Put that work in, face the hardships because the otherside is beautiful

[Paper Crane]

We all reach a major mountain that we must climb in our lives. Some might reach it earlier in life, others later in life..

But just keep pushing through that ****. I've had a crazy rollercoaster of a life and things weren't always this good.. But, just keep going, it only gets better.

You can literally have everything you want. That smoking hot pornstar looking chick, she can be yours. Having sex with beautiful women with no strings attached, having that life of luxury, that job you want, the freedom to do whatever, the fearlessness to roam the earth like its your backyard.

It's all possible. But, use logic and practicality first. Measure your goals by realistic values. The battle is harder when you're going for goals that are too unrealistic.

Once you get over that mountain I'm telling you, its friggin' beautiful. But you HAVE To put the work in. The universe wants to break you till you can't go no more. It wants you to say you're ready to quit and give up on everything time and time over.. It wants you to crawl , sweaty, tears in your eyes, in pain, stressed out. It wants you to face the physical and mental anguish.. It wants to test your emotions.

And if you can prove to the Universe, that you won't give up.. The Universe will grant you what you desire. But, what you desire might not be what you wanted or thought it would be. The destination isn't where happiness lies. The goals will never satisfy you. Sure, you might find solace and comfort and joy in the things you attain, but life is a journey. It's never meant to satisfy you completely. But if you can find peace in the things you can relish in daily, and fall in love with the ups and downs, the trials and tribulations, you will always be happy.

 

[Paper Crane]

This Easter was beautiful for me and really eye opening. I had an amazing threesome and damn near melted in the orgasm and bliss that I found myself in a bed with 2 of the hottest girls possible, and to know that they're here for me, and would put aside their egos and prides to share this pleasure with me.. Was f-ing beautiful. After the other girl left and it was me and my main chick.. We sat and I told her honestly, yeah I've been sleeping with girls on Tinder but to me she's special and I feel that we can be friends for a very long time. She agreed and she told me she hadn't slept with anyone in the time she was seeing me. She did have some guy take her out twice but more like a sugar daddy situation. I told her its whatever.. it doesn't bother me since we're NSA but.. I had a weird epiphany and told her that honestly I feel like I want to just focus on other things right now and be on the pinnacle of some greater stuff.

I got into this whole idea about how we as humans are so sexually perversed and how this isn't what life shouldbe like and that we as a human race have so much more to focus on besides sex and partying and reaching high level material goals..and all this spiritual stuff about how we as humans can change the world and learn to value humanity and helping others and gratitude and teaching good morals and more beautiful things than what we settle for and create..

and I was blown away and surprised by her agreeing to everything.. and saying she always felt the same way but she was always ashamed to say it because of society, and only fell into all these things as a coping mechanism.. for her, her beauty, body, superficial looks, and attention she gets was like how she boosts herself up to feel good and have a high self esteem.

I literally had thought of her as a complete bimbo when I I first met her, which made it so easy for me to not like her on an emotional level deeply because I felt like she was the type I could never fall for. But the more I got to know her in the past 2-3 monthsof seeing her, I've noticed that she's alot like myself.. Just not as sophisticated when it comes to interests (I have tons of **** im into...a vast range of different topics of interest)

In the midst of all my epiphany and spiritual moment I had. (no we didn't do shrooms or lsd lol) I told her that I'm probably going to stop seeing her for a while. She talked me out of it though she said I was too punch drunk off the sex and alcohol and she was right. But, even as I right this I do feel this epiphany like... Is this it? I mean this isn't it. I've worked hard t oget to this point, and I enjoy this level of lustful experience greatly.. But, I now know that this isn't all I want.. and now that I have this, I want to focus more on being a great human being.. and playing my part to help the world be a better place..

I mean I already volunteer a bit.. but maybe I can start a business (im in business) or a non profit or something to do more.

 

[Çharismo]

@Paper Crane

Good job on the threesome!!!

I’m glad you had these epiphanies because a lot of “successful” people will tell you that once they reached there “goals” whether it was to attain fame, fortune, women, status, obtaining any material objects, or anything else there heart desired they actually became very sad and unhappy with there lives because they felt as if they finally arrived but now they lacked purpose and the struggle they went through to get where they are seemed as if it was over. So what they started doing was to give back to the world in there own ways... that’s why you hear about all the philanthropy that all the rich millionaires and billionaires do.

They have an abundance of wealth that they literally give away to charities, non-profits, venture capitalism, scholarships, or any other organization that they feel promotes there vision. (Plus they also get massive tax write offs as well.) They also give a lot of there time by doing mentor-ships and volunteering in the community. But I tell you what it’s a thankless job and most people would rather take than give so if you do decide to give back some way some how you need to be well aware of the scams, “startups”, “investment” opportunities and everything else that comes along with giving back to the world no matter what path you decide.

I know my post sounds negative but I’m just trying to make sure that you are well aware of everything that will come your way if and when you decide to pursue this path. It’s a noble path and you don’t need to do something massive to spark something in the world but just volunteering like you already do and expanding on that might help you get started. Rather than starting your own non-profit join an established one with credibility and good reputation and take it from there. Maybe you might be able to expand the organization even more and take it to greater heights.

Most people that you meet in life have a scarcity mindset and are busy trying to survive and get by rather than thrive...so giving back on a larger scale or giving anything at all never crosses there minds. But there are also a lot of great people that do things anonymously and spark ideas in peoples mind and inspire them in other ways. Maybe you could be one of them.

Keep up the “HARD” work!!! If you know what I mean.

 

[Paper Crane]

@Çharismo Hey man thanks for the post. It means alot and I definitely take what you say in stride because I totally feel like everything you said is spot on. I sometimes get into those modes and just really feel this glow of wanting to do more for myself and society and not just stay at these low levels of desire. I know that I probably won't fully get there until much later, but I love that I have glimpses of it at an early age because I already realized that a lot of what us younger people settle for is waste and doesn't contribute well to society. We also have a tendency to follow the crowd and compare ourselves to others a lot.

 

[Çharismo]

@Çharismo Hey man thanks for the post. It means alot and I definitely take what you say in stride because I totally feel like everything you said is spot on. I sometimes get into those modes and just really feel this glow of wanting to do more for myself and society and not just stay at these low levels of desire. I know that I probably won't fully get there until much later, but I love that I have glimpses of it at an early age because I already realized that a lot of what us younger people settle for is waste and doesn't contribute well to society. We also have a tendency to follow the crowd and compare ourselves to others a lot.

Your welcome my friend!!

It takes time to mature and develop self-awareness but the learning curve can be steep. Believe it or not everyone has had those types of thoughts at least once in there life about changing the world or contributing to society in some way shape or form. If you want to do it on a massive level then you have to start small and start now and connect with the right people because years will pass until you actually see some results or some sort of change that you are working on. You have to stay very patient and you might even think about quitting ...but that is half the battle.

Another thing you have to keep in mind is that in order to change anything in the world you have to be a problem solver. You have to solve problems, be an innovator, and or even be a “disrupter”. All of this takes time but the payoffs can be huge but it is also a lot of work and you will have to dedicate a portion of your life to the cause of your liking.

There is a saying that comparison is the thief of joy and you comparing yourself to anyone is not going to do you any good. You always see the end product or result but rarely do people reveal all the hard work, sweat and tears that have gone into achieving what seems to require no effort. Most people are lazy and don’t want to put the work in to achieve what it is that they desire. In addition, thanks to social-media all you see are the highlights of people’s lives and of course filtered and edited pictures to show there best side.

Human beings naturally tend to size each other up and become envious of each other but as I’ve gotten older I’ve given less of a sh!t about a lot of frivolous things such as comparing myself to anyone because I realized that everyone’s path is different and everyone is on a different journey headed to a completely different or even similar destination as yours. It’s natural to want to compare yourself to others but it’s a waste of energy and requires more maturing on your part. People tend to put up a lot of masks but discerning and exercising the right judgement and being able to see through all the bs is a skill in itself that you must master.