Today marks my first achievement after breaking up with my gf of 1 year. Today it has been exactly one week with no contact at all.
For those who haven't read my other thread, we got in a fight and she said she needed space. I got clingy and tried to make her change her mind and that dug my hole deeper and pushed her away.
She called me on saturday and I am proud to say I didn't pick up even though I was wallowing in my pity party thinking about her because I knew she wasn't calling to rekindle our relationship.
My question is should I just ignore every call or is there anyway to use her calling me to my advantage. Is there any way to use the fact that she still calls every once in awhile to build attraction. I read joekerrs thread on breaks and the no contact thread already, but I was just wondering is talking to someone who claimed they "loved you more than anything else" after they wanted a break strictly a losing situation for me or can it ever be used to your advantage?
For those who haven't read my other thread, we got in a fight and she said she needed space. I got clingy and tried to make her change her mind and that dug my hole deeper and pushed her away.
She called me on saturday and I am proud to say I didn't pick up even though I was wallowing in my pity party thinking about her because I knew she wasn't calling to rekindle our relationship.
My question is should I just ignore every call or is there anyway to use her calling me to my advantage. Is there any way to use the fact that she still calls every once in awhile to build attraction. I read joekerrs thread on breaks and the no contact thread already, but I was just wondering is talking to someone who claimed they "loved you more than anything else" after they wanted a break strictly a losing situation for me or can it ever be used to your advantage?