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Question for those that started late

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This question is directed towards guys like me. Who have had interest in girls for as long as they can remember, however just happened to start being with girls rather late in age.

When you hear about a 12 year old having his/her first kiss do you feel jealous and possibly mad at yourself for not being like that when you were younger?
 

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Fvck it man.... the best thing to do is go for the young stuff if you're a bit older.... thats what i've done... i'm 20 and just railed the **** out of a 17 y/o like 10 times n 2 days. It really makes you feel better that you weren't getting laid like that when you were 17 cause you get to see how in experienced the chick really is. Don't get me wrong i was getting laid since 15 but nothing like i do now.
 

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i started the game late as well, and even now still consider myself behind in many regards. you bring up an interesting question I find myself asking from time to time as well.

yeah, it hurts a little bit to see people who are naturals who get what they want. I have seen it all in the class room and on the ice too, but these people will always exist and you can't beat yourself up for not being them. remember this, you are likely in a similar situation now where someone with inferior talent/looks/smarts is looking up to you. What do they fail to see that maybe you failed to see? hard work perhaps?

People who have it all don't need to work hard to get it. Folks like me always have and I pride myself in having to put more energy to get results. In engineering, I found I was slower at figuring stuff out ( especially modeling magentic systems!), slower to derive diff EQs etc, but I still worked at it and got good marks, finished my masters ( which many of my more talented friends did not). In sports its the same thing and have gotten in good shape having to simply outwork most folks as opposed to be naturally better. The process of working hard improves you, while the end result ( being better) seldom matters.
 

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The reason why I'm asking this is because I do also feel kind of hurt. I just acquired my first girlfriend at age 17. She was the first girl I hugged longer then 3 secs, first hand I held, first kiss, first everything basically. She was 14 (now 15) at the time all that happened and I was not the first guy that she's done all that with. I'm further behind then she is all though I caught up rather quick. If I could of started all of this stuff back when I was like 13 things would be so much easier now.
 

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You got your first gf at 17,not bad keeping in mind the life of the average joe,do you really feel jealous of a 12yrs old kid who kissed a girl with no breast who probably looked like him?

Is this an ego thing or the pure desire to be the first to "touch" her or to give her some kind of emotions?
Nothing wrong with that of course,I just had this impression while reading your second post.

Just think about guys in their 20s in this site looking for advices of how to lose their vcard,it's them to have problems when it comes to age and girls,not you.
 

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Strelok said:
Just think about guys in their 20s in this site looking for advices of how to lose their vcard,it's them to have problems when it comes to age and girls,not you.
I want guys in their 20's primarily to be giving me their answers. That's why this is not in the HS thread.
 

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First GF: Age 15
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First BJ: Age 17
Lost V-card: Age 20

It doesn't really bother me when I hear of guys getting their first taste of the dating scene at a young age. I just wish I had more ba11s back then and my home life was different. Those were my two biggest stumbling blocks.

Why should I let it bother me? Here I am today, being successful with and without women.
 

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morepoonplease said:
Fvck it man.... the best thing to do is go for the young stuff if you're a bit older.... thats what i've done... i'm 20 and just railed the **** out of a 17 y/o like 10 times n 2 days. It really makes you feel better that you weren't getting laid like that when you were 17 cause you get to see how in experienced the chick really is. Don't get me wrong i was getting laid since 15 but nothing like i do now.
nice dude! something about fuking the young ones like that is such a turn on.
 

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buckleyindahouse said:
Is it the risk of possibly going to jail?
No, as long as both sides want it, I don't have a problem with it, regardless of age.
 

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Didnt lose my virginity until the spring of my senior year to our class prom queen. She has no idea she took my v-card. I was 18 years old....

It does bother me sometimes, because I spent four years with tons of horny little slvts who were very willing and able to fvck me. I just didnt know how to get the job done. There were countless girls who were interested, I just didnt have my act together until it was too late.

Just keep working at it and you will get there when your ready, nothing else you can do about it.
 

Duracell_Bunny

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First kiss at 16
Lost V-Card aged 24, about 10 months ago.
First g/f 6 months ago, lasted about 3 months.
First proper date, 3 months ago.

...and you feel 17 is late!


I'm not ugly and have never been overweight.


What I regret is what I'm finding out right now.

Going deeper into discovering dating and these strange unpredictable beings in general has made me realize how far behind I am. I should have been at this level when I was in my teens.

Being this late and going right in there when all the women have developed their b-shields and sh1t tests is bit of a challage.

For this reason it does give my a slight feeling of anger when I hear about younger people, cos I know that guy will have a great future with women.

Loosing the v-card late doesn't bother me at all and I can proudly say apart from my first two I've made all my lays cvm (many times). But I before I lost it I used to get very depressed over it, now I wonder why.

Before this I used to get lucky with the odd kiss and number from a drunk chick in a club/party. But I never knew what to do from there until now.
 

