Question about "Hired guns," how can you tell if they are being truly friendly?

[Poonani Maker]

Today, I encountered the most precious doctor's assistant. She had to stick those wires on my body for tests, and I felt a sexual overtone to her touching me, stuff like, "oh, that didn't read right, I'll have to re-adjust that one" while she's touching my chest and arm and leg again. She was constantly trying to make conversation. She was the type that usually are attracted to me from past experience, her voice, her face, her highly feminine ways. She was just gorgeous in thin body, long arms, long fingers (no rings), as well as face, like a model. She Had to have been 10 years younger than me. It really was like love at first sight.

My question is, could it have been an instant connection (love at first sight) on her part as well??

She reminds me of my uncle's 2nd wife (much older in her 50s), same sweet voice, same height.

Do you think that she was being overly friendly to me because that might make me compliment her to her boss - my doctor??

I sensed that she could or has given massages before, by the way she touched me.

I bit my lip on asking her about her life, because in my mind, I had hangups about whether her friendliness was just because that's her job, to be hospitable.

I will see her again in 4 months. Should I walk back in to the doctor's office and slip a note to her with my number?? Tomorrow? saying I forgot something? or should I wait till June? to make a move.

I'm sorta kicking myself for not being nicer to her. I just resisted her in a sense, because I thought it was just "her job." I'm an emotional guy, and she is an emotional girl, I could tell, just youthful through and through.

I've been resisting women all day today, I don't know what was into them, at the scuba shop, the dentist, the cafe (with a 2 for 1 coupon). They were all INto me, I don't know why.

But this doctor's assistant is one I could see myself loving for a long long time. I just felt compelled to reach under her outfit and rub her puss while kissing her on the table. She had such a perfect body to ME.

I kept having thoughts too about THIS one, that she could probably choose any man, why would she want me?? This blocked me from asking about her questions. I haven't been up-close to that kind of Match-for-me in a while. Many girls do not match me and I realize that. She did. But I was too chickensh!t to doooo anything about it. Indecision costs us guys. You start thinking, "Even if we do click, this one will never last in the long run, she's too desirable (at least in MY view, she's what I want, a sweet uncorrupted EDUCATED girl)."

 

[Kailex]

Holy crap.
All of this from just one doctor's appointment?

You already seem to have a oneitis without even asking her out.

You're not into other women because you have this assistant on the most holy of pedestals. And please, don't go back and give her your number. At least man up and get hers.

I don't know what else to say that wouldn't launch you immediately into disaster. I would quote piece by piece, but the whole thing seems like the biggest AFC thing I've read in a while... which is surprising given that you have been a member here for almost 3 years.

What would you say to me if I had just taken all of that and reposted that under my name?

 

[Iceberg]

Oh, she reminds you of your uncles 2nd wife? Well, then you should DEFINITELY slip her a note with your number on it. I'm sure she'll call you. This is love at first sight, bro. And love like that is rare and beautiful....





...freak

 

[boomerick]

I think you have found your soulmate......all the signs are there.....she is without a doubt way onto you..........WTF???.....YGTBFSM!!!!!.....get back on your little computer and re-read pook or antidump or the whole bible.....right now!!!!!...... you seem to be epic fail man

 

[nismo-4]

Bro, stop catching feeling and just make a damn move! That mindset of you're in love at first sight is the development of a oneitis. Spin more plates. You're gonna try to make a move on her in 4 months and get your feelings hurt cuz she's gonna think you're not interested in her.

Case closed.

 

[iliketennis]

you should have rubbed her like you were talking about. make another appointment and go for it when she's massaging the electric nodes onto you

 

[Poonani Maker]

Thanks guys. I Really have a Feeling for this one, once I entered the 1st room to the left. She and I were just standing there looking at each other, as if both of us were already completely nude. It was another Adam and Eve moment, except I was the only one who had to get undressed.

I wish the next appointment were sooner. She may just be a short-term medical student assistant. Won't be there again till the beginning of June, BUT she will have to run another test then. I wonder if she overheard the secretary discuss my co-pay which was nothing, and thought, "Wow, he has great insurance!" She was just a little too intimate with me almost to the point of crying, like she was down and out about something. Maybe she didn't like being alone or her career was low-paying idk, but I picked up on a feeling, and felt like she wanted me to KNOW her feeling, but as a provider/patient relationship she couldn't just come right out and express anything.

