Question for Vets past the "beginner" stages

[PDubb75]

I joined this forum following my 6.5 year relationship ending in Nov, as I had never really experienced the "game" and the "dating" scene. Since joining, I have done a LOT of reading on here, and a good amount of posting to give any advice I can offer.

However, I haven't posted much with my own questions, because I prefer to just go out and try things for myself. I get out when I can and have been trying a lot of the strategies I've come across here.

My question for those who have been around for a while, at what point did your success rate really begin to rise? I realize this could be completely different for every single person, but that's why I'm curious about your own experiences. Was there any specific turning point for you?

I am consistently getting more comfortable approaching and having conversations, but to this point, I haven't gotten much further. I have had three recent kiss/number closes, but for individual reasons, I've taken all three of those off my radar.

Just hoping to get some of your experiences, thinking back to when you were just learning this stuff.

 

[PapiChulo]

I ve been on here for less than a year and I still got lots to learn, especially some of the stuff I ve not dealt personally with. I still read though, because foresight teaches gently.

The game itself should click at some point, when you get the feel that you have figured it out. Sadly there is no magical formula to increase your success rate either, and the actually success ratio is still low. And our art is more like fishing, not hunting, so that the idea of success of getting a particular woman doesnt even apply here all the time.

I hate to sound like this, but the thing is that game itself is only a small part of what you should be doing to increase your seduction abilities, which is self-improvement. I ve kinda run into a brick wall myself, because I ve stopped improving and have gotten a little big-headed in terms of physical shape. I was on and off with my weight, plus, I ve started gaining a lot less muscle. I just found myself not being able to get any further, them a string of rejection followed. Now I am basically taking a break, saying f&%ck it - time to improve myself, especially the body, to take me further. I still get female attention, but its not enough to make them tingle.(I dont believe its my game)

 

[powpow]

man it really just depends on the way you see success. what is success really? Are you becoming more confident? more comfortable? more smooth with your conversation?

then that PROCESS alone is success, yeah?

you become more self aware? aware of your surroundings? success

I started becoming more successful after about a week of reading this stuff.

I need to write a book.

The main theme of this book would be the less you care about these *****es, the more poon you get. also, check out this website called mylifeisbro.com

poon and confidence are show strong postive correlation.
poon and caring about poon show strong negative correlation.

 

[bigneil]

My success rate skyrocketed once I started eating the right diet. Mostly organic vegetables. Learned about detox herbs also. I was 27 then and now at age 40 I'm in nearly the exact same shape. No hair loss. No grays. No eyesight loss. Same weight. Same strength. I won't say it's just as easy now because at age 27 I could date 18 year olds, but it's not too much worse. I still date 23 year olds, but the cougar trend sucks. Diet is key though.