Y.L]

I live in Canada

 

[intrextrovert]

what's it like going to school in america? on tv it's huge and there are lots of people..and i've been seeing a lot of people talkin bout bullyin and fighting and fuking...this isn't even close to my experience...

TVs pretty exaggerated. It's probably similar to where you live, there are some big and rough schools, some small and a million in between. Personally I go to a pretty small school.

 

[S.Y.L]

Ok, A few people have asked me if me and the girl I like are going out, because we always walk to school and back together, hang out at lunch together, always talk to eachother etc...

This good or bad or w/e???????

 

[jeffthechef]

make sure you make your intentions known though...
i was in the same position..hugn out at school a lot..walked her home..talked on the phone before she slept..i didn't know it..but i was going deeper in the friend zone..dont wait too long