Question to the women here: Do women prefer being approached direct or indirect?

[schttrj]

HOWEVER

Since this thread is beneficial to all wondering. If a woman is interested in you, then you can approach her directly. If she finds you attractive, you can approach her directly.

However, you find this out... indirectly.

Through eye contact and body language.

Unless you are a super c0cky mofo, in which case you could move in on an ice queen and either get her interest, or amuse yourself.

Til then, master the art of eye contact, subtle smiling, and body language. Learn how to seduce with your eyes.

i didnt get what u said..... what u r talking about is a warm approach and it doesnt matter how you approach as long as you dont act creepy and come off as a cool guy, she will be open. what about the cold approach where you dont get any signals from the girl, she doesnt even notice you.....

You're all idiots. The answer is: women don't like to be cold approached, period. They already have enough guys in their life (friends, friends of friends, co-workers) to choose from, why would she choose some creepy stranger off the street who throws some corny "who lies more, men or women" lines at her?

man, u need to face the reality. u know what, i was a boy who never cold approached and oh, i always got signals from girls but recently came to the conclusion that girls like to be approached because they want guys to come after them and seldom they would go for a boy. and a truth is very beautiful girls seldom give u IOIs because maybe they have so many choices, but you have to give yourself that chance. Girls have to be cold approached if u truly want to be a DJ... thats wht I learnt or your success is going to get stuck at a level, because girls may think u r hot but you will be losing on the chances, PERIOD! ( well guys, i am still fighting with the AA but any cold approach I have done as nervous was I am, i was accepted and at least tehy reacted politely and i got my recent gf with a cold approach).... cold approach is like marketing your quality product adn if you can, you win in the end.

I am not responding to the OP coz I am not a girl....

 

[Mad Manic]

I've done approaches, and if you have, I'm sure the words "get lost, freak" "look at you, then look at me" "I have a boyfriend" "I'm a lesbian" "Hey (insert friend's name here), this guy walked up to me and just tried to talk to me!" and getting pepper-sprayed or threatened to call security/police sound familiar to you. You can lie about having a good success rate online, but let's hear audio of the approaches, or see pictures of the girls you approached. Unless you're Tom Brady with Richard Gere charm, or you're approaching UG0-4s, you haven't got a HB girlfriend from a cold approach and you know it.

I've never had any of those reactions, and I'm hardly a master at any of this. Usually I have a decent chat and sometimes I get number/facebook close, sometimes they tell me they are taken and we depart on polite terms. However I haven't had a gf or got laid from a CA before, and from looking at everyone on sosuave it seems the successrate is low. However, from the LRs posted, it's from indirect approaches in the main. The direct ones didn't seem to lead anywhere.

To DJCantosie: No, you're the douchebag, you're talking hypothetically by saying, "Well direct just takes longer to master but can be more rewarding". That's called CONJECTURE. I'm saying that most of the LRs are from indirect approaches. If you want to link us of LRs from direct approaches, feel free, to back up your claims.

I agree with Iqqi in that subtlety, body language queues and eye contact are the key in gauging how things progress. She seems to get more stick than deserved IMO.

MM

 

[jcap]

focus on IQQI's answer.

that is the correct one.


1) she has to find you attractive, figure this out from the way she looks at you, does she walk back and forth, does she take looks at you when you look away, does she smile when she talk to you

2) if she does all that, cold approach

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for all the idiots who randomly jump on women and thrwo out some opinion question without the female even noticing your retarded ass, you are doomed for failure.


Thats called being a needy nerd. If a guy came up to me with a stupid ass opinion opener, I'd laugh his freaken ass off.

Would some football player who is a natural at the game do such gay sh1t like that? Seriously. retardness.