Putting women on an emotional roller coaster ride

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by jprjrjr
Absolutely true. This is the crux of why women shouldn't be allowed to post on this board.

If you can't deal with women on this forum, Sugarbritches, then you don't stand a snowball's chance in hell dealing with them in the real world.

"Never listen to what a woman says, watch what she does"

This can only be applied to women you actually know. Common sense should tell you that since you don't actually know any of the women posting on this forum in real life...that talking point is totally irrelevent.

Wyldfyre comes on here giving advice, but she's a woman.

Yes, I come here to give advice and yes, I'm a woman. You're a bloody genius, aren't you...

It's hilarious. She's trying to act like she's different from most women because she hangs out on a DJ board.

I'm not "acting"...I am different. I certainly don't attribute my being different to me posting here, though. I was who I am long before coming here. In fact, I was probably already quite unique back when you were still having your diapers changed.

You're no different wyldfyre, you give crap advice because you're a woman, and you don't know what you want. [/B]

Um...if I give "crap advice" then why do I have posts in the DJ Bible? You've been here all of what, 6 months? You're still whining over women posting here for crying out loud.

I "don't know what I want"? And how on earth would you know if I do or not? You don't know me. All you know is that I have tits and that it makes you uncomfortable around me because you're crying that I shouldn't be here.

Go back to the sandbox and play with your Tonka Trucks if you can't deal with women posting here...

 

[DreamyChick]

This post is highly amusing.

 

[manuva]

I second that DC.

Just to keep the ball rolling...



COOKING AND CLEANING IS WOMEN'S WORK!!

 

[Climax]

Originally posted by DreamyChick
This post is highly amusing.

*nod*




Laterz...

 

[Zhen]

heh

wyldfire and thrud are saying the same thing

except wyldfire chooses to see the things as man living his own life and not being clingy.

while thrud sees it as drama

 

[Wyldfire]

Re: heh

Originally posted by Zhen
wyldfire and thrud are saying the same thing

except wyldfire chooses to see the things as man living his own life and not being clingy.

while thrud sees it as drama

No...Thrud likes drama and chaos and works herself up over silly things and I don't. She's telling guys that they should encourage women to be drama queens and I'm saying it's stupid to do that because then you end up having to deal with needless fallout from it. But hey...if you guys want to create stuff to come here and biotch about later, all the more power to you. Personally, I can think of plenty of much more productive and enjoyable things to do with my time.

 

[DreamyChick]

Originally posted by manuva
I second that DC.

Just to keep the ball rolling...



COOKING AND CLEANING IS WOMEN'S WORK!!

I have to disagree with you there mr. manuva. I love to pamper a man, but shouldn't a man also pamper his woman? When you cook for me for a change it is such a turn on. Oh yeah baby.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by manuva
I second that DC.

Just to keep the ball rolling...



COOKING AND CLEANING IS WOMEN'S WORK!!

Get me a beer, biotch...

:crackup:

 

[nishbuk]

Re: Re: heh

Originally posted by Wyldfire
No...Thrud likes drama and chaos and works herself up over silly things and I don't. She's telling guys that they should encourage women to be drama queens and I'm saying it's stupid to do that because then you end up having to deal with needless fallout from it. But hey...if you guys want to create stuff to come here and biotch about later, all the more power to you. Personally, I can think of plenty of much more productive and enjoyable things to do with my time.

No, you're just arguing semantics. To guys, a girl getting worked up over a guy going out of town for a week or so, IS drama, because if a girl went away for a week, it wouldn't be as big a deal for the guy. Okay, so to you that's *not drama. Fine, that's how you view the word "drama". To me, that IS drama. It's just connotative meanings of words, and semantics that you are arguing over.

One of the most basic prinicples of all life is this:
You can't know the good without the bad.
You can't know the hot without the cold.
You can't know up without down.
You can't know soft until you know hard.
You can't be happy until you are able to feel sad.
You can't feel joy unless you feel pain.

And do you kno why this is? Because we live in a world of the relative. To give actions, events and things meaning, we need to compare them to some reference point.

More relevantly to this topic:
"You don't know what you've got until you miss it".

or

"If your relationship is rocky, then when it turns to good, it will be even better."

"How can you appreciate how good your relationship is if there are no small arguments, and there is no problem whatsoever?"
You can't. Because you've never felt the negative side of that in the relationship. This is why relationships with no argument seldom ever last. I just got out of one those, and I got dumped...why? Because through the first 3-4 months I had good game, and I suddenly dropped it. Didn't create an interest anymore. There was no "drama" (Be it excitement drama, negative drama, positive drama...)

First of all...missing someone on a business trip that you're dating is NOT "drama".