Could have just been my imagination, but she knew I had a feeling for her. I'm good at that. Don't even have to Say anything. My body language tells what I'm thinking about her, if she's a woman I know I'm drawn to. A LOT of women don't bring out that compelling loving feeling in me. It's far and few between, like a kindred spirit kind of feeling, and women feel it too.

I think that it kind of scares some of them too, but the doctors, the nurses, the women in medical professions tend to not be as scared of too much of anything because of all the gore they've witness and experimented on in med school. Plus, at least Full time nurses etc., see people with a lot of pain who might curse and threaten them, so they're kind of immune to fear.

 

[R19]

Ha, ha - is this for real or are you fvcking with us?

 

[starplayer]

Oh please, obvious troll.

Either his account's been hacked or he's completely lost the plot :crazy:

 

[Accension]

Poonani Maker, just look at all their retarded replies in this thread.
They've just sucked up all the theory,yet, don't know shi> about its application in the real world.

I last experienced the same feeling when I got a jaw X-ray.
Only, I acted on it and dated a radiologist for a little over a year.

Can't believe the replies in this thread..
It's like they use theory as a shield to protect their delicate, AFC hearts.

These people were shi> with women, read a ton, and are still shi> with women -- only now, they're better at recognising it in others and ignoring it in themselves.

 

[Isko]

I think you should definitely act on it. It sucks going through life avoiding the things you think will feel good, and instead following some advice you read off the Internet.

No matter what happens, you'll have gained life experience, and you'll have followed your emotions. GOOD THINGS! You've been on this site a long time. This is one of those situations where, after you know the rules, you can break them.

 

[R19]

Poonani Maker, just look at all their retarded replies in this thread.
They've just sucked up all the theory,yet, don't know shi> about its application in the real world.
...

Can't believe the replies in this thread..
It's like they use theory as a shield to protect their delicate, AFC hearts.

These people were shi> with women, read a ton, and are still shi> with women -- only now, they're better at recognising it in others and ignoring it in themselves.

I really don't think that you read his posts or you seem to be eating up all of the outrageous statments. I find it interesting that you can go anywhere for servicing and make some of those comments.

There is a South Park episode called 'Raisins' that you should both watch. Doctors staff is not oblivious to the things that waitresses, dancers, bartenders, etc. do to be more successful in their job.

Like a couple of the hottest girls at my gym work the front desk... 'the way she took my ID card from me and mentioned my name and then told me to have a great workout with such a beautiful smile - it was incredible!!!!'

Sure she may be very attractive and attracted to you, but all this 'the one' stuff, Accension you must be joking too.

We all meet a good number of attractive women through the course of errands, etc. The way to know whether a 'Hired Gun' has interest is to make a move. You could always come back out of appointment, but at a doctor's office that is going to look way worse than spontaneous action the first time around.

 

[Accension]

I really don't think that you read his posts or you seem to be eating up all of the outrageous statments. I find it interesting that you can go anywhere for servicing and make some of those comments.

There is a South Park episode called 'Raisins' that you should both watch. Doctors staff is not oblivious to the things that waitresses, dancers, bartenders, etc. do to be more successful in their job.

Like a couple of the hottest girls at my gym work the front desk... 'the way she took my ID card from me and mentioned my name and then told me to have a great workout with such a beautiful smile - it was incredible!!!!'

Sure she may be very attractive and attracted to you, but all this 'the one' stuff, Accension you must be joking too.

We all meet a good number of attractive women through the course of errands, etc. The way to know whether a 'Hired Gun' has interest is to make a move. You could always come back out of appointment, but at a doctor's office that is going to look way worse than spontaneous action the first time around.

I know exactly what you're saying.
I'm more refering to when attraction on both parties is completely obvious, but yeah, on review of his posts, he's acting rather out of character!

 

[Schwank]

The OP just shows that one can't take too much stock into what advice is given on this board; that is, this guy was and still is writing lengthy replies espousing "alpha-male" hogwash to many people's problem, yet he goes into a doctor's surgery and falls head-over-heels with a chick who was merely performing her duties. This shows that he's not getting pvssy. If he (or anyone else) were getting pvssy he wouldn't be hung-up on some chick he DOES NOT EVEN KNOW, writing **** like "love at first site".

There are way too many "armchair DJs" who simply regurgitate advice without any conviction in it's application, as the OP has shown. (By no means am I saying I'm a certified "lady killer", but at least when I post advice I actually apply and believe in what I'm writing.)

 

[boomerick]

.....and the clouds parted.........and the light of truth shown through brightly.......Schwank gets it!