Question about F*ck Buddies

[Don Ronny]

Lets say you just screwed some HB and you want to make her a Bang Buddy. How long do you wait to call her after the first bang? How often should you spend time with her? I like this girl but I dont want her to get the feeling we are serious.

I am just curious. Those of you who have this arrangement, how often do you see these girls?

 

[NewMan]

opion....

Here's my experience on this topic.

It's very difficult to maintain a F'buddy over a long period of time. This is due to the fact that the woman is going to get attached to you (or in some cases you to the woman) - so in the end one of you must break it off.

The best approach is to tell her up front what you want. She may agree or disagree and not want it - but if she agrees your going to have some no hassle fun for a little while.

An fbuddy by definition is just that - you Fvck nothing else. Perhaps to get a few drinks first but it's low maintenance. You total phone conversation should be:

You: "Hey what are you doing?"
Her: "Nothing - just hanging here"
You: "I'm comming over OK!"
Her: "Yeah sure - see you in 5 minutes"


Thats about it.

You can stay the night if you want - it
s better if you don't and she's cool with that.

There's no rule on when how often you see each other - but I recomend no more than 1 per week - idealy less.

 

[ShortyBrown]

I agree with the above, but I just wanted to add a few more points:

-Do not open up about personal aspects of your life, eg your family are s-hitting you off. You do this and you are no longer phuck buddies. You are casually dating. Open up emotionally and you will bond.You have been warned. All you need to know is that she is good in the sack, and vice versa.
-Being a phuck buddy does not give you license to stop being a gentleman. If she stays the night with you, do not ask if she wants a lift home in the morning.That is a given. Unless she says otherwise. Common Courtesy.
-Make it clear about where you stand. Do not cross boundaries.
-Do not be an egotistical t-wat.

There's no rule on when how often you see each other - but I recomend no more than 1 per week - idealy less.

Thankyou!!!!
If you want to get her in the sack-don't worry too much about the timeframe-if the chemistry was there, then go for it.

 

[Don Ronny]

Wow, this is some awesome advice guys! Thank you!!

Shorty you sound like you'd make a great FB.



It's all good, today she told me she just got out of a long relationship and "just wants to have fun"

Of course I take anything a woman says with a grain of salt, but this is a good sign, no?

 

[dionysius_d]

fvck buddies don't exist except in the movies..

its called an "open relationship" in real.

 

[Matt ala Casanova]

Originally posted by dionysius_d
fvck buddies don't exist except in the movies..

its called an "open relationship" in real.

Funny....I have 4 and I am one casting call from a Project Greenlight movie.

M.A.C.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by dionysius_d
fvck buddies don't exist except in the movies..

its called an "open relationship" in real.

Oh sh1t, he used the "R" word!!!

 

[ShortyBrown]

Originally posted by Don Ronny
Wow, this is some awesome advice guys! Thank you!!

Shorty you sound like you'd make a great FB.



It's all good, today she told me she just got out of a long relationship and "just wants to have fun"

Of course I take anything a woman says with a grain of salt, but this is a good sign, no?

Thankyou baby. *hugz*

You're lucky (about her situation) But again, set boundaries. Very Important.

 

[Oxide]

nice input guys, id like your input on this :

Hot babe (and she knows it). I meet her in a club, dance with her, have a little convo. get the digits.

Call her up, drive over and hang out with her and her friend. me and her friend (a guy) get along great, so she exclaims "Hey, he is my friend, what are u doing?!"

I call her up later again, she comes over to my appartment. I meet her and go for the hug, but she turns away. i acknowledge this. We come to my place, have a talk on the couch. at first she is nervous but then im making her tell me about her dreams and things she enjoys, she lightens up and her IL goes up when she finds out im foreign. I feel like talking isnt gonna get me in her pants, so i decide to mix a little ******* mix in there.

i start with "When u go to clubs, do u usually get a lot of drinks?"
"Yeah, i dont ask for them, i get offered"
so i hit her with "yeah, there are a lot of desperate guys out there"
so she starts asking me why i am dissing her and sits there trying to make me talk. I stand up get a drink and ask her if she wants one . She replys with "are u desperate since u are offering the drink, and i reply "no , im a gentelman"

I tell her to stop being a little girl, and she gets even more excited. she grabs her purse and i say "there is the door" .

TOnite i call her up and say "are u done being offended?" and she replys " well if u are done being rude" . i say "if u act good ill be good". and she giggles. I tell her that i will call her later this week, and she says "alright cool".


How do i follow with this girl? next time i invite her, should i just tell her that i want to fvck her and nothing else? i dont want a relationship, i want to fvck her and nothing else.

 

[Don Ronny]

Hmmm Id say dont talk about it till after the deed is done. Might be a dealbreaker if you tell her you only want to use her for a cüm rag!

Is this going to be your first, Ox?
Or did you already bust your cherry?

 

[Oxide]

its going to be my first, i would like to have it with a girl i like much more, but if that doesnt work out i will keep this one as a back up.

so talk to her, being a great guy (not involve any sexual stuff?) for now? i could come off as a guy who doesnt go for it in her eyes. not like that really bothers me.

 

[Don Ronny]

I say keep teasing her. Tell her she is probably a lousy kisser then have her prove you wrong!

 

[drixsa]

ox

dont tell her u wanna fvck show her!

actions speak louder than words my friend

 

[Oxide]

LMAO.

she pulls up in her car. i unzip my pants and go "alright, you know what to do". I think this girl is a bit scared, i need to warm her up first. she didnt even want to go to the bedroom last time she was over.

But if i set everything : music, candles, im not gonna sit there and chat. Im going pulling out my sex dice!

 

[NewMan]

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Oxide...

My recomendation...

Do something low key...

Scope out a cool bar with a pool table - preference is some hole in the wall - cheap drinks, good music.

Ask her out to play pool - in my experience pool is a great way to tease a chick. Also lots of chances to use Kino - touch and feel.

Get some drinks into her - but don't come on TO strong. concentrate on having FUN.

Make her comfortable.

Remember - patience. You'll know if she interested.

you've hung out a couple times, so don't spend to much more time on this chick.