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I didn't get my first kiss until 27. I didn't have sex until 28. I completely missed out on girls in high school and college. It bothered me big time. It still does from time to time, although I realize the past is the past.

Thanks to SS, at 34, I have had 4 sexual partners. I'd like to get up to maybe 6 or 7 before I settle down, but at my age, they usually want something serious. That makes it a lot tougher.

To the OP, you're still really young. With access to SS, you are in a much better position then you think.
 

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I was fondling and humping at 12 years olds, probably much younger if I can recall. Probably 10. I remember, me and my moms boyfriends daughter used to have a bunkbed. I was on the bottom, her on the top. When my mom and her boyfriend used to switch the lights off, we would wait for them until we started hearing "snoring" in there room.

We'd already make a "time" or schedule to meet in the middle of the room LOL. So we'd check our watches, get up and meet in the middle, with the lights off. So we would have to search for eachother naked. From there, we'd just fondle and kiss eachother. I remember I attempted to put my willy in her, obviously at these young ages I didn't even know my foreskin could pull down so much. I remember it pulled and I squeamed like a little bytch LOL. We used to reenact sexual scenes in Movies too, Doctors & Nurses and I remmeber different occasions in Primary School where I used to run behind cafeterias with different girls and we'd just fondle and sucked on a few titties.

I was a horny little snotnosed 10-12 year old.

So, in a nutshell I was sexually active around 10-12. Had my first REAL kiss or snog at 14. Started having vigourous sex at 15 with my High School girlfriend. Had my first BJ at 15 or 16. Accidently got a girl pregnant at 20.

It doesn't matter if you started out sexually when you were 12 or more. I'd be more concernced about learning an instrument or sport at that age than if I wanted to get good at the former and latter in my late twenties. Really, it doesn't make a difference dude.
 

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Nothing worse than being a 30 year old male in America. If you banged a lot of fatties back in the day you are going to live in the past. If you didn't bang the fatties (I mean HB9's) you will be kicking yourself while you hunt for single mothers and really fat girls who work at pizza parlors. It sucks.

I am going to Oktoberfest in a few weeks and pretend I am 14 years old again (14 year olds can drink beer in Germany). Probably end up at night listening to horrible Eurodance tunes that I adore. Maybe I will buy a Playstation 3 game. Non-Anglo countries allow men to be as young as they wish without feeling like a loser.
 

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BigJimbo said:
Nothing worse than being a 30 year old male in America. If you banged a lot of fatties back in the day you are going to live in the past. If you didn't bang the fatties (I mean HB9's) you will be kicking yourself while you hunt for single mothers and really fat girls who work at pizza parlors. It sucks.
rofl!!
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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BigJimbo said:
Nothing worse than being a 30 year old male in America. If you banged a lot of fatties back in the day you are going to live in the past. If you didn't bang the fatties (I mean HB9's) you will be kicking yourself while you hunt for single mothers and really fat girls who work at pizza parlors. It sucks.

I am going to Oktoberfest in a few weeks and pretend I am 14 years old again (14 year olds can drink beer in Germany). Probably end up at night listening to horrible Eurodance tunes that I adore. Maybe I will buy a Playstation 3 game. Non-Anglo countries allow men to be as young as they wish without feeling like a loser.
If you have accommadation for wherever you are. I'll leave the States right now, if not, theres no point in hollaring and hooting in this US Bashing spree of yours, dude. I'm serious.
 

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The Mad Ghost said:
If you have accommadation for wherever you are. I'll leave the States right now, if not, theres no point in hollaring and hooting in this US Bashing spree of yours, dude. I'm serious.
That's a good idea. Jimbo you could make some money with this. Start a service where guys from America stay at your place for a week. You show them just how much better life is where you are, and you help them hook up with girls in whatever country you're at right now (I think you're in eastern europe right?)
 

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Boxer said:
This question is directed towards guys like me. Who have had interest in girls for as long as they can remember, however just happened to start being with girls rather late in age.

When you hear about a 12 year old having his/her first kiss do you feel jealous and possibly mad at yourself for not being like that when you were younger?
Who cares? You can't change the past, so why waste time thinking about it? How about fvcking a bunch of chicks to make up for it? That's what I did. lol I didn't loose my v-card till 19.
 
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Desdinova said:
First GF: Age 15
First kiss: Age 15
First BJ: Age 17
Lost V-card: Age 20

It doesn't really bother me when I hear of guys getting their first taste of the dating scene at a young age. I just wish I had more ba11s back then and my home life was different. Those were my two biggest stumbling blocks.

Why should I let it bother me? Here I am today, being successful with and without women.
This is what stood out to me. Thanks
 

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Yeah it does bother me hearing about younger dudes being more successful then I am. Frankly I just try to avoid hearing about stuff like that because I know it brings me down. So I just don't think about it.

I know I'm far behind the curve, but as long as I keep making small steps, that's all that really matters.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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