Theminatar said:
This girl I'm interested doesn't text people back, when I asked why all she replied with "Don't worry about it". I kept asking why and she answered with the same thing over and over to the point she got pissed and said, "Don't ****ing worry about it!" After that I told her no, she'll hate me for it, but I will continue to worry about it.
Stop making her seem like she's the prize. Your constant questioning of her not answering texts is just you stroking her ego without you knowing it. It's giving her more power and making you look weaker at the same time by making her feel more important than she really is.
After some thought I realized I shouldn't keep pushing someone to open up so I sent and apology text.
Apologize for what??? She using a cuss word at you?? she should be the one apologizing to you! You totally played this wrong.
NEVER APOLOGIZE TO A WOMAN EVER AGAIN! It's a basic rule that if you didn't know by now then now you know. It doesn't make you attractive it makes you weak. Women like men that don't apologize to anybody and are accountable for their own actions.
The only thing you will get with apologizing to women is being seen by women as a weak nice guy.
I guess my question is, how bad did I mess up? And can this be fixed? She keeps her emotions to herself and I want her to open up to me.
Do the opposite of what everyone & you do with her. You are probably not the first dude to try to get her to open up. With women the guys that win are those that are "different."
I would try the following tactics
1. show sexual interest in her: call her sexy, talk about you two kissing, get her to picture you two together, try to get her wet.
2. neg her and break her down: so you tried being nice to her like everybody else and that didn't work. Try to the opposite.
I would try one of the two tactics above but don't take this gal too seriously. Use her as an experiment but don't put too much effort.
