can someone please clarify something for me. i keep reading on here about how guys dont get the girl, alot of times people say its because they didnt get aggressive enough, or "make their move" etc. but on the other hand i always see people write "let her initiate the relationship talk" etc. these seem to somewhat contradict each other. opinions?
question about being aggressive...
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jakeyboy
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being aggressive for me is when the time is right, i take the girl into my arms and kiss her..i just do it, i don't sit around waiting to be kissed by her.
then you can decide if you want her or not.
that's my personal two cents. hope it has helped you though things may be very different for each individual.
all the best
relationship talk... personally for me, i don't wait till i'm officially "in a relationship" with the girl before i make any move on her, its basic, i can kiss her/have sex with her without being in a relationship with her. afiter this point though, i don't say anything about being with her long term, even after we've had sex a few times. i wait for her to bring it up. this shows me that she's serious about it... if you have read one of pook's AD posts, he says something about this as the girl "proposing to you when she brings this up" when she does, you know she's for real and wants to be with you.Originally posted by cmr662
but on the other hand i always see people write "let her initiate the relationship talk" etc. these seem to somewhat contradict each other. opinions?
then you can decide if you want her or not.
that's my personal two cents. hope it has helped you though things may be very different for each individual.
all the best
Fenderules
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yeah that seems right
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believe it or not, being in a relationship is a passive stance. dating/asking for dates is aggressive. that is why girls are supposed to be the ones to talk about "the relationship" while guys are supposed to be the ones "asking for a date."
on aggressive/passive. Sitting at home is passive. Going out is aggressive. Calling the cops cause someone smaller/skinnier than you is banging on your door armed with only his fists is passive. Busting out the door and smashing the smaller's face with your fists is aggressive.
Girls = passive
Guys = aggressive
it's actually more complicated than that, but i won't get into it, just simplifying so you can get it.
DO YOU GET IT NOW?
on aggressive/passive. Sitting at home is passive. Going out is aggressive. Calling the cops cause someone smaller/skinnier than you is banging on your door armed with only his fists is passive. Busting out the door and smashing the smaller's face with your fists is aggressive.
Girls = passive
Guys = aggressive
it's actually more complicated than that, but i won't get into it, just simplifying so you can get it.
DO YOU GET IT NOW?