Augustus_McCrae: already have representation. A very good idea. Also the mediator we are using requires both parties to have one. A good policy if I do say so.
Epimanes: What I am looking for is a good life for my daughters. We've been living separately for 6 months, and she has rejected going to therapy, after going once and only wanting to talk about "co-parenting". Stupid ass therapist was taking her side a bit as well.
Basically, keeping the marriage together .. potentially could be better for the kids, but she is not responsive to "beta" interactions at the moment - ie the big 'screw you' about going to therapy.
Between this exchange and last, she had a **** test where she wanted me to give up my time with them ( I am taking them a very long percentage right now ). I refused. She then had her lawyer contact my lawyer. I told him that the answer was no, and other than relaying "no" to her lawyer, not to spend any time on it.
Went to pick them up yesterday. She was very cooperative. I told her she could text me. ( Previously had said email only to reduce gaslighting, and general woman revisionist insanity ).
One daughter had a little cut, and I texted her to tell her. She texted back quickly to suggest something. When we were talking, she stood on the step above, as I am much taller. She was not aggressive in body language.
So, this seems better, and I am interested in using a therationalmale style game to resolve this, whether it be divorce or reconciliation.
Knowing what the red pill lets me know, I would be willing to take her back, as long as she knows I am the Man. ( As I screwed up pre-red-pill, in an epic story that I only could hope to parlay into as much success as Rollo has, ha )
Divorce is not fun - splitting all of our **** will be a massive massive pain, but if she insists, I will ensure to get the best out of it for a) daughters b) me. [ Note a) implies not a scortched earth strategy ]
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Given this expanded situation. Do I use text to game, or is that too dangerous given that other than my previous experience with women, which was not bad given my level of blue pill?
If the answer is yes, what methods are a bad idea.
If the answer is no, what should I use the next exchange for?