Again semantics. There's no point in arguing a dictionary definition. So to you it's *not* drama. okay fine. For me, that IS drama.
It's not a right or wrong thing. It's just that you view drama as one thing, and I view it as another. Noone is right or wrong here, were talking about the same thing.

 

[DreamyChick]

I have to say that is an excellent point. I am impressed.

 

[Wyldfire]

Re: Re: Re: heh

Originally posted by nishbuk
No, you're just arguing semantics. To guys, a girl getting worked up over a guy going out of town for a week or so, IS drama, because if a girl went away for a week, it wouldn't be as big a deal for the guy. Okay, so to you that's *not drama. Fine, that's how you views the word "drama". To me, that IS drama. It's just connotative meanings of words, and semantics that you are arguing over.

One of the most basic prinicples of all life is this:
You can't know the good without the bad.
You can't know the hot without the cold.
You can't know up without down.
You can't know soft until you know hard.
You can't be happy until you are able to feel sad.
You can't feel joy unless you feel pain.

And do you kno why this is? Because we live in a world of the relative. To give actions, events and things meaning, we need to compare them to some reference point.

More relevantly to this topic:
"You don't know what you've got until you miss it".

or

"If your relationship ship is *slightly* rocky, you'll be able to appreciate it MORE when it's going great."


Again semantics. There's no point in arguing a dictionary definition. So to you it's *not* drama. okay fine. For me, that IS drama. It's not a right or wrong thing. It's just that you view drama as one thing, and I view it as another.

You are entirely missing the whole point of this little debate. The author of this thread is asking for advice on how to put women on an "emotional rollercoaster". I am saying that men should NOT worry or think about trying to do that because if he's behaving like a MAN in the first place any woman that has that need for "drama" (or whatever you choose to call it) will just naturally react emotionally to get her "fix". Women who don't like being all worked up like that WON'T react that way. Basically I'm trying to explain that MEN don't need to worry or think about this...it is wasted effort and time. All they have to do is BE A MAN.

Thrud is agreeing with those who think a guy is required to create drama (or whatever you want to call it). I am saying men do NOT have to and should NOT do this. It's not about semantics or terminology...it's about the whole concept of putting women on an "emotional rollercoaster".

 

[Brian20o2]

OK heres how to have "drama" or an "emotional rollercoaster" or w/e plain and simple.

1. Dont always do the expected (eg Be Unpredicteable)

2. Dont always be there, you have better things to do.

There you go hopefully now there wont be more catfighting on here

 

[Vince]

Originally posted by DJnoob
Can you guys think of examples

If you feel you need to do something like this or create excessive drama, then you are with the wrong woman.

 

[crowes22]

Re: Re: Re: Re: heh

Originally posted by Wyldfire
You are entirely missing the whole point of this little debate. The author of this thread is asking for advice on how to put women on an "emotional rollercoaster". I am saying that men should NOT worry or think about trying to do that because if he's behaving like a MAN in the first place any woman that has that need for "drama" (or whatever you choose to call it) will just naturally react emotionally to get her "fix". Women who don't like being all worked up like that WON'T react that way. Basically I'm trying to explain that MEN don't need to worry or think about this...it is wasted effort and time. All they have to do is BE A MAN.

Wyldfire is right. This she wrote above is plain as day, I'm surprised you guys disagree. I never try to create drama. I don't fvcking have time for that. I just do whatever it is I have to or plan to do.

She'll cook up the drama. Her reactions to your actions is the drama. The only way your'e going to take a woman on a emotional roller coaster, is if you've already connected w/ her on an emotional level. (ie: you already have her hooked). If you haven't connected w/ her emotionally, I don't care what you do, and how much you try to fvck w/ her head, it will have no effect. Except her thinking you are a nutcase maybe. She'll care less about what you are saying or doing.

Once you have her, why you would want to introduce drama, is beyond me. What a stupid thing to do. If you simply act like a man and not a wuss, your life will be much easier. Drama is woman's work, if it's to enter (hopefully it won't), let her cook it up. Deal with it however you like. If she is a drama queen, dump her.

 

[nishbuk]

You are entirely missing the whole point of this little debate. The author of this thread is asking for advice on how to put women on an "emotional rollercoaster". I am saying that men should NOT worry or think about trying to do that because if he's behaving like a MAN in the first place any woman that has that need for "drama" (or whatever you choose to call it) will just naturally react emotionally to get her "fix". Women who don't like being all worked up like that WON'T react that way. Basically I'm trying to explain that MEN don't need to worry or think about this...it is wasted effort and time. All they have to do is BE A MAN.

