Question for men without cars, how do you date girls? Does she ever drive you?

[NealIRC]

Without a car, what are 1st dates like? Where you and girl agree for a pre-determined location?

Thing is for men with cars that pick up girls for a date, that somewhat requires you to know her address, and a lotta girls are not gonna give that out, so that means = they're willing to meet you at the pre-determined location?

2ndly, how many dates do you go with a girl before she's willing to drive you places?

 

[CornbreadFed]

Where do you live? If you don’t live in a city where having a car is more so a liability than beneficial then you need to rethink your priorities. At age 35 without a car is seen as pretty pathetic and will limit you to the lowest tier of women.

 

[Billtx49]

Thing is for men with cars that pick up girls for a date, that somewhat requires you to know her address, and a lotta girls are not gonna give that out, so that means = they're willing to meet you at the pre-determined location?

2ndly, how many dates do you go with a girl before she's willing to drive you places?

Never had that problem, when I started dating in high school I got a part time job and a 10 year old car to make it possible. A man needs mobility to get opportunities.

If you ask a girl out and you tell her you’ll pick her up, but she gives no address, that date isn’t happening. If you suggest a location meet up, she’s interested if she shows…

Never let a girl consistently drive you anywhere, that’s what beggars do and she will have that ride / destination location power over you.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

I only have a motorcycle so I will just drive her car normally if we're going somewhere together that's far away. I never let a girl pick me up; usually opt to meet somewhere first then I take her keys.

There was a period where I had no transportation.. For first dates, I'd opt to meet at bars within walking distance from my place downtown. If you don't have any transportation, you basically have live in a popular, walkable part of the city in a nice building.

Alternatively, I will get them to drive straight to my place if possible. In one particular case I did take an uber to a bar then have her drive me back to my place to stay the night.

Going forward, if we're going on a trip that's more than a couple hours drive away, I'll rent a car.

 

[NealIRC]

Where do you live? If you don’t live in a city where having a car is more so a liability than beneficial then you need to rethink your priorities. At age 35 without a car is seen as pretty pathetic and will limit you to the lowest tier of women.

Chicago.

 

[SW15]

Chicago.

In certain neighborhoods of Chicago, it's possible that a person can get away with not having a car and not have it hurt SMV.

In the USA, New York City's Manhattan borough is the classic example of where car ownership does not affect SMV.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Without a car, what are 1st dates like? Where you and girl agree for a pre-determined location?

Thing is for men with cars that pick up girls for a date, that somewhat requires you to know her address, and a lotta girls are not gonna give that out, so that means = they're willing to meet you at the pre-determined location?

2ndly, how many dates do you go with a girl before she's willing to drive you places?

When I had a dui and couldn't drive for a year I had them come pick me up. It was easier that way in a lot of respects. This was also 12 years ago when things were easier fwiw. The main thing is that you need good text game to get them hooked before you tell them.

 

[Robert28]

In certain neighborhoods of Chicago, it's possible that a person can get away with not having a car and not have it hurt SMV.

In the USA, New York City's Manhattan borough is the classic example of where car ownership does not affect SMV.

That’s because a parking space in NYC is prone real estate. You’d be shocked what people pay to rent parking per month. It was a couple hundred bucks last time I asked someone who lived there. I’m sure it’s way more now.

 

[NealIRC]

I posted this same thread in the Incels.is forum, and a lot of them responded "wrong forum retard" LOL. XD

 

[CornbreadFed]

Chicago.

Idk much about Chicago. Why don’t you have a car? You are better off just lying saying it’s a dui or a loved family member is borrowing it. Nonetheless, if you don’t have a car due to finances, I wouldn’t have my eyes on dating.

 

[Billtx49]

Idk much about Chicago. Why don’t you have a car? You are better off just lying saying it’s a dui or a loved family member is borrowing it. Nonetheless, if you don’t have a car due to finances, I wouldn’t have my eyes on dating.

With today’s availability of Uber, taxis, and public transport in a metro area like Chicago, the Last thing I would be doing is asking my date for a ride …

 

[BillyPilgrim]

With today’s availability of Uber, taxis, and public transport in a metro area like Chicago, the Last thing I would be doing is asking my date for a ride …

You're paying for the date, no? And Chicago's huge like Dallas. Can you imagine Ubering or taking the bus to Fort Worth from University Park?

 

[Billtx49]

You're paying for the date, no? And Chicago's huge like Dallas.

I don’t date 35 miles away, but Yes, if I set up a date, I will drive or pay. If I can’t afford a car or paid transport, I have problems more serious than dating transportation …

 

[holidayad_]

Thing is for men with cars that pick up girls for a date, that somewhat requires you to know her address, and a lot of girls are not gonna give that out, so that means = they're willing to meet you at the pre-determined location?

Yes. Normally, I offer her a ride. If she accepts it, I ask for the location. If she tells me she will meet me at the pre-determined location, no problem. I will meet her there. Normally, in this second scenario, I always end driving they home.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Where do you live? If you don’t live in a city where having a car is more so a liability than beneficial then you need to rethink your priorities. At age 35 without a car is seen as pretty pathetic and will limit you to the lowest tier of women.

There are alot of big cities where people make 100k+ but dont own a car because its easier to just get around with public transportation/uber/lyft.. It's pretty damn common in big metropolitan areas for some people to not have a car. I mean some highrises don't even have enough parking spots to reserve for a car.

I mean everyone ubers/lyfts these days anyways.. and unless you're going to prom, most dates you meet the person at a location rather than pick them up lol

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Without a car, what are 1st dates like? Where you and girl agree for a pre-determined location?

Thing is for men with cars that pick up girls for a date, that somewhat requires you to know her address, and a lotta girls are not gonna give that out, so that means = they're willing to meet you at the pre-determined location?

2ndly, how many dates do you go with a girl before she's willing to drive you places?

First off, pay no mind to what most these blokes are saying.

They don't know wtf they are talking about.

As far as your question goes...I will quote the great Charles Barkley..

"I don't have a college degree, but a lot of the people I have working for me do".

Your mentality should be: "I don't have a car, but a lot of the brawds that I deal with do".

My mentality is: "I don't have a car, but guess what, my wife do." (real talk)

Either way, same sh!t.

That being said, as I have said (and will continue to say); if a woman is feeling you, then you do not need a car.

A woman that is feeling you will come to your mother's house (if you live with your mother) and PICK YOU UP.

My ex girlfriend had a car. I didn't.

But guess what; every weekend she was parked outside the barracks, waiting for me to get off so she could scoop me up and we could head to my apartment off post.

That is just a small fraction of what a woman will do for you if she is feeling you.
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Second, do you know how many cold approach opportunities are out there when you use public transit?

Too damn many.

Before I got my motorcycle in 2019 (it got stolen in 2020), I had to take 2 buses and the light rail to work...and all of the eye candy I saw, and women I encountered from them days....it was just a joy to go to work every day.
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Third, I am not saying don't get a vehicle.

What I am saying is, be confident in who you are and if you are that dude, women will pick you up from wherever in order to spend time with you.

Car or no car.

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Fourth, the date can be wherever she will meet you at...or wherever you two are headed after she scoops you up.

 

[NealIRC]

Sounds like the moral of the story is.

Or the consensus is...

You need a car to date Republican girls.

And not all girls are Republican girls.

Second, do you know how many cold approach opportunities are out there when you use public transit?

Too damn many.

Before I got my motorcycle in 2019 (it got stolen in 2020), I had to take 2 buses and the light rail to work...and all of the eye candy I saw, and women I encountered from them days....it was just a joy to go to work every day.

In theory yes. But most girls on trains/buses are occupied on their phones. It's the train stations and bus stops where you can sometimes do PUA.

Sometimes if a girl notices you, from riding the same bus every day, she may try to sit where you normally sat (if she gets on before you).

 

[CornbreadFed]

There are alot of big cities where people make 100k+ but dont own a car because its easier to just get around with public transportation/uber/lyft.. It's pretty damn common in big metropolitan areas for some people to not have a car. I mean some highrises don't even have enough parking spots to reserve for a car.

I mean everyone ubers/lyfts these days anyways.. and unless you're going to prom, most dates you meet the person at a location rather than pick them up lol

That’s why I asked him what city and why he doesn’t have a car. if he’s too poor to afford a car, I would advise him to work on that before he considers dating.

 

[holidayad_]

Yes. Normally, I offer her a ride. If she accepts it, I ask for the location. If she tells me she will meet me at the pre-determined location, no problem. I will meet her there. Normally, in this second scenario, I always end driving they home.

Also, if you want to impress a girl and you don't have a car you can rent one at least for one night. Gene Simmons wrote that in his book and I think this is a good option.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Also, if you want to impress a girl and you don't have a car you can rent one at least for one night. Gene Simmons wrote that in his book and I think this is a good option.

This is over level 9000 simping