Question for guys over 30 how young do you prefer your girls:)

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I wouldnt dare to even look at a girl younger that 21 nowadays.Whats the youngest you would go or have gone?
 

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I guess it would have to depend. Wouldn't go too young though. A 19 year old tried to hook up or maybe start a relationship (who really knows what their agenda is anymore, from one person to the next) a couple years ago and that wasn't going to happen. That was during a vulnerable time when I had an injury and had to be seen by people for it, of which she worked at the same place but outside of that field. Just told her I wouldn't have time with education and work, and was healed a little after and didn't have to go back. lol. *I don't think she knew how old I was, but who knows what they dig up. To be fair I did flirt because I was totally out and probably lonely at the time.

Was always told I look younger and attracted them younger too. When I was 36 I got involved with a 25 year old, and my God, she was even more insane and immature than the younger girls from back in the day! Total mental trainwreck. Really puts you off after a while. For casual and hooking up I guess it would be fine, they are usually fun, energetic, and insane. If I was going to get serious (really not in that mode at all) probably wouldn't go under 30. I can't keep up with younger people anymore.

(I'm actually 40 but it wouldn't let me change it in the options.)
 
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Age doesn’t matter to me. As long as she’s legal, it’s all about the energy/chemistry
 

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I agree with the idea that you shuldn't pay total attention to the age if you feel fine with her. Obviously, keep it legal, please.
 

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ideally 18. But my odds with girls that young are of course very low (most young girls want guys around their own age - not to mention young girls are VERY visual and their physical standards they want from a guy can be very high)
If I was content with girls my own age I could get laid a hell of a lot more lol.
I still go for the young ones though. They are just a LOT prettier to me in general (also I prefer their energy in general)
I even banged a 17 year old fairly recently (before you report me to the Feds, 16 is actually legal here with no age gap rules)
 

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I typically go for around 30 but will sleep with a girl of any legal age that I consider attractive. Usually girls under about 26 are too boring/annoying to date so I will just sleep with them, but there are exceptions. I did date a 24yo for 18 months because she was wise beyond her years - an old soul - more mature than many 30+yo women I have dated. The girl I'm seeing now is 35 which is on the top end for me, but she is a model, has taken GREAT care of herself and weighs 105 lbs. I'd date a 45yo if she looked great - it's just that most of them give up on keeping themselves up. But if you go to a gym or yoga studio, you will see women can look great through their 50's so long as they take care of themselves. It IS possible. But even so, sure, they aren't going to look 23.
 

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For sex? Any age over 18. To actually have to hang out with and perhaps have a relationship? Probably late 20's. However you've got to remember that I'm in my late 40's so those college age girls seem pretty immature to me. If I was ten years younger maybe that wouldn't be the case.
 

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18-29 and I’m knocking on 40. I’m done with old women.
 

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women over 26-27 are corrupted. from social media, feminism and all their short term relationships.

Being a single dad, I used to think I had hit the jackpot if a woman was childless and over 28. However these were the biggest gaslighting lunatics i'd ever met.
 

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Although my bio says that I'm 60, I'm actually 57.
Earlier this year, I french kissed a girl that was fresh out of college (somewhere between 22-24, I can't recall her exact age now). There were also two other separate incidences with two other younger women that looked probable.
Although this might sound like I'm bragging, I felt like a creepy old man.

For bedtime activity, I suppose that age 40 and up is fine (that's 17 years younger than my age). For dating, I typically choose women around my age or older.
 

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For strictly a fun fvck buddy or friends with benefits, I'd go as young as 19 to 25. For actually dating and forming an LTR..... I'd go from 25 to 28.
 

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16 years old is the legal age in Ontario, you can go younger than that if its dating without sex. Then there are social taboos and compatibility issues of course which usually factor more than the letter of the law.
 

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I’m 37, I prefer dating women in their 30’s but will absolutely take a 20-something home if she fell into my lap. I otherwise have little interest in pursuing women nearly a decade younger than me.
 

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women over 26-27 are corrupted. from social media, feminism and all their short term relationships.

Being a single dad, I used to think I had hit the jackpot if a woman was childless and over 28. However these were the biggest gaslighting lunatics i'd ever met.
Oh God I have yet to meet a woman over 30 that didn’t have a string of short relationships (1-2 months). With or without kids it’s the same story, some have been engaged, some have been married once, but they’re ALL the same. They come on strong and lose interest just as fast. I used to think it was just bad luck on my part but it’s not, I’ve been around too many of them and seen too many similarities. I’ll stick with the 20’s women, they know what they want and are more mature than the women in their 30’s
 

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I wouldnt dare to even look at a girl younger that 21 nowadays.Whats the youngest you would go or have gone?

Hooking up: early 20s to late 30s.

Dating: mid 20s to low 30s only if partner count is very low....3 tops.

Most 20 year olds now a days are pretty retarded acting and tend to act more retarded the more they sleep around.

30 year olds are def entering crazy bitter, jades cat lady territory though so it is definitely a measure of pros and cons and dependent upon their partner counts and mindsets/beliefs.

For example, i can't date a liberal no matter what. They are just too much to handle in my experience with their silly "woke" progressive thinking.
 

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She has to align with where YOU are in YOUR journey through life.....That is all



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I don't really care about age. I seem to get along well with mid-late 20's, so maybe that's my sweet spot.
 

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