Question..

[spree8213]

Question about eye contact..

I have read some older posts, it says you shouldnt break away eye contact first.. Well i usually do it after a couple of seconds because i feel uncomfortable..

But lets say you both staring at each other across the class, and BOTH dont let go of the eye contact, what the hell you gonna do keep looking at each other for 45 minutes? I did this with this girl in my class who is ALWAYS looking at me. So i started looking at her and she was looking at me we held contact for 5 seconds but i let go because i felt mad uncomfortable... But she still kept looking

Question is what do you do, when you keep looking and looking and she keeps looking and looking, is it ok to let go, or you hold it for long as you can and make her drop the eye contact first

 

[E-Z Rider]

Well, if you're holding eye contact THAT long, it's time to move to bigger and better things. Like TALKING to her =)

After a few seconds, smile at her knowingly. Maybe mouth something about speaking after class. Then revert your attention to the class. Whatever, just be sure to talk to her as soon as you get the chance.

-E-Z

 

[Don Rageta]

How are you gonna stare at each other for 45 minutes when you CAN'T even look her in the eyes for 5 seconds. When you read somewhere that says don't break the eye contact first it was a good point. Holding Eye contact with a beautiful woman says to her, 'i am a confident guy and am not easily shaken. your vagina does not intimidate me'. And this makes girls very interested. what should you do instead of breaking eye contact. If you have the opportunity walk over and introduce yourself. if you are in class just smile and mouth the magic word 'HI'. You are missing the point of the eye contact articles you may have read on sosuave or the dj bible. the point is not to win by making her break eye contact first. the point is to raise your confidence and the girls interest in you and YES to meet said girl. because just making her break eye contact isn't gonna get you a number let alone get you laid.

I too used to be intimidated making and keeping eye contact with people. to remedy this i went around my university campus making eye contact and keeping it as long as i can with EVERYONE. and i mean every one. men and women. after a while it becomes easy. And it raises confidence like you don't beleive. Not to mention the women who will notice you.

 

[spree8213]

Well what if im not really interested in her, i mean she is OK looking but im not gonna be the one approaching her to say hi, if she is that interested let her intiate a conversation... You probably ask, then why the hell you look at her when your in class? Because there is nothing else better to do, so i might as well But i also understand your point, i guess its never bad to have an extra friend