Thrud is agreeing with those who think a guy is required to create drama (or whatever you want to call it). I am saying men do NOT have to and should NOT do this. It's not about semantics or terminology...it's about the whole concept of putting women on an "emotional rollercoaster".

lol. As I've said before, were basically saying the same thing...In other words, in more or less we are agreeing. That's why it's a stupid argument based on semantics.

But the problem is that some of us ARE JUST LEARNING how to be man. So for us, we DO have to worry about doing these things, until eventually we are sure enough of ourselves that they come naturally. Until then it's all good and well to say "Just BE A MAN". But there are many of us who are thinking, "how?". Well...JUST BE A MAN!
You see it's not that much help. So learning to do you own stuff, and live your own life, and ensure a little bit of swing and sway in the relationship is something that some of us need to work on. It's not something that comes naturally to alot of the people that post here. Which is why this topic is perfectly valid.

Again, it's the same thing, which is why a semantics debate is pointless.

 

[Wyldfire]

nishbuk...any man who instigates drama is a little biotch who is acting like a woman. Part of "being a man" is not being a little biotch. It's really quite simple...

 

[Lost In Translation]

you wanna take a chick on a roller coaster ride ?

TAKE HER TO A THEME PARK


all this talk about drama

as a MAN you should avoid drama

infact as a MAN you should be ALLERGIC to drama

drama queens

you wanna feed them ?

turn them into a bigger monster ?

like ICE CUBE says to chicks : " save the drama for your mama "


yes b*tches love drama

but theres 2 sorts of women when it comes to drama

a normal healthy woman who likes drama but prefers a good time

and the new breed of TRASH i see coming up who act like they from a housing commission / projects / ghetto / trailer park background

these b*tches are dangerous. drama 24/7 cause nobody works in the neighbourhood so they grow watching them mother b*tching and talking $hit about everybody and everything

i have been with so many chicks like this

drama is in their DNA they will ruin your life beware !

now you got these young chicks doing the whole Paris Hilton deal

drama drama drama. everybodys gotta be talking about me.


Don Juans you don't want a woman that craves drama more than a woman should naturally

and drama is a substitute for boredom

you get a non trailer trash woman and be a REAL MAN and she won't crave drama. she will crave you.

i am all the fun and excitment any woman thats with me needs.

i am a rock. and the woman i am with holds on to that rock.

she feels special just being with me

JUST BE YOURSELF

be confident in who you are and express this to your woman

drama ?

I AM NOT MOVED

drama ?

I AM NOT MOVED

why ?

I AM A MAN


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Re: Re: Putting women on an emotional roller coaster ride

Originally posted by Wyldfire
Why on earth would you want to intentionally create drama in your involvements with women? That's what you should be trying to avoid and not tolerating. You shouldn't be seeking it out or trying to create it. That's just foolish.

YEAH!!!

Especially since most of them are perpetually on an emotional roller coaster because of their own accord!

 

[jprjrjr]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
If you can't deal with women on this forum, Sugarbritches, then you don't stand a snowball's chance in hell dealing with them in the real world.



This can only be applied to women you actually know. Common sense should tell you that since you don't actually know any of the women posting on this forum in real life...that talking point is totally irrelevent.



Yes, I come here to give advice and yes, I'm a woman. You're a bloody genius, aren't you...



I'm not "acting"...I am different. I certainly don't attribute my being different to me posting here, though. I was who I am long before coming here. In fact, I was probably already quite unique back when you were still having your diapers changed.



Um...if I give "crap advice" then why do I have posts in the DJ Bible? You've been here all of what, 6 months? You're still whining over women posting here for crying out loud.

I "don't know what I want"? And how on earth would you know if I do or not? You don't know me. All you know is that I have tits and that it makes you uncomfortable around me because you're crying that I shouldn't be here.

Go back to the sandbox and play with your Tonka Trucks if you can't deal with women posting here...

You're an absolute moron wyldfyre. You think just because you talk your psychotic babble on a DJ board that makes you different?

I doubt you have tits bytch, and if you do, they get sucked by other women.

I've seen your picture before. You're an old, ugly, fvcking *****. You try and tell these guys what a man should be, you don't even know how to be a woman.

You're just a frustrated old hag, who can't get a man.

I deal fine with women in real life, just not frustrated old hens, who have an overinflated view of themselves.


P.S. You'll notice this bytch will periodically say she's leaving the board to create drama. When nobody responds, then she goes whining to the board owner. The stupid cvnt even tried to start her own DJ board and couldn't get anybody to join:crackup:

You're a fvcking joke wyldfyre. You have been since the beginning.

 

[nishbuk]

too harsh dude. Shut the hell up.