Questions for everyone

[anx1ety]

I've read a lot of threads on this site, varying in nature. But I've read a whole lot of posts claiming that women only function with emotion and not logic. Which I wholeheartedly disagree with. Women, more than men can be emotional yes. But I also know of many men who can be emotional, and many women who very well lack the most basic emotions, or are not very extreme in them.

My questions:

Do you honestly believe women only run off of emotion?

Do you honestly believe women will instantly cheat when upset, and only look at it emotionally and without logic to see that it's wrong?

How different do you really think men are in reacting to their emotions?


I read all these posts about how terrible women are, how they only act from emotion and therefore hurt people by cheating, etc. And it's quite disheartening because I'm with a girl that I am honestly happy with. Yes, we don't agree on every little thing, but I'd like to believe that if we got into an argument, or I said something that may have upset her that she's not instantly going to cheat on me because her emotions say I'm bad at the moment. I know for a fact I have an intelligent girlfriend, she looks at things logically almost all the time, and tries to see things from every point of view.

I personally believe some women are just like that, some women will just be cheaters/liars etc..while others, who may make mistakes like lie about something (nothing huge), will learn from those mistakes, and will be loyal and understand of arguments and not just run off and bang someone because they're upset.

 

[Scars]

Acting on your emotions is a woman trait.

Men do it too. Yes. Namely AFC's and men of lower quality. But they will soon find it comes with a consequence.

To answer your first question, yes. I believe it whole heatedly. I've witnessed it before my eyes time and time again. There is no sense trying to talk logic into a woman. She may act like she agrees, and retort something intellectual back but it doesn't mean she will do it. At the end of the day it all boils down to how she FEELS. I've been the guy who has been cheated on simply because a guy came around and played his cards right when my girl was emotionally vulnerable. I've also been the guy who has made woman cheat on their boyfriends because I got her feeling amazing to the point where her emotions over road her logic. It happens.

Just think if we ever had a woman president. It would send our country into a complete catastrophe. She would be making decisions based on emotion and not on logic. It would be easily to persuade her, and she would be twisted in every which direction.

The feminist would approach her with horrifying stories of beaten woman. Suddenly she is trying to pass more men-hating laws.

The animal rights activists show her gruesome videos of murdered cattle. Suddenly she is promoting vegetarianism.

We get attacked by another country. Without even first analyzing the situation and looking at it from every angle she orders our military to attack back with nuclear weapons not even 2 minutes later.

I know these examples are pretty extreme, but you get the point. It's very easy to play to a woman's emotions. She's going to do what she wants based on how she feels.

For your second question..

Yes. She may feel horrible about it the next day, but at that moment "it felt right".

Have you ever actually sat down and listened to two woman talking to one each other? I've heard girls literally try to RATIONALIZE why they cheated.

"It just happened.. I don't know how else to describe it."

"It felt so perfect."

"I'm not in love with him, so it doesn't count."

"I only sucked his d!ck, so it doesn't count."

These are things I have literally heard woman say right in front of me. The fact is they were over ridden by emotions at the time and weren't thinking clearly. It doesn't change the fact she fvcked up.

Third question..

For men it's usually a result of anger and frustration. Like when an AFC finally works up the courage to ask a girl out. He gets turned down and he gets pissed. Then a few days later he witnesses her making out with another guy. Immediately he confronts her calling her a ho, yelling at her saying why she said no to him but not for the bad boy. Of course he is only digging a deeper hole for himself.

Woman you can actually manipulate a bit with their emotions. I guess you can do the same with men too, and many woman do, so why not level the playing field?

Once you realize that woman run off their emotions you've gained an amazing tool for your game. You can get them to do just about anything, you just have to make them "feel" like it's right. Even if it's just for the moment.

I know it's not exactly what you wanted to hear, but the truth hurts.

-Scars

 

[Dannyrt34]

Do you honestly believe women only run off of emotion?

This question has my interest. My answer would have to be no, mostly because of the way you asked. You asked if women ONLY run off of emotion.

I've met some women who seem to be very logical and analytical. With the current girl I'm dating, she speaks very logical.

They do not ONLY run off of emotions. But I will tell you, from my experience, every girl does act out on her emotions. Just not 100% of the time.

Back to the girl I'm dating. Yea, she speaks with intelligence and logic. But when I start to get flirty with her and get her to FEEL something. That's when she starts asking me to come cuddle with her and stuff, she NEVER does that in the middle of a logical conversation.

Bottom Line: Women are both logical and emotional. You can be logical with a girl and I'm sure she'll understand you fully. But she probably won't get the hots for you until you make her feel some strong emotions.