Hi Guys,
I am new to this forum (first post, not a native English speaker). I Went through quite a lot of the posts and kind of agree with the experienced DJs. But there is one thing which I was questioning myself all the time while reading. And this thing was the sole reason I found this forum anyway. And I am questioning myself this question 10 years ago without the clear answer. I have some negative evidence (2.5 unsuccessful tries), but this only convinced me that I was not good enough. The question is:
When something goes wrong with the girl. Is it possible to revert things. And I MEAN TO CHANGE THE SITUATION. Not only to improve yourself (this is of course one of the best DJ things), but to make her (or allow her to) fall in LOVE with you and not NEXT the girl.
I mean, for me this would be the only REAL PROOF that we indeed have some sort of control and that it is possible to win things in life with a real Personal Power.
Please, don't get me wrong. I do believe that this DJ stuff is beneficial. But I kind of came to all the same or similar DJ conclusions myself already. (Be better, be a man, don't be wussy, etc..). And only see the real deal here if it is really possible to do something like this with will, patience and getting better.
If some of you are willing to help me with that (or are at similar situation) I would like to share what the situation is and how I am dealing with it. I have a plan (not sure if good one, so I ask some MDJ for guidance).
Maybe just one more word. I consider myself quite good in DJ stuff (finding it mostly on my own through experience). Besides that I was as well a bit lucky so I am above average looking, and have covered other areas in my life quite well. A lot of girls are calling me all the time and wanting to sleep with me if not anything else (6-8s). But this makes me only sad and unhappy with my love life and makes me think more about the girl I am in love (or infatuated with). And I am kind of the guy who never gives up (this bothers me sometimes).
The story about the girl might be interesting from the DJ perspective as well, because we were close to have something 2 times from the initially her having a boyfriend and then rejected me harshly. Now we are in a semi rejected state.
I appreciate your points of view.
I am new to this forum (first post, not a native English speaker). I Went through quite a lot of the posts and kind of agree with the experienced DJs. But there is one thing which I was questioning myself all the time while reading. And this thing was the sole reason I found this forum anyway. And I am questioning myself this question 10 years ago without the clear answer. I have some negative evidence (2.5 unsuccessful tries), but this only convinced me that I was not good enough. The question is:
When something goes wrong with the girl. Is it possible to revert things. And I MEAN TO CHANGE THE SITUATION. Not only to improve yourself (this is of course one of the best DJ things), but to make her (or allow her to) fall in LOVE with you and not NEXT the girl.
I mean, for me this would be the only REAL PROOF that we indeed have some sort of control and that it is possible to win things in life with a real Personal Power.
Please, don't get me wrong. I do believe that this DJ stuff is beneficial. But I kind of came to all the same or similar DJ conclusions myself already. (Be better, be a man, don't be wussy, etc..). And only see the real deal here if it is really possible to do something like this with will, patience and getting better.
If some of you are willing to help me with that (or are at similar situation) I would like to share what the situation is and how I am dealing with it. I have a plan (not sure if good one, so I ask some MDJ for guidance).
Maybe just one more word. I consider myself quite good in DJ stuff (finding it mostly on my own through experience). Besides that I was as well a bit lucky so I am above average looking, and have covered other areas in my life quite well. A lot of girls are calling me all the time and wanting to sleep with me if not anything else (6-8s). But this makes me only sad and unhappy with my love life and makes me think more about the girl I am in love (or infatuated with). And I am kind of the guy who never gives up (this bothers me sometimes).
The story about the girl might be interesting from the DJ perspective as well, because we were close to have something 2 times from the initially her having a boyfriend and then rejected me harshly. Now we are in a semi rejected state.
I appreciate your points of view.