BramhaBull60
Don Juan
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Alright heres my deal. I just read a recent post about attention *****s, and its very similar to this girl I work with that I have been pursuing but have finally nexted. She was a 9-10, model beautiful, has guys always approaching her, and says she likes to have "good guy friends" which she has plenty of, including a chump ex who gets nowhere with her. Can you see why I nexted this chick? lol Anyway, I was growing strong feelings for her, and while we had gone out a couple of times, she was giving me the whole " I see you at work all the time, and got to hang out with my friends " B.S when I asked her to do a couple of things( and instead of saying no initally she would cancel on me the day before. Bad behavior problems!).
Anyway, I decided to next this girl. I had feelings for her, and felt that if I fell into to deep with this game I would hurt my confidence and dating efforts, so I just stopped doing stuff like going to lunch, let her know that she was a great co worker as opposed to friend, and kept dating other girls. Now I am holding strong, even though I do like her, but she is starting to get angry with me because I am a bit colder and she won't leave me alone with her attention seeking. My goal with her is if she wants to see me, and cares for me, she will ask me to do something, if not , then I have already nexted her, and will find someone else. My question is though that she wont leave me alone, and is obviously trying to get my attention, but I don't want to be sucked back into her game. Am I doing the right thing or should I have been honest and said I like you alot, and I don't want to be friends with people I have a romantic interest in, so eithier you want to go out with me or you don't and we move on?
Sorry if this is rambling. Any advice would be appreciated.
Erik
Anyway, I decided to next this girl. I had feelings for her, and felt that if I fell into to deep with this game I would hurt my confidence and dating efforts, so I just stopped doing stuff like going to lunch, let her know that she was a great co worker as opposed to friend, and kept dating other girls. Now I am holding strong, even though I do like her, but she is starting to get angry with me because I am a bit colder and she won't leave me alone with her attention seeking. My goal with her is if she wants to see me, and cares for me, she will ask me to do something, if not , then I have already nexted her, and will find someone else. My question is though that she wont leave me alone, and is obviously trying to get my attention, but I don't want to be sucked back into her game. Am I doing the right thing or should I have been honest and said I like you alot, and I don't want to be friends with people I have a romantic interest in, so eithier you want to go out with me or you don't and we move on?
Sorry if this is rambling. Any advice would be appreciated.
Erik