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Originally posted by gixxer
I'd say that 99% of women are using, lying, greedy, lazy pieces of $hit who want nothing but to sit around and relax on a beach all day, go out and dine and party at night and go on exotic vacations at some dumba$$ guy's expense.
I bet this is the image you have always held in your mind as what hot babes do, and therefor these are the girls you are interested in.

Originally posted by gixxer
Now I'm the guy that doesn't spend $0.01 on a girl and gets all the sex he wants while some poor sap is out wining and dining her and "impressing" her with flowers and jewelry and getting nothing for it. Now I'M the guy that women blow off Mr Nice Guy for and can't get enough of.
Sounds like the ideal you have always thought of as a man's man. the kind of man you want to be, but me thinks you're not there. and then ya says!...

Originally posted by gixxer
To answer your question in more of an intellectual way, I'll say that yes, my heart is completely sealed off and closed but I do hold some tiny bit of hope that one day I'll meet that one in a million woman that I can trust and finally open up to. I have faith that this WILL happen one day, but I also know what a long shot it is.
seeming confused to me. so you go on to say, horror of all horrors...

Originally posted by gixxer
To illustrate, the one woman I had feelings for and opened up to IN 3 YEARS went right to abusing, psycho b!tch AFTER I started opening up... the dynamic INSTANTLY changed and she started being abusive and treating me like she held all the power.
power power power. she wants power, she is a pyscho b!tch, she is abusive, BUT THEN YOU SAY OF YOUR OWN GOALS....

Originally posted by gixxer
Some of my bitterness also comes from not having complete mastery of women to the point that I can handle them perfectly and take things in the direction I want 100% of the time.
sounds like you are the power obsessed pyscho b!tch, to me!
it gets scarier....

Originally posted by gixxer
David D calls where I am now the conscious incompetent stage in his mastery series. I'm actually between conscious incompetent and conscious competent right now but I have a long way to go for mastery. I assume that as I approach mastery my feelings will change as I have more control over my dealings with women. Sort of how David D has changed from his very early work (DYD ebook) to his mastery series and become more mellow and "loving" I think it's a path for most of us and true mastery means eventually becoming benevolent and accepting.

you remind me of Drama from Entourage.:crackup:
 

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Originally posted by Tazman
For the guys who get laid often by different women, are you really satisfied with that? Keeping your emotions in check (or supressed) and going out scoring women with an almost cold calculation, do you really enjoy the end result? Do you not enjoy risk, or am I wrong about my perception of you?

There are times when I just want to fvck the **** out of a woman, purely a physical desire to just get it out of my system (not rape or anything), and if I knew I had the "skills" to make it happen, I don't think it would give me the same thrill when it actually happens. Do you guys ever experience this? That it becomes easy to the point where it's more of a routine way to masturbate with another person? Is that what being a "monster" will lead to?

The desire to have sex is as natural as the desire to eat, sleep and shiit. What has happened to soceity is that sex has become a tool to exploit others for selfish gain. Having lots of sex will not lead to becoming a monster...

Personally, I think what leads to a monster is not caring about others people's feelings. Having the ability to get laid and being a good person are two different things, and neither is mutally exclusive although it can certainly seem that way at times.

There are plenty of people who screw around for years and then settle down one day, some never settle down, and that's okay if its a conscious decision. What I am vehemently opposed to is doing things off rote/verbatim without understanding the underlying reasons for why things are the way they are.

For a man I think its important to learn how to seduce a women, how to get your own needs met and how to take care of oneself physically as well as mentally.

Since we live in a cold capitalistic world where people are only interested in only themselves or money everyone has to do some soul searching and find out whats important to them.

But you are asking good questions!


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Originally posted by drZaius09
I don't understand where all this is even coming from. Why are we even fielding these types of questions? Isn't this why we come to this forum to begin with? What am I missing here?

I feel like I'm on NFL.com being asked to explain why I'm a football fan...
What you guys don't see is that John D (The thread starter) is probably a woman.
 

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Some of you so-called "men" have really fallen for the war of the sexes B.S. ; a war deliberately started for political/economic purposes. Nations are based on strong family units, feminism is just one tool used to dissolve a Nation's family bonds. The goal of feminism is to create a mass of atomic individualist consumer weaklings. Do you think it's a coincidence that our masters are now pushing "feminism" onto the hapless Iraqi people?

Everything that has happened to our Women is the fault of our Men, for not being intelligent or strong enough to stand against it. Our Women are merely victims of cheap propaganda.

The "monster" is the man who is suckered into fighting a contrived war which he can only lose, instead of fighting those who agitate for that war. The "monster" is fooled into hating his Women, which is exactly what our rulers desire.

There always has been and there always will be a few sick women who hate men because they are ugly, fat, diseased, and so on. But without outside interference from subversives, the number is rather small and as a whole they are anemic.

In a healthy society uncontaminated by feminist poison, Women are kind and nurturing - they love their Men. They cook, clean, comfort him after a hard day at work, and so on. In a healthy society Men will reciprocate by giving them special protection, security, love, and chivalrous treatment. Untainted Women are the most beautiful creatures on the planet, and one of the few things worth fighting for.

Despite the sickness that has been foisted upon our Women, they are no different genetically than the normal healthy Women of the past. Only a weak fool would allow himself to view them as "worthless". There are *still* plenty of good Women out there, who know, even if only instinctively, that "feminism" is unhealthy. They will still respond in their natural, feminine way to strength AND gentlemanly behaviour.
 

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Originally posted by SoCalMike
Everything that has happened to our Women is the fault of our Men
Totally agree.
Originally posted by SoCalMike
In a healthy society uncontaminated by feminist poison, Women are kind and nurturing - they love their Men. They cook, clean, comfort him after a hard day at work, and so on. In a healthy society Men will reciprocate by giving them special protection, security, love, and chivalrous treatment.
Obviously we are no longer in a healthy society.
Originally posted by SoCalMike
Only a weak fool would allow himself to view them as "worthless".
Are you serious? I think somewhere in your post you even admit we are no longer in this "healthy society". So Sherlock if the majority our women no longer are "healthy" and benefit men the way you described they can then besides having a cvnt they ARE WORTHLESS to the average man. And like I touched on before I even believe deep down clued in chicks who are honest with themselves believe they are pretty much worthless to men aswell. Btw Western men are a joke aswell.
Originally posted by SoCalMike
There are *still* plenty of good Women out there, who know, even if only instinctively, that "feminism" is unhealthy. They will still respond in their natural, feminine way to strength AND gentlemanly behaviour.
Your deluded, do you honestly believe women can just automatically switch off a lifetime of ingrained Western attitudes of self importance and views when Romeo shows up? Give me a fvckin break.

Anyway why are you even still entertaining this rubbish thread? It was already established the original poster was a woman, and I very much doubt any man here "hates" women, Ive yet to see a post here where I truthfully think "wow this guy really hates chicks" So you pretty much wasted your time even posting.
 

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Got Dam Man You ****ed up

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Totally agree.

Obviously we are no longer in a healthy society.

Are you serious? I think somewhere in your post you even admit we are no longer in this "healthy society". So Sherlock if the majority our women no longer are "healthy" and benefit men the way you described they can then besides having a cvnt they ARE WORTHLESS to the average man. And like I touched on before I even believe deep down clued in chicks who are honest with themselves believe they are pretty much worthless to men aswell. Btw Western men are a joke aswell.

Your deluded, do you honestly believe women can just automatically switch off a lifetime of ingrained Western attitudes of self importance and views when Romeo shows up? Give me a fvckin break.

Anyway why are you even still entertaining this rubbish thread? It was already established the original poster was a woman, and I very much doubt any man here "hates" women, Ive yet to see a post here where I truthfully think "wow this guy really hates chicks" So you pretty much wasted your time even posting.
Ecellent post (.)(.). I loved every word of it. You sound like a true DJ.



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This is quite an interesting thread.

I don't know what all the answers are but in the last 4 months after a rough breakup, I've learned alot.

I did kind of have the woman hating thoughts and still do to an extent, but then the concept that neediness as a pervasive weed in my life came about.

I have always been surrounded by a supportive family and friends in life. I have been given so many great things and am grateful for them.

But this may have translated to an expectation out of women that they simply can't provide.

You see, I know now that a woman can never be a true source of happiness for me. Why put that type of responsibility on her, she can't live up to my friends and family.

I must be happy in my own mind. Noone controls my happiness but me.

I have lost that neediness that is more pervasive and sinister than I thought. I always thought I was pretty damn independent and not needy. But in a relationship sometimes it came out.

I felt that a woman was the final piece in a successful life. I have done well in my career (while I have changed careers a few times, it has always been for the better).

I know that final piece is within me. I don't need a woman. When I next find one that complements me well I will not push her away, but i wont try to trap her either.
 

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Originally posted by Ricky
...I must be happy in my own mind. Noone controls my happiness but me....
A very powerful concept to understand. :up:
 

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Originally posted by ( . )( . )

Are you serious? I think somewhere in your post you even admit we are no longer in this "healthy society". So Sherlock if the majority our women no longer are "healthy" and benefit men the way you described they can then besides having a cvnt they ARE WORTHLESS to the average man. And like I touched on before I even believe deep down clued in chicks who are honest with themselves believe they are pretty much worthless to men aswell. Btw Western men are a joke aswell.

Your deluded, do you honestly believe women can just automatically switch off a lifetime of ingrained Western attitudes of self importance and views when Romeo shows up? Give me a fvckin break.

I think you misinterpreted bro…all I’m saying is do not become the male equivalent of the feminist man-hater, that will only make the situation worse.

Despite the brain contamination of many, I don't view ALL Western women as "worthless". What happens if you run across one who isn’t worthless, do you think you’re going to attract her with that sh*tty attitude?

I have two very close friends who have both have good looking wives who cook for them, do laundry, and take care of the children. On top of this one of them has a college degree and both have decent jobs. I myself dated a very cute girl who was an Electrical Engineer, sweet, and family oriented. But at the time I was only 24 and not ready to settle down.

I admit there are definitely a lot of Western gals who *are* hopeless cases though! If you want to view them as nothing but walking cvm dumpsters I don’t blame you! That’s what I do. LOL For the past six years I've been humping and dumping the "I don't cook, clean, work, or want kids" types, waiting for a quality one to come my way again. :)
 

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Wow, you're lucky. I keep meeting the "I don't cook, clean or work and I DO want kids" types :(

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Originally posted by gixxer
Wow, you're lucky. I keep meeting the "I don't cook, clean or work and I DO want kids" types :(

gixx
Oooooh man, don't EVER fall for the "I want to feel you just once" or "don't worry I'm on birth control" BS, it's a trap!! I did and knocked a girl up! The girl wanted a walking cash machine for the next 18+ years and it was gonna be me. Thank the good lord she had a miscarriage I almost ruined my life! **smacks self**
 
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