gigantasaurus
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First of all, let me say it is a wonderful book. I have not yet finished it, but I am enjoying it very much. I recommend that everyone read it.
My question is, with the principles that Dale Carnegie teaches in mind, how would you relate them to women you are interested in? Obviously the word "friend" is used in the title of the book, but you don't want the women to become "friends".
I kind of get the impression that the principles Carnegie teaches conflict with things taught on this site. For example, a lot of people on this site tell others to be really big headed; when you walk into a room full of people you automatically think yourself "I am the hottest, coolest person in this room" (or something along those lines). Whereas Carnegie teaches an attitude of humility and to focus on other people instead of yourself.
Would this book deter from DJ efforts?
My question is, with the principles that Dale Carnegie teaches in mind, how would you relate them to women you are interested in? Obviously the word "friend" is used in the title of the book, but you don't want the women to become "friends".
I kind of get the impression that the principles Carnegie teaches conflict with things taught on this site. For example, a lot of people on this site tell others to be really big headed; when you walk into a room full of people you automatically think yourself "I am the hottest, coolest person in this room" (or something along those lines). Whereas Carnegie teaches an attitude of humility and to focus on other people instead of yourself.
Would this book deter from DJ efforts?