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Magic8ball

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Guys. How do you have sex without development of feelings for myself?

And second of all, I attract women who are married or in relationships. What the ****?

I been kind of going solo here but I'm bored and want to have fun.
 

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How do you have sex without development of feelings for myself?
by having sex with women you think aren't good enough for a relationship....

And second of all, I attract women who are married or in relationships. What the ****?
1) you give off the lover vibe.
2) you show them excitement they don't have in their everyday life.
3) you don't seem like good longterm relationship material

I hooked up with a temp working for the association hosting the convention I was at while in college. She was hot and only lack of logistics slowed me down. The next night she introduced me and my friends to her husband and kids...(and mouthed "I'm Sorry" to me).

I was from out of town, and wasn't gonna be a threat to her family long term... She just cut loose and felt like a college kid again.

At that point , I didn't understand my DJ potential.
 

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by having sex with women you think aren't good enough for a relationship....


1) you give off the lover vibe.
2) you show them excitement they don't have in their everyday life.
3) you don't seem like good longterm relationship material

I hooked up with a temp working for the association hosting the convention I was at while in college. She was hot and only lack of logistics slowed me down. The next night she introduced me and my friends to her husband and kids...(and mouthed "I'm Sorry" to me).

I was from out of town, and wasn't gonna be a threat to her family long term... She just cut loose and felt like a college kid again.

At that point , I didn't understand my DJ potential.
Thank you for the feed back and you are right about me feeling like I'm not worthy for a relationship. And it's pretty clear Im giving off the wrong vibes?

I guess the only reason why I am the way I am I don't want to be in a relationship with a woman who believes she should be in control and can't stand a man who is within himself and I feel like I'll fall to beta if I did the role of a provider in other words, attracting gold diggers. I don't have a ton of money to spend and usually they want a man where life revolves around you
 
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