push-pull

[Pro Gamer]

i have tried push pull on another girl as well today and it worked as well because i got to know her name. she even told me her fb account name which i don't know if i can find because it's hard to find someone on fb but i love the fact that it worked

in past i have tried many things approaching girls such as calling random girls cute and saying that i like them but they never worked. this is the first time that i am seeing something actually work

i wonder do you think if there is any similar technique to this and how often should i use push pull? if even i can attract her through push-pull, what should i do next to end up connecting with her and getting to sleep with her?

 

[Stanley]

Don't attribute your 'success' to some dated pick up term.

Push and pull is a crass way of understanding the dynamic between men and women in attraction. I like to think of it as a dance or a call and return situation. She moves left, you pull to the right, she leans in, you leaver her on the edge. It is something that should come natural in flirtation and doing the dance, don't get to into the terms here.

i have tried push pull on another girl as well today and it worked as well because i got to know her name. she even told me her fb account name which i don't know if i can find because it's hard to find someone on fb but i love the fact that it worked

Getting her Fb account means little to nothing in this instance she didn't even actually give you her profile name. That aside, good that you can communicate and hopefully instill good vibes in this girl and leave with a positive impression. Your mindset going in should be to have fun with the exchange and not be outcome dependent.

in past i have tried many things approaching girls such as calling random girls cute and saying that i like them but they never worked. this is the first time that i am seeing something actually work

This comes down to the girls inherent interest level and baseline attraction to you. Coming up to girls and saying these lines will likely make them uncomfortable or have you appear as desperate, you are more than likely to get flat out rejected. If you are experienced, suave and funny that is a different story... but that type of approach needs nuance and to be natural which you likely don't yet possess (in time)...

i wonder do you think if there is any similar technique to this and how often should i use push pull? if even i can attract her through push-pull, what should i do next to end up connecting with her and getting to sleep with her?

Get out of future thinking.

The past is rooted in depression and regret, the future is rife with anxiety and rumination. Stay present and care less about outcomes and what if's. If you maintain this formulaic approach you 'think' is winning her favor, then you are likely to incorrectly input a part of this equation and screw the whole shebang. Instead, be self assured, confident and relaxed. Next time you cross paths with her man up and ask for her number and get a more concrete answer okay? And while you're cleary in musth here, quit thinking with your willy. Women will pick up on the sexual desperation.

Meanwhile, don't pin away for this girl, keep a small space in the back of your mind for her, but focus on other women and things that are important to you. Take the concepts and ideas you learn and apply them on a wider scale and cumulatively become a more charismatic man through trial and error.

 

[Pro Gamer]

Don't attribute your 'success' to some dated pick up term.

Push and pull is a crass way of understanding the dynamic between men and women in attraction. I like to think of it as a dance or a call and return situation. She moves left, you pull to the right, she leans in, you leaver her on the edge. It is something that should come natural in flirtation and doing the dance, don't get to into the terms here.



Getting her Fb account means little to nothing in this instance she didn't even actually give you her profile name. That aside, good that you can communicate and hopefully instill good vibes in this girl and leave with a positive impression. Your mindset going in should be to have fun with the exchange and not be outcome dependent.



This comes down to the girls inherent interest level and baseline attraction to you. Coming up to girls and saying these lines will likely make them uncomfortable or have you appear as desperate, you are more than likely to get flat out rejected. If you are experienced, suave and funny that is a different story... but that type of approach needs nuance and to be natural which you likely don't yet possess (in time)...



Get out of future thinking.

The past is rooted in depression and regret, the future is rife with anxiety and rumination. Stay present and care less about outcomes and what if's. If you maintain this formulaic approach you 'think' is winning her favor, then you are likely to incorrectly input a part of this equation and screw the whole shebang. Instead, be self assured, confident and relaxed. Next time you cross paths with her man up and ask for her number and get a more concrete answer okay? And while you're cleary in musth here, quit thinking with your willy. Women will pick up on the sexual desperation.

Meanwhile, don't pin away for this girl, keep a small space in the back of your mind for her, but focus on other women and things that are important to you. Take the concepts and ideas you learn and apply them on a wider scale and cumulatively become a more charismatic man through trial and error.

i will see what works for me and try some of the classic stuffs as well because it has been working for decades for others. i didn't get memorize a push pull line rather i made up my own because the lines used in america in nightgame won't be the same for a muslim country in daygame

 

[Stanley]

i will see what works for me and try some of the classic stuffs as well because it has been working for decades for others. i didn't get memorize a push pull line rather i made up my own because the lines used in america in nightgame won't be the same for a muslim country in daygame

No one uses pre meditated lines here, very rarely I'd argue. Work on your social skills broadly, improve your sense for social interaction, identify interest, learn to move things forward and lead (that is universal). Go read some Pook

 

[Pro Gamer]

No one uses pre meditated lines here, very rarely I'd argue. Work on your social skills broadly, improve your sense for social interaction, identify interest, learn to move things forward and lead (that is universal). Go read some Pook

but i will use whatever works if even it's pre meditated lines. you always have to observe something about a woman before starting a converasation about it.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

There's also a difference between following a scenario or prepping some creative answers for standard questions.

Like having an unusual answer to:
"What do you do for a living?"
"How many women have you been with?"
"Would you have sex with a transgender?"
"Why does nobody expect the Spanish Inquisition?"

Or the one I always get:
"Why are you so popular with women?"
"How did you train your cat to ride your shoulder like that?"