Questions about other alphas....

[lokariototal]

Ok! this is my situation!

There's this girl that i think she's attracted to me. She always touches me, laughs at everything I say, and so forth. The other day, I went to talk with her and she was with a guy. The guy kinda "alpha'd" me in front of her. He was like showing more dominance to me and stuff, and she laughed at the jokes he threw on me...Do you think I just lost all my value to the girl? Do you think she felt something like "i felt this guy was more alpha, but apparently he isn't...guess i gotta look for someone better....
If you think about it, you can not be ALWAYS the most alpha of the group! for example, if you and your girlfriend meet, say, Kanye West, he might alpha you! So, how can you explain that a girl will be attracted to you, if your NOT the most alpha guy in the room?

By the way, if you have msn, give me your mail, so we can talk better and learn from each other......

 

[pjtheman]

man, it sounds like you have a lack of confidence here, you just have to walk in there with the mindset that you are the biggest most badass alpha in the room from the minute you enter. He makes a joke about you? Respond even better, quicker and wittier. The girl still aint loving it with that **** going on? then it's her loss, move on to the next hoe.

 

[x86]

You are living in gray zone hell. I have had much experience there. The way I see it you have two options.

1. Make your move. If your rejected that cool. Think nothing of it. If you go out you have more AMOG techniques to use and will be better able to handle the situation. Right now you are hamstrung by being in gray zone hell.

2. Don't make your move. If you choose this option you get to wait around watching her have date other people hoping that one day perhaps you might date her. Congrats, you will become the definition of oneitis if you choose this option.

So yeah, in my opinion I think you are asking the wrong question. The question you should find the answer to is "why haven't I asked her out even though I get good vibes from her?"

 

[x86]

man, it sounds like you have a lack of confidence here, you just have to walk in there with the mindset that you are the biggest most badass alpha in the room from the minute you enter. He makes a joke about you? Respond even better, quicker and wittier. The girl still aint loving it with that **** going on? then it's her loss, move on to the next hoe.

A hoe that purposely pits guys against each other and gets off on that **** is not a hoe for